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Topic: Double dippin, just curious
carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Mon 04/02/12 05:14 AM


LookinRound Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 7894	Mon 04/02/12 06:22 AM
What do you all think when a new love one don't want u to be talking to your friends of the opposite sex. Is that because they're insecure or because they are jealous because they're Double dippin or both?? I think they wouldn't be my new love for much longer.

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Mon 04/02/12 06:24 AM
Same here but I've had a few friends once they get a Man Or women you don't hear from them anymore. Sux's not a true friend for sure.

LookinRound Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 7894	Mon 04/02/12 06:32 AM
Same here but I've had a few friends once they get a Man Or women you don't hear from them anymore. Sux's not a true friend for sure. Yeah, that's happened too ~ some people get into a new relationship and want to spend all their time, focus and energy on that relationship. I get that. But when they totally abandon their previous friendships because of it...that's sad.

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Mon 04/02/12 06:38 AM
Yea it is sad

BKLAW612 Joined Sun 10/16/11 Posts: 140	Mon 04/02/12 07:02 PM
@Vivian

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Mon 04/02/12 08:06 PM


carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Tue 04/03/12 05:20 AM
Talk about friends this looks funny http://youtu.be/XlbJYCTqQBQ

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45409	Tue 04/03/12 05:35 AM
Same here but I've had a few friends once they get a Man Or women you don't hear from them anymore. Sux's not a true friend for sure. Often, that is the first time you know. How close a friend they really were. Words are only words without the backup.

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Tue 04/03/12 05:41 AM
Very true.

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Tue 04/03/12 08:08 AM
Guess they moved us to Dating and Relationships

Optomistic69 Joined Mon 10/10/11 Posts: 5173	Tue 04/03/12 08:20 AM
What do you all think when a new love one don't want u to be talking to your friends of the opposite sex. Is that because they're insecure or because they are jealous because they're Double dippin or both?? It could just be that the couple are plain outright users of people.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Tue 04/03/12 08:23 AM
Dating,and Relationships.What the heck is that? I think the kind of people you are talking about Carold have "Issues " We don't know about, and don't want to either. I also feel the way Krupa does, who is worse, the contoller or the one allowing to be controlled all in th name of "LOVE".

Optomistic69 Joined Mon 10/10/11 Posts: 5173	Tue 04/03/12 08:32 AM
Who is worse, the contoller or the one allowing to be controlled all in the name of "LOVE". Is love just a cover for the user or the used?

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Tue 04/03/12 08:49 AM Edited by BettyB on Tue 04/03/12 08:55 AM
Who is worse, the contoller or the one allowing to be controlled all in the name of "LOVE". Is love just a cover for the user or the used? It also could be that the user has been very hurt in the past and that the used is not doing enough to make them feel secure, or vise versa and the used is afraid to step on their. toes. But don't ask me, what do I know?

Optomistic69 Joined Mon 10/10/11 Posts: 5173	Tue 04/03/12 09:02 AM
Who is worse, the contoller or the one allowing to be controlled all in the name of "LOVE". Is love just a cover for the user or the used? It also could be that the user has been very hurt in the past and that the used is not doing enough to make them feel secure, or vise versa and the used is afraid to step on their. toes. But don't ask me, what do I know? Well Betty I did ask you and a very good answer I might add. Saying that, a relationship like that might bring some comfort but it is not based on TRUE LOVE

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Tue 04/03/12 09:06 AM Edited by 2KidsMom on Tue 04/03/12 09:15 AM
What do you all think when a new love one don't want u to be talking to your friends of the opposite sex. Is that because they're insecure or because they are jealous because they're Double dippin or both?? I left this in the Anonoymous thread..I guess this about covers,what I think. on this subject. I cant help myself..Its really none of my buisness,but you know everybody has an azzhole..I mean opinion.I think it shows alot of insecurity on your part ..to see that your S/O deactivated and gave up friends..rolls eyes and I still see your azz here. Just sayin. If one goes..they both should go...or vice versa.....JMO.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Tue 04/03/12 09:51 AM
Who is worse, the contoller or the one allowing to be controlled all in the name of "LOVE". Is love just a cover for the user or the used? It also could be that the user has been very hurt in the past and that the used is not doing enough to make them feel secure, or vise versa and the used is afraid to step on their. toes. But don't ask me, what do I know? Well Betty I did ask you and a very good answer I might add. Saying that, a relationship like that might bring some comfort but it is not based on TRUE LOVE Well I have to agree with you there. Sooner or later resement will follow and the noose will feel tighter and tighter around the neck, until it chokes the Love right out of them.

Optomistic69 Joined Mon 10/10/11 Posts: 5173	Tue 04/03/12 10:23 AM
Double Dippin conjures up some funny images for me

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Tue 04/03/12 10:26 AM
right..