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What do you do when your the one trying to work on things and keep the communication open, yet the other person doesnt really try? When you try to talk out issues with your significant other its like talking to a brick wall...what do you do?
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If it happens repeatedly, I end up moving on. A relationship isn't going to last with someone who is unwilling to communicate.
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I thought about that..but i dont want to feel like i didnt do everything i could. Usually i'm the one with shitty communication skills...but i'm actually trying and that still isnt working.
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If no one listens to you anymore it's because you're annoying.
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What do you do when your the one trying to work on things and keep the communication open, yet the other person doesnt really try? When you try to talk out issues with your significant other its like talking to a brick wall...what do you do? Take the hint and leave. :( If they're not willing to communicate, they're not interested in a relationship. |
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I thought about that..but i dont want to feel like i didnt do everything i could. Usually i'm the one with shitty communication skills...but i'm actually trying and that still isnt working. You have just answered your own question. Maybe the poor guy is going though some emotional trouble. Give him some time, he may pull though. If not, then he's just not ready to move ahead with things. But, remain friends anyway :) |
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h! Dear
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I thought about that..but i dont want to feel like i didnt do everything i could. Usually i'm the one with shitty communication skills...but i'm actually trying and that still isnt working. You have just answered your own question. Maybe the poor guy is going though some emotional trouble. Give him some time, he may pull though. If not, then he's just not ready to move ahead with things. But, remain friends anyway :) I wouldn't buy that excuse though. If he's interested, he would communicate, plain and simple, maybe not the best or anything, but at least he'd give it a valid effort. |
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I thought about that..but i dont want to feel like i didnt do everything i could. Usually i'm the one with shitty communication skills...but i'm actually trying and that still isnt working. You have just answered your own question. Maybe the poor guy is going though some emotional trouble. Give him some time, he may pull though. If not, then he's just not ready to move ahead with things. But, remain friends anyway :) I wouldn't buy that excuse though. If he's interested, he would communicate, plain and simple, maybe not the best or anything, but at least he'd give it a valid effort. not if he's feeling down, depression can destroy any bond of romance for a while, but in time, can bloom back :) |
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He claims its his job. He blames everything on the fact that he has a super stressful job...I understand that to a degree i too have a very stressful job but...idk. Sometimes you've heard the same excuse one time too many.
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I thought about that..but i dont want to feel like i didnt do everything i could. Usually i'm the one with shitty communication skills...but i'm actually trying and that still isnt working. You have just answered your own question. Maybe the poor guy is going though some emotional trouble. Give him some time, he may pull though. If not, then he's just not ready to move ahead with things. But, remain friends anyway :) I wouldn't buy that excuse though. If he's interested, he would communicate, plain and simple, maybe not the best or anything, but at least he'd give it a valid effort. not if he's feeling down, depression can destroy any bond of romance for a while, but in time, can bloom back :) Romance and communication are two different things though. |
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He claims its his job. He blames everything on the fact that he has a super stressful job...I understand that to a degree i too have a very stressful job but...idk. Sometimes you've heard the same excuse one time too many. Sadly 
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h! Dear Aloha.... |
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He claims its his job. He blames everything on the fact that he has a super stressful job...I understand that to a degree i too have a very stressful job but...idk. Sometimes you've heard the same excuse one time too many. I knew it, give the guy a break. Let him come to you, he will in time :) |
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I don't want to say this, but perhaps he could be seeing someone else. Hopefully not, but usually when they start acting strange and distant, that's why.
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I thought about that..but i dont want to feel like i didnt do everything i could. Usually i'm the one with shitty communication skills...but i'm actually trying and that still isnt working. You have just answered your own question. Maybe the poor guy is going though some emotional trouble. Give him some time, he may pull though. If not, then he's just not ready to move ahead with things. But, remain friends anyway :) I wouldn't buy that excuse though. If he's interested, he would communicate, plain and simple, maybe not the best or anything, but at least he'd give it a valid effort. not if he's feeling down, depression can destroy any bond of romance for a while, but in time, can bloom back :) Romance and communication are two different things though. not when you are bonded ;) |
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I don't want to say this, but perhaps he could be seeing someone else. Hopefully not, but usually when they start acting strange and distant, that's why. not always tot :) Nobody has really said anything about this fellow. He's a human being, not a robot. |
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He claims its his job. He blames everything on the fact that he has a super stressful job...I understand that to a degree i too have a very stressful job but...idk. Sometimes you've heard the same excuse one time too many. I knew it, give the guy a break. Let him come to you, he will in time :) There's only so much you can do with the same excuse over and over. Super stressful job or not, that isn't an excuse for no communication. |
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I don't want to say this, but perhaps he could be seeing someone else. Hopefully not, but usually when they start acting strange and distant, that's why. 
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All relationships go through their ups and downs...this could just be one of those downers.
If he's always been like this, then maybe he's just not very communicative. If it's recent, then maybe he really is stressed at work. See how it goes... |
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