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I hope so! It would be a little odd if you couldn't get your way with yourself... haha. Do you argue with yourself before you win, though? only when it is a righteous vs iniquitous debate. |
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What do you do when your the one trying to work on things and keep the communication open, yet the other person doesnt really try? When you try to talk out issues with your significant other its like talking to a brick wall...what do you do? Throw the bricks at him! ![]() |
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What do you do when your the one trying to work on things and keep the communication open, yet the other person doesnt really try? When you try to talk out issues with your significant other its like talking to a brick wall...what do you do? I can relate. My ex and me had communication issues. As long as it was just her talking things went well. But inevitably she would stop talking and it was like I knew something was up. I knew from experience to just stay quiet so that there wouldn't be any arguments. Sure enough she would start talking again and everything would be okay again. I'm like that too though, i shut down and stop communicating. It just bothers me because this time i am actually trying. That is understandable. It was like a catch 22 with us. My problem was that I couldn't handle her truth. Al-Anon helped me. Through an Al-Anon lady I found that at the core of my rage was this acceptance issue I was having. I was at this meeting that turned into an ex bashing. Before I could say anything she said, "Don't tell me it was a woman who has you so upset." I thought she had ESP or something. I said, "How did you know?" She just laughed. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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