Aww, buck-up Lex. That door swings both ways. Little CYmA here, not all have that door, though.

It's always the guys fault...never the innocent girls...

You know some "innocent" girls?

Thought I did

Morning Nus

What's up Mike?

You know-all men are not a-holes...but most of us tend to leave the toilet seat up!

What's your reson for being up so early?

I leave the toilet seat down for the ladies...Just forget to change out the toilet paper

I don't have that problem anymore - the part of the house the bathroom is in is on a hill - hold the seat up otherwise, at your own peril - seat falls back down when let go.

What is missing from the female brain that never remembers to look?????

I'm always up at this time-getting ready to put the nose to the grindstone.

Over or under on the TP?

Good idea, put the toilet on a slant...never get in trouble

I'm usually working at this time...Its my night off..

Now there's a certian way to put the TP on?

Then we pee all over the seat! Trajectory problem there...

What is missing from the female genome that doesn't make them look? A defective merging chromosome?

That sounds like it would cause a different kind of problem, nope, not gettin into that one. Night guys.

I don't know why they don't look...Just know it ruins thier day and yours too

Yeah...splashdown used to be such a welcome homecoming!

we do look!!!

and we can't hold it like you guys do so we just hurry and squat fast and then ......



DOH....

I only think my exes are a-holes...like Gypsy I have a tendency to attract rotten apples.

oh oh oh !!!!!

STOP !!! RETRACT!! take back those statements and rearrange them!!!


never announce something so black and white to the universee!! she will deliver !!

oh oh oh oh oh....IT IS SO IMPORTANT to look from other angles, other perspectives, at situations that show up as a pattern.

first and foremost.... look at our biology. how we are built.

the brain and central nervous system are an intricate system of mechanisms. Some are already genetically predisposed !!!

what we know is that the central nervous system begins to develope immediately....in the first stirrings of life within the womb. What the mother experiences also programs and influences this delicate system, preparing it for the nest it will be born into , initiating the dynamics of how the system sets itself up within the human embryo.

The central nervous system like to do what it does best. What it does best is what it has the most experience with. If from the get go it is getting experience that sets up a chemistry , let's say just for the sake of this thread and it's topic....TENSION..... any kind of tension will become what it can process well. and so it will, through the brain and the mind that dwells within that brain, orchestrate whatever it needs to recreate that tension. because that is what it is familiar with.

THE OPERATIVE WORD BEING "FAMILIAR". it makes no judgement...that's what the conscious mind is for.

so when you wake up and your conscious mind recognizes the pattern and decides to choose for Harmony rather than Tension..... it is more work than just making that choice....but that's the first step.

do you want me to continue?

do you get that it is important not to judge yourself or lock your self in a box that says this is what i attract??

it is like detoxing....when one has ben in an abusive and violent situation over and over, the nervous system gets addicted in a way to the adrenalin and endorphins that are released with that tension...when you pull out of that you will fall into a depression most certainly...and anxiety and all kinds of ca ca that the system will run unconsciously trying to restore the chemistry it is familiar with...even tho it is destructive to you emotionally. ARGH!!!

(being human can be such a complicated ggtvhyvyrfbvddcdehvggh fvfdssa)

ok ok ok ....deep breath... a little humour here helps.

is this making any sense?

there are many perspectives to understanding how we orchestrate our lives....each have weight, some heavier ...and some less. but all have value to consider, and place appropriately within the picture of why we do what we do, and how we can actually achieve progressive change and balance and peace of mind and well being in our lives.

it is so important to keep humour and grace an forgiveness at the fore.

and to look at the big picture.
we can reprogram our central nervous systems to a better balance , but it takes more than just a choice...it takes awareness of the "how to"...
dicipline and commitment to your self respect.

it commands guidance as any education does, and so....you can break these patterns and you are not bound to be the mouse in the wheel spinning the same circles......