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soufiehere's photo
Sun 05/13/12 07:13 AM

Get Sophie to mail you a cat!happy

Sure, do you want Eddy, Freddy, Betty, Pinky or Plumpy?

Well Betty wouldn't go, she is a momma's girl.
Pinky would be too scared.
Special Ed, might go if he were in the mood.
Plumpy would just yawn at you.
Fred though.
Sweet Fred.
That lifer would be out the door hurtling over
your shoulders to make the break at the
first opportunity.

There are baby kittens at the shelter!

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Sun 05/13/12 07:26 AM

See what happens when you date outside of Mingle!


especially with a Texan whoa

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Sun 05/13/12 07:58 AM
(((Tea))):heart:

teadipper's photo
Sun 05/13/12 08:23 AM


Get Sophie to mail you a cat!happy

Sure, do you want Eddy, Freddy, Betty, Pinky or Plumpy?

Well Betty wouldn't go, she is a momma's girl.
Pinky would be too scared.
Special Ed, might go if he were in the mood.
Plumpy would just yawn at you.
Fred though.
Sweet Fred.
That lifer would be out the door hurtling over
your shoulders to make the break at the
first opportunity.

There are baby kittens at the shelter!


They are very cute Soufie but my best friend is THE CAT RESCUER locally and I can get any cat I want at any time. I do not feel up to caring for a cat right now. Like I said, I am working up to a goldfish.

I am totally dreading my stuff being delivered. I don't know what he and his family stole out of spite and what I have left.

Fade2Black's photo
Sun 05/13/12 08:34 AM

I know the majority of my Mingle friends do not know. I ran off to Texas with an internet boyfriend. NOT from Mingle. It was a huge disaster which resulted in me being in the hospital and very ill and having to have my Dad come and get me out of that situation and bring me back to the family homestead.

It was all a very bad scene. I am just grateful my folks still love me enough to do that and are still alive and that I made it back to California alive. I am glad I did not leave the country like I have been asked to do so many times.

I do not really want to discuss it much more than that. I am getting stabilized here. It will be months before I am okay again and able to live on my own.


Don't know you, but sorry to hear of all this sadness. flowerforyou

mssilverfox's photo
Sun 05/13/12 08:42 AM
Awww Terry, So sorry you had to experience that but just be glad that your family stood by you and helped get you out of there.. I am happy to hear you are on your own again and working with your dr.. good luck to you.. If you wanna talk, I'm here.. hugs

teadipper's photo
Wed 05/16/12 12:31 PM

Awww Terry, So sorry you had to experience that but just be glad that your family stood by you and helped get you out of there.. I am happy to hear you are on your own again and working with your dr.. good luck to you.. If you wanna talk, I'm here.. hugs


Thank you. I am working on my new apartment. It's supposed to be ready Tuesday. Say a prayer for me. It's very overwhelming. This is literally my 4th move this year!!! Previously I lived in one home for almost 20 and around 14 in my folks house before that and 7 years in a home before that. I hate moving.

I am staying single. I am running everything past friends and family first.

My doctor and therapist rock.

I am not dating seriously. I have been asked out. Go read my profile. It says anybody who wants to date me has to go through all of you first. They literally have to post in forum that they want to date me and have you shoot them down.

My ex husband says I am like Lucille Ball on I Love Lucy. You watch her knowing full well she's headed for trouble but can't stop her and it has some sort of comical ending usually.

topherj37's photo
Wed 05/16/12 12:37 PM
Sorry you went through that. I'm glad you're okay.

teadipper's photo
Wed 05/16/12 02:08 PM


Get Sophie to mail you a cat!happy

Sure, do you want Eddy, Freddy, Betty, Pinky or Plumpy?

Well Betty wouldn't go, she is a momma's girl.
Pinky would be too scared.
Special Ed, might go if he were in the mood.
Plumpy would just yawn at you.
Fred though.
Sweet Fred.
That lifer would be out the door hurtling over
your shoulders to make the break at the
first opportunity.

There are baby kittens at the shelter!


Thanks for the offer. ;)

But Big Vinnie is not replaceable. He is not furniture. He is very special. I just hope he's okay.

pennyg281's photo
Wed 05/16/12 05:34 PM
Glad your home safe Terri. . . We all make had choices especially when it comes to wanting to find love. Looks like you've learned from your experience. Just take things slow . . get stronger . Know you have friends here to listen . . .anytime. :)

Totage's photo
Wed 05/16/12 05:37 PM

I know the majority of my Mingle friends do not know. I ran off to Texas with an internet boyfriend. NOT from Mingle. It was a huge disaster which resulted in me being in the hospital and very ill and having to have my Dad come and get me out of that situation and bring me back to the family homestead.

It was all a very bad scene. I am just grateful my folks still love me enough to do that and are still alive and that I made it back to California alive. I am glad I did not leave the country like I have been asked to do so many times.

I do not really want to discuss it much more than that. I am getting stabilized here. It will be months before I am okay again and able to live on my own.


Sometimes we take a leap of faith and do not quite make the landing. I'm sorry to hear this has happened you. I hope you recover soon.

Hopefully you have learned from this and it makes more wiser, not hardened.

@>--

teadipper's photo
Wed 05/16/12 05:43 PM
No, I am not longer trusting internet guys no matter how well I think I know them. I lived with a guy for a year after my divorce who I met on eHarmony. We were a perfect match according to them. It was the relationship from hell.

Sorry but my heart is hardened against internet guys. They have no shot with me.

My one friend says that one azzhole screwed it up for everybody else. It's so true.

josie68's photo
Fri 05/18/12 03:17 PM
:smile: Never stop hoping.

I am so glad you are Ok.

teadipper's photo
Sun 05/20/12 02:46 PM
Well prayers and well wishes that everything goes smoothly would be appreciated. My insurance guy just has to fax over my renter's insurance and then I am set. I move in tomorrow if all goes well. I will no have internet for a couple days but can check by cell phone. It's a nice place with fresh paint and floors and near my parents.

oldhippie1952's photo
Sun 05/20/12 09:49 PM
I hope you enjoy your new place and being on your own, it is liberating in a way.

boonedoggy61's photo
Mon 05/21/12 06:35 PM
Hi all, Terri just emailed me and wanted me to come on here and tell ya
she Is in her new apt. With her 2 goldfish and her new pet rat and a house plant. She don't have Internet access yet other then her phone.
She wanted every one to know she is ok....

teadipper's photo
Wed 05/23/12 06:32 PM
Thanks Boonedoggy.

I am in my apartment in a gated community. I have a new pet rat named Cheerio. Two goldfish, Marilyn and Monroe. And my pothos, Ed. My stuff gets delivered next week.

Totage's photo
Wed 05/23/12 06:37 PM

Thanks Boonedoggy.

I am in my apartment in a gated community. I have a new pet rat named Cheerio. Two goldfish, Marilyn and Monroe. And my pothos, Ed. My stuff gets delivered next week.


Good to see you're doing well. I hope everything goes well.

jaded72's photo
Sun 05/27/12 05:48 PM
Hey, Terri.

You are one tough chick. Your sense of self-preservation is strong - hang in there. e-mail me anytime. Take care of you.
:heart: :heart: :heart:

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