I looked at your profile, and see your problem. You have too many friends.

A new guy will be first intimidated, then he figures you are too discriminating, and he will abandon the idea of approaching you lastly, thinking that you are asexual. (Not interested in sex. People who don't need sex, still need friends.)

Another problem is your location. People shy away from dating someone who lives in a place which they can't pronounce. "Hey, joe, I hear you have a new lady squeeze. Where does she live?" (Joe, blushed: ) : I don'n know.

This makes the peers believe that Joe is making up tall tales about a non-existent girlfriend.

really? ok so.. let me get this straight...

-too many friends is a problem.. so I should hide them?
I won't hide who I AM so why should I hide those I've come to call friend?
they're a part of WHO I am as they compliment my life with their presence!
if it intimidates someone from getting to know someone else that has friends (either in virtual or reality)? then that's not someone I want to be around in any case! I get many friend requests that I decline.. and I am very picky who I call friend! if someone looked at the date I registered THEN the # of friends.. an intelligent person would quickly surmise that I was maybe a little too discriminating!

-I've been called MANY things but NEVER an A-SEXUAL! (although have been called VERY sexual.. which is way on the other end of THAT spectrum!!)
but let's be frank.. any relationship I've known (be it mine OR others) that started sexually.. rarely (if EVER) endured.. so why would I want someone to know beFORE hand how sexually charged I can be? it all depends on the chemistry and you won't know if there IS any until you've met face to face.. I simply refuse to lure someone in on the pretense of insta-sex.. cuz it doesn't happen THAT fast for me.. at least not at this stage of my life.. I'm looking for MUCH more than just a good roll in the hay so shouldn't I put the ME of who I am out there? makes logical sense to me!

-thats where I live.. I should start lying about it's name? not a great way to start an honest relationship is it now and if JOE has a problem saying where I LIVE? it's likely he doesn't live in Quebec.. that said.. an easy reply would be "she's a Canadian and lives in Quebec.. gorgeous french woman.. ooh la la" trust me.. the actual city/town name won't make a LICK a difference..

bottom line is.. if he's scared off THAT easily? he's not my kind of guy! in my mind that would make him very judgemental and VERY insecure!
that said.. a Positive person would see a fun loving gal.. one who makes friends easily so should be fairly easy going and enjoys laughing.. WHERE I come from only denotes a cultural side that may NOT always fall into the norm.. so ANYone judging a person by their ability to say a persons location solely.. has serious intimacy issues!

thanks for your feedback though! opinions are ALWays welcome!

who's there??

they must REALLY value you're contribution if you're still there!!
with a 90% reduction.. I'd fire yer azz!!

You've just hit the 8.5 mark... For being so darn feisty!

awwww.. tanks John!! just tellin it like it IS!

boone.. I see you have twins following you now.. sheesh.. gone a lil over a week and you get an ENtourage!! NICE!!

No that's my way of telling ya I am a secret admirer......







Oh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Did I let the cat out of the bag?????????

you let a cat out???? WHERE???




I'll fess up.. I've been messin with you all this time boone.. that cat jumped outta it's bag that first "" "" you posted.. I'm WAYYYY smarter than I look!!

and practicing to be a politician.. how'm I doin??

Pretty good so far as I can see!!!!!!!!!!!

ACES!!