i have always had an obsession for older women. wondering if this is the common phenomena for growing boys?

I think it depends on what the age gap is ???? "There is a line" but what is it ???? And who decides ????

either that or its the confidence and experience gained with age.

Not necessarily.
Also, the Oedipal complex is somewhat different. It's moreso directed at ones own parents...

I think my attraction to older women stems from an incident in my childhood, one that I may have mentioned here before, a long time ago.

Because we got more experience in life and we know how to take care of ourself.

Ah yes but when internalized and projected it maybe that the subject suffering from said symptoms may project those said desires onto another reminding them of said parental figure.

Well, growing boys see women as real women only and necessarily if the women are older. A seven- or ten-year old kid, if he is healthy, will get sexually excited about a matured and grown-up adult movie star, and the girls in his classroom will leave him cold.

This is the idea that makes almost all men NOT child molesters. The undeveloped, slimy and brittle little seven-year-old girls do appear like repulsive frogs to boys of the same age, and that is healthy, coz we don't want a society of boys to grow up into men who think that pre-pubescent girls are where it's at.

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OP, I suggest that you leave your obsession for older women, and exchange it for possession of older women. Depending on the culture you live in, this is a fantasy that can easily be turned into reality.

I think it is guys who did not get enough attention from their Mom just trying to prove that that they can get attention from a Mother figure and if it yanks theri Mothre's chain when she finds out about it and you can bet they will be sure to tell everyone so much the better.

Not for me, I got plenty of attention from my mom. I'm just attracted to older women. It's not about sex or ego or anything, it's just what I'm attracted to is all.

Well, it's probably typically internalized in some form. Attraction to one's mother isn't exactly all that socially accepted. The Oedipal complex is also defined by a sense of competing with one's father figure as well. Basically a psychological version of the story of Oedipus. Kills his father to be with his mother... except without actual murder and with knowing it's your mom.

Age gap got zero to do with it.

Older women are just freeking hawt. They can't help it so don't blame them. They are fine like wine and know the right things and the wrong things. With a woman experience, you don't gotta scream at them not to pee on the floor....they already know!

Young chicks are fine and fun. They are gorgeous women who are gonna break alot of hearts.....but, to me..they are puppies.

Yes I read the story and studied it in abnormal psyche. Projection is a coping skill that some with that type of disorder could miplace upon another in order to cope with one desires.

They know how to treat a man.

Hard to find a woman older than boonie.

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