So why is it that girls are always attracted to "bad boy" honkeetonkin pool playing buttheads like me. And always leave those wimpy azz nice guys broken and bleeding watching the Hallmark channel?

Because we're more fun and a challenge.

long as i get mine, i don't care when they finish. kidding,
of course, sort of. :)~ ((and welcome back quietman!))

Don't need a bad boy but if you find those that do more power to ya kiddo.

stoopidazz nice guy pu..., p..., poo..., uhhhh woosies!

I have always preferred the "bad boy" image guess that explains why I have been married and divorced twice... ugh.

I am working hard at trying to change what I like in a guy but its so darn hard.

Im alot more attracted to the nice guys, they never break your heart.

It's not only the honkeetonkin, pool playing bad boys that gets the girls. Us goofy/dorky/Wii Bowling/skee balling/watersport loving/video game playing nerds are getting in on this too. Why? Cause women love a man who can push many buttons with his hands.

i am an example, i could never play the macho badboy type and therefore i find myself single..... kinda ironic is it not LOL

Any single man for a serious relationship...please from 40 above. :-)

hahaha
I bet you don't even validate.

Ya sadly us good guys don't have much luck. Actually I know.some girls who like good guys, unfortunetly their all married. Seriously they started dating at like 14 and married their high school sweet hearts. Their all happily married it sucks for the good guys like me who missed the good girls in high school.

Now I resort to online hoping to find some left in my province sadly nope cant find any! Though I did find some great girls from Nigeria and the US and else where.

Sadly I'm looking for a real relationship one where I actually can date the girl. Long distance would work for me only if the relationship was pre established.

Though I notice that the majority of girls who are claiming they want a good guy, their all smoking hot and I even got told one was out of my league. She wanted her white knight the amazing Christian gentleman who had rock hard abs!

Sorry you won't find that! Their either married already or they know that girls will sleep with them and they often end up becoming players!

If you want a good guy your going to have to look at everything.

PS if your a smoking hot Christian girl and you think your settling if the guy isn't ripped. Sorry your not settling in fact the guy who doesn't have the six pack might be way out of your league from a personality and spiritual level.

I know a happily married girl who always talks about how she settled. lol the guy was ten times the person she was he was a virgin, he had the amazing career, he was loving and caring and he looked past her past.

If anything the guy settled lol, but he doesn't mind letting her believe she settled cuz he loves her.

I find it easier to be a good guy gone bad...

first of all sick of this question.

you can be a nice guy without being a pushover. If a woman is dumb and wants a sleazy guy then she deserves what she gets. Also tired of women blaming all guys when they should be blaming themselves for choosing so poorly.

Some nice guys are slaves and pushovers. That's not being nice; that's being insecure and spineless.

Have manners, respect the woman, treat her right and also make sure you are treated right. We teach people how to treat us. Don't be disrespected.

well written,,,I concur

nice does not mean pushover or wimpy

women are attracted, most times , to confidence and strength in a man


there is moer chance a 'bad boy' will have those traits than a 'wimp'

but there is absolutely no reason a good man has to be a wimp,,,

I find the bad boys the biggest turn off ever. They tend to come with drinking, drugs, cheating and bs mind games. Give me a man who knows how to protect, love and put family first and I would be the happiest woman around.

I always thought of myself as a "nice guy". Then I thought sometime ago, hey, I am a cheater, a commitment phobic, etc., I am not a nice guy. So now I read unnice guys do drugs, drink, and play bs mind games. So I say, I don't do them, I am a nice guy after all. Then I read on, and see that nice guys protect, work, give the money to the wife, love them -0- if that's what a nice guy is, then he sure ain't me.

Please somebody tell me if I am a nice guy or an evil bachelor; a cool dude or a no-good low-life philosopher; a passable lover or a rebel without a couch.

No comment.

If a woman KNOWS he's a sleaze and continues to date him, then i agree...she has no cause for complaint when he decides to screw her over.

Operative word here is BOY<<----<<<self explanatory right there! They're great fun to hang out with if all you're after is a good time

Just don't be expecting anything more