i have recently litterely stumbled back into contact with the first boyfriend i ever had.. he was my first love, first... well EVERYTHING... and we were even engaged for a time...
well in the almost 10 years since we brokeup, i took the reasons that we broke up as fact, and not as him just refuzing to plead his case..
i had been told by a number of sources that he was cheating on me and he just gave up on our relationship and never defended himself...
well in our (nearly daily) recent conversations it has come out that he never did cheat on me... he DID do a number of things that put hi into the situation that he could have, and this is where the girls involved said that it happened...

ok this is gettin to be much longer of a story than i had intended..

the point in my LONG story is that
realizing that he did NOT cheat on me managed to change my ENTIRE belief system.. him and i will never workout romanticly, but it is nice to have a friend from the past to reminice with and catch up with as well,

but maybe all men are not lying cheating AZZholes!!




see now i am reevauating every relationship i have ever had!!

well its about time!!!!
see!!!!!!!! were not all bad
well kinda sorta in a sick twisted kinda way mabey

took you long enough to realize that....

what???

i feel that maybe these girls made up the story to break u up did u here the song by akon dont matter.

they were jealous

Hummmmmmmmm never thought all of the men were lying cheating azzholes just 99.9% of them

hehe
no you said 99.9,9/10ths

gaffeney. i knew that they were trying to break us up, and i am in a way glad that we did breakup, he has gone verry far in his life, and i am proud of him, an di know myself well enough to know that i would have held him back, and i have gone much farther in my life than i thought i would, and partly to prove him wrong..
but he didnt tell me that he didnt do it, and he lied about where he was.. the pointis that in retrospect... i now know how young and stupid i was, and have caried that attitude with me to protect myself..


how dumb i have been...

Humm well Big Guy had to give a little room to be right with lmao or I would be told I am putting all men in the same catorgory lmao

Well I could say something here and go into a long a$$ story but I won't.

Funny how women or most of them do not listen to men, and I belive that is why most just say forget about it because they do not want to be bothered and or have to put up with a big fight and or seen just to make the other belive they never cheated and they never would etc.

Crazy how women think I mean if some men did really do this then it would be different.

Oh well.

o ok
i get it now
duh!!!

Dang Izzy.. I'm glad for you... but should I be insulted?

good for you izzie and congrats!!!

no dale, no insults intened..
hehe

Luv Ya'll

Someone actually realized

We all are not A**holes ... Cool

I wouldn't go THAT far, Romeo!






j/k

I know that all men arent assholes!!!! I just gravitate towards the bad ones and the good ones I don't really see. So, it is my fault in the end...

Well, there are a few of us who have outgrown the "standard male idiot" persona and who would like to find something more serious and meaningful....

It does become a little more difficult when we are judged, as a group, and not as individuals, based on things that others have done....