Topic: Questions for women who KNOW they are attractive to men
no photo
Wed 05/30/12 04:25 PM
Edited by singmesweet on Wed 05/30/12 04:27 PM
Thanks :smile:

I just see no reason to be rude just because someone is interested. Politely say that you're not interested if they make it known to you. Unless the guy doesn't listen and keeps bugging you, I see no reason to be rude.

no photo
Wed 05/30/12 04:31 PM

sheesh, after looking at these answers, no wonder there are so many women without a man...i hope you women are happy by purposely taking yourself out like this...


Personally, I don't think honesty should make someone less attractive to another. I also don't think that it's a character flaw to know what about you attracts someone to you.

msmyka's photo
Wed 05/30/12 04:35 PM

sheesh, after looking at these answers, no wonder there are so many women without a man...i hope you women are happy by purposely taking yourself out like this...


If only you knew what it's like being on the other end of it...

Nice, normal, polite guys don't just come up and say hi. It's always the creepers who stare from far away and approach like they are hunting.

no photo
Wed 05/30/12 04:38 PM
Edited by singmesweet on Wed 05/30/12 04:39 PM


sheesh, after looking at these answers, no wonder there are so many women without a man...i hope you women are happy by purposely taking yourself out like this...


If only you knew what it's like being on the other end of it...

Nice, normal, polite guys don't just come up and say hi. It's always the creepers who stare from far away and approach like they are hunting.


See, it's different if it's a creepy guy who doesn't take no as an answer. But, from reading this thread, it seems like some women treat everyone like that.

Though, I do disagree - nice, normal, polite guys do come up to say hi. It's definitely not always creepy men.

no photo
Wed 05/30/12 04:40 PM


sheesh, after looking at these answers, no wonder there are so many women without a man...i hope you women are happy by purposely taking yourself out like this...


If only you knew what it's like being on the other end of it...



This is true.

Kahurangi's photo
Wed 05/30/12 04:41 PM
I know what I like in a 'man' and when I see it, he'll be the first one to know about it.

Where in the post did I state I was effen rude??

And I would rather be alone than settle for some whiny biotch boi whose entire universe revolves around his ding-a-ling.

Get it?..got it?...good!

Pfffttttt

msmyka's photo
Wed 05/30/12 04:42 PM



sheesh, after looking at these answers, no wonder there are so many women without a man...i hope you women are happy by purposely taking yourself out like this...


If only you knew what it's like being on the other end of it...

Nice, normal, polite guys don't just come up and say hi. It's always the creepers who stare from far away and approach like they are hunting.


See, it's different if it's a creepy guy who doesn't take no as an answer. But, from reading this thread, it seems like some women treat everyone like that.

Though, I do disagree - nice, normal, polite guys do come up to say hi. It's definitely not always creepy men.


Apparently tattoos and flaming red hair are like a flare for creepers and somewhat intimidating to nice guys slaphead

Tessie_ID's photo
Sun 06/03/12 07:12 PM


You can be walking down the street (or in a store), and men would approach and ask for your name and number.

Never happened to me.

Or you're at the club and they offer to buy you a drink.

Never happened to me.

Pretty much wherever you are, men shower you with attention, even if you just met.

Never happened to me.

1. Can you describe what's it like to be attractive to men?

Sorry no I can't.

2. How do you now expect the average man to behave when he notices you for the first time?

He runs quickly in the opposite direction.

3. What do you think of men in general as it relates to them being attracted to you? Thanks.

Since they are not attracted to me, I think they are chickens, but what do I know?



Oh wait, this is only for women who KNOW they are attractive to men. Sheesh slaphead I thought this was to make me feel bad about myself because no one notices me. :laughing:


This

lmao


mightymoe's photo
Sun 06/03/12 09:37 PM


sheesh, after looking at these answers, no wonder there are so many women without a man...i hope you women are happy by purposely taking yourself out like this...


If only you knew what it's like being on the other end of it...

Nice, normal, polite guys don't just come up and say hi. It's always the creepers who stare from far away and approach like they are hunting.

how would you know? if there is more "creepers" than non creepers, maybe your attitude is wrong, instead of theirs... just saying, if your not finding what you want, maybe your looking at it wrong?

mightymoe's photo
Sun 06/03/12 09:41 PM

I know what I like in a 'man' and when I see it, he'll be the first one to know about it.

Where in the post did I state I was effen rude??

And I would rather be alone than settle for some whiny biotch boi whose entire universe revolves around his ding-a-ling.

Get it?..got it?...good!

Pfffttttt


thats fine, no one says you have to have someone to share your life with. nobody had said anything about you, so i'm not real sure why the rant here. good luck with the ding-a-lings
indifferent

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 06/03/12 10:34 PM

You can be walking down the street (or in a store), and men would approach and ask for your name and number. Or you're at the club and they offer to buy you a drink. Pretty much wherever you are, men shower you with attention, even if you just met. And after years of experiences like these, you've come to realize that you're attractive to men, and you know it. I have 3 questions about this:

1. Can you describe what's it like to be attractive to men?

2. How do you now expect the average man to behave when he notices you for the first time?

3. What do you think of men in general as it relates to them being attracted to you? Thanks.



1. I smile and nod. I don't don't read much into it.

2. I don't "expect" anything.

3. I would say they have good taste.. winking

mscherbear's photo
Sun 06/03/12 11:47 PM
Sheesh. How would I know? They may look from time to time, but rarely am I approached. grumble

Mirage4279's photo
Mon 06/04/12 12:31 AM

Sheesh. How would I know? They may look from time to time, but rarely am I approached. grumble


I aproached you share but I was watching you take a shower. happy Does that count?

Kahurangi's photo
Mon 06/04/12 02:42 AM



sheesh, after looking at these answers, no wonder there are so many women without a man...i hope you women are happy by purposely taking yourself out like this...


I kind of wondered the same thing..


not trying to be rude, but seriously, just because a guy is interested is a reason to be like that? that just amazes me to no end... to bad there is not more women with your attitude, sing...
flowerforyou


"not trying to be rude"??? Why would you even think you were?? :smile:

What are you doing in the girls loo anyhoo? spock

indianadave4's photo
Mon 06/04/12 01:56 PM

1. Can you describe what's it like to be attractive to men?
Yes, you learn how NOT to make eye contact.

2. How do you now expect the average man to behave when he notices you for the first time?
You will see the wheels turning, trying to figure out what move to make. I move fast and try to look stupid.

3. What do you think of men in general as it relates to them being attracted to you? Thanks.
I believe them to be shallow, grass is greener types.




Unless I misunderstand the English language your responses to numbers 1 and 2 are not answers to the questions. They seem almost like you hate and mistrust all men.

If a gentleman is attracted to you why is he shallow? Isn't male/female attraction normal? If a woman possesses this type of attitude men will steer clear of her. Especially men with good motives. Jerks, on the other hand ......

msmyka's photo
Mon 06/04/12 02:03 PM



sheesh, after looking at these answers, no wonder there are so many women without a man...i hope you women are happy by purposely taking yourself out like this...


If only you knew what it's like being on the other end of it...

Nice, normal, polite guys don't just come up and say hi. It's always the creepers who stare from far away and approach like they are hunting.

how would you know? if there is more "creepers" than non creepers, maybe your attitude is wrong, instead of theirs... just saying, if your not finding what you want, maybe your looking at it wrong?


I have a man I just like to post in the forums here. Unless I am mistaken this thread's topic is about how women deal with men who approach them based on their looks alone. Personality wise I attract really awesome guys (for the most part). The creepers are the ones who make their attraction be known when they stare at you like you're already naked.

no photo
Mon 06/04/12 02:10 PM




sheesh, after looking at these answers, no wonder there are so many women without a man...i hope you women are happy by purposely taking yourself out like this...


If only you knew what it's like being on the other end of it...

Nice, normal, polite guys don't just come up and say hi. It's always the creepers who stare from far away and approach like they are hunting.

how would you know? if there is more "creepers" than non creepers, maybe your attitude is wrong, instead of theirs... just saying, if your not finding what you want, maybe your looking at it wrong?


I have a man I just like to post in the forums here. Unless I am mistaken this thread's topic is about how women deal with men who approach them based on their looks alone. Personality wise I attract really awesome guys (for the most part). The creepers are the ones who make their attraction be known when they stare at you like you're already naked.



No clue what you're talking about >>>>>> drool


laugh

soufiehere's photo
Mon 06/04/12 02:19 PM


1. Can you describe what's it like to be attractive to men?
Yes, you learn how NOT to make eye contact.

2. How do you now expect the average man to behave when he notices you for the first time?
You will see the wheels turning, trying to figure out what move to make. I move fast and try to look stupid.

3. What do you think of men in general as it relates to them being attracted to you? Thanks.
I believe them to be shallow, grass is greener types.




Unless I misunderstand the English language your responses to numbers 1 and 2 are not answers to the questions. They seem almost like you hate and mistrust all men.

If a gentleman is attracted to you why is he shallow? Isn't male/female attraction normal? If a woman possesses this type of attitude men will steer clear of her. Especially men with good motives. Jerks, on the other hand ......

Not everyone can be a scholar.

When you are, what men consider to be attractive, you
are under siege.
By people who do not know you.
You react accordingly.
It is really very simple.

And I am never rude.
That is the point of avoidance.

Dodo_David's photo
Mon 06/04/12 02:22 PM
... some whiny biotch boi whose entire universe revolves around his ding-a-ling.

Isn't that at least a third of the male population here?

josie68's photo
Mon 06/04/12 05:24 PM
Edited by josie68 on Mon 06/04/12 05:27 PM
Ok this is going to make me sound a bit dumb. But that's cool


1. Can you describe what's it like to be attractive to men?

For me when I was younger it was really nice to be found attractive, for me it gave me the confidence to make me think I could conquer the world. It's nice to always have someone looking out for you, I was friends with al the boys through school and even when I left school they still watched out for me and kept me safe.
However the downfall for me was thinking that I would be loved and treated nicely by everyone. Which left me very open to marry men who where abusive and me believing that they would be nice to menoway
The reason I decided to look on the internet for someone was because I cannot judge a persons character properly when I meet them, so fall for whoever is nice to menoway I figured at least on the internet I could learn a little more before I ended up with someone with major problems.

2. How do you now expect the average man to behave when he notices you for the first time?

Now that I am older, I expect blokes to like me because I am easy going, love to laugh and mess around. but I don't expect them to fall in love with me. I am not quiet so nieve now, but when I was younger I thought that most men would like me,noway

3. What do you think of men in general as it relates to them being attracted to you? Thanks.

I think that although most of the blokes who where attracted to me in the beginning actually ended up likeing me for me as they all ended up as great mates for most of my life, they where all into bikes, shooting and just having fun outside, even now I only have men as friends and they still look out for me.. I love men. I just cant relate to women.
I still expect them to be my friends and since I am the boss, they have to betongue2