Yes, I am with you on that one. Men and women both pull this stunt. Personally, I value my relationship with a significant other when I have one. What a pity, for both of them.

It's not the gender that is the issue lilott. Tis the supposed "through thick & thin" and all that other accompanying deeply committed "stuff".

There's also the consequence of what could happen when a person who is genuinely looking for that someone and is played by a married person.

Married but looking people cheapen the sanctity of marriage.

See, I think women look at the 'married'/'looking
for intimate encounter' as a way to eliminate that
user as a possibility.

Whereas men look at it as, 'oh wow, there's a category
for this?!'

I am willing enough as a participant... and plenty, as well, as I weigh 210 lbs (100 Kg.)

Yet there is no long line of married women who want me, by my front door. Not even a short line. Nothing. Nada. Zilch.

I say. I say, the married people have just as much trouble finding a partner as we, single people. Let's not eat all the sour grapes before they hatch.

HAHAHAHA, hee-hee-hee, HAHAHAHA!!!

You made me laugh out aloud, Soph! This was really funny.

Doesn't this belong in emails? Not on the forum?

Why so??...do the possible unsuspecting recipients out there not deserve to be informed of 'married players'???

Edit because benefit of the doubt prevented me from adding something that would lead to a whole different issue...yet again

The forums is where we hash out all sorts of things.

OK, I stand corrected!!

Good eye for detail on the "ring" thing.

hehehehehe It is usually the little things that give em away.

(Unless it is a angry spouse pounding on the door...generally a sign that they are married)

Yes, and in Florida we look for a tan line where the ring was the day before! Ha ha ha !

I am nearly always plan B.

Odd how a married mans demeanour sticks out like a tan line among the non married. Tis hard to explain, but their whole body language differs, and unless you aren't attuned to body language....it is rather difficult to spot.

Only if you are a woman....guys can spot a loser guy from a mile away. Just like ladies can detect a skank.

I ain't complaining! I am thrilled my woman has f*n horrible taste in men. She screwed up and chose me.....I can blame her for EVERYTHING!

:)

you still looking

No...they seem to find me

I guess you didn't have the characteristics that this man was looking for in a woman anyway.

....Lack of awareness, low standards, etc.

Not only that, do not forget tattoo-ing is very popular these days and they would tat their wedding ring fingers and when they divorce, they are stuck with those fingers of theirs with the tats on. Can not help it there! I can name a couple of actresses who did this and they are sorry for it.

Unless you are an albino or dark Black, you are stuck with the tan line.

I recalled when I was younger, before I married my wrong one and divorced her, I am talking about when I was in my 20's and I had some real strange weird females wanting me. I was like no thanks! So, my friends told me to get a wedding ring and I did and I was successfully to avoid types I do not want. When I like someone, I take it off. I also wore it when I was not in mood to find someone.

When I married, I wore it and stay on ring but after that, divorced. Ring was taken off of my finger.