My fam disgusts me...

Not to get too personal but i mean...it seems like they are all friggin worthless losers that are perpetually broke and depressed. Yes..depression runs in my fam along with anger issues. Yay for genetics. I mean yes there are a lot of things (mental issues) that sometimes make life a lot more difficult but come on?! I'm sooooo tired of listening to how thats an excuse not to work, to sleep all day, to raise your children without a concept of how the REAL world works, to live the ghetto fab life...i mean cheezuz! Give me a got damned break already! It seems like its always the same friggin problems that they never drag themselves out of. Now...Before i "offend" anyone...you have to understand that i have a lot of experience (as well as personal) with mental disabilities, i.e. depression, anger issues, etc ... Trust me...I know what the symptoms of all those things are, i know what meds can do as well....but if you don't want to wallow in your sorrow forever you have to make an attempt to make it better! FRICK!

I'm just so disappointed and disgusted with ALL of them right now...

This ones in jail...that ones an alcoholic...this one is almost 50 and has had literally 2 jobs in their lifetime (and i don't mean they stuck with one place and retired i mean the jobs they had lasted for only a month each and they haven't worked since) .. that same ones always having money issues go friggin figure..this ones allowing their UNDERAGE kid to drop out of school cause apparently its too much to deal with...

AAHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!



FMFL

Do you feel better now that you have all of that out of your system?

[No sarcasm here. It's a serious question.]

Actually i kinda do considering i can't really vent about that to my fam since my fam is the prob.

Sounds like u have a great family lol

It is difficult to have a dysfunctional family (if you will) . Some of my family may fall into some interesting categories as well. The best I can do is acknowledge that they have a problem they just are unable to see or treat at the time.
Love and support is the best to offer at times like this. Stay strong.

I am new to this site .. what can make you happy is that you should make honest friends and it will take your worries away but don't make desperate or worthless friends ... if you ever feel like making a friend .. make sure not to ask for introduction on such a place like this .. i believe in real talk .. face to face introduction because ..here a place like this .. anyone can write anything .. real people are hard to find .. well i am in search of friends so far no luck .

Thanks guys...

I know all families have their issues..i guess what makes me angry the most (at least about my fam) is that almost every one of them use mental illness as an excuse...they are miserable but don't take necessary actions to fix their problems whether it be to get your *** up and get a job, stop living off each other, raise your children correctly, stop drinking....whatever it may be.

mental illness is never an excuse, so please don't call it an excuse. If they are suffering, then they need support.

my family are the same as yours, except my father has worked everyday of his life.

I hate them, they are horrible people. I stick with them to support them, because nodody else can stand them enough to support them.

They tell me I'm a rotten son, but I don't listen, because it's not the real them talking.

I dont know if it is possible for you, but I would have serious boundaries up. Dont let them drag you down or into their 'stuff'. Every family has their dysfunctions, maybe it helps to know you are not alone. At least you can choose your friends :-)

Thanks, my friends usually are the ones that choose me

Sounds like my family. I understand how you feel.

I try to stay out of it..its when the kids in the fam are affected by ******** that it then really really bothers me cause obviously its not their fault and they can't escape it like i can.

Sort of off topic but i don't really understand why this got moved to "chit chat" .... it wasn't meant to be chit chat but a general kind of post. Hmmmmmk?

All 'Me' threads (all about you) go to ChitChat.
Rants, looking for dates, no discussion question posed..etc.
General Discussion in NOT a directed forum.
Its sole purpose is to catch what fits no where else.

10-4

Good, Miss B finally went to bed, now we can talk about her.

SYKE

LoL Still haven't been to bed yet

We can't change or control what others do, but we can use them as examples of what not to become, and their actions as examples of what not to do.

It can be difficult to distance yourself from loved ones, but if that's what you need to do to ensure they don't drag you down with themselves, then that's what needs done.

Hope things get better for you, and hopefully at least some of your family members turn themselves around for the better.

It's better.... i vented. They just suck.