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Topic: you cant fix your mistakes.
Bataki Joined Thu 03/03/11 Posts: 28	Tue 03/20/12 11:06 PM
You cannot travel back in time to fix your mistakes, but you can learn from them and forgive yourself for not knowing better. The TRUTH is out there, your task is to remove everything that does not bear light, so that the truth can shine forth.

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Thu 03/22/12 01:05 PM
Hmmmmm, not sure why I would need to forgive myself for my mistakes. They have made me who I am. I learn and move on. No worries.

mthom086 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 76	Thu 03/22/12 01:54 PM
Hmmmmm, not sure why I would need to forgive myself for my mistakes. They have made me who I am. I learn and move on. No worries. No offense but I think your statement is the very reason why people cheat so much. They have no conscious. NO ACCOUNTABILITY! What if you were dating a guy and he cheated with several women and had kids with them. He says,"no worries honey; this happened for a reason and I live with no regrets! This will make you into the person you are supposed to be". I think your statement is utter nonsense. With your quote you are perfect, live a perfect life, and if you hurt people it's all good. People that live this way are selfish arrogant and narcissistic. I have regrets. I kick myself in the butt for making a mistake and learn from it so I won't do it again. I dont want to hurt me or anyone else.

mthom086 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 76	Thu 03/22/12 01:57 PM
You cannot travel back in time to fix your mistakes, but you can learn from them and forgive yourself for not knowing better. The TRUTH is out there, your task is to remove everything that does not bear light, so that the truth can shine forth. I agree totally. It's called accountability and being responsible. Living your life as if everything you do is ok because it molds you is ridiculous. I dont do drugs; I dont sleep around; I take of my mind and my body. Why? because I dont need to do those things to mold me. My parents and family molded me.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Thu 03/22/12 01:57 PM
Hmmmmm, not sure why I would need to forgive myself for my mistakes. They have made me who I am. I learn and move on. No worries. No offense but I think your statement is the very reason why people cheat so much. They have no conscious. NO ACCOUNTABILITY! What if you were dating a guy and he cheated with several women and had kids with them. He says,"no worries honey; this happened for a reason and I live with no regrets! This will make you into the person you are supposed to be". I think your statement is utter nonsense. With your quote you are perfect, live a perfect life, and if you hurt people it's all good. People that live this way are selfish arrogant and narcissistic. I have regrets. I kick myself in the butt for making a mistake and learn from it so I won't do it again. I dont want to hurt me or anyone else. What if they're the faithful type, but live with no regrets?

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Thu 03/22/12 01:58 PM
I hate cheaters..

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Thu 03/22/12 02:01 PM
Cheating is not a mistake. How do you accidentally cheat?

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Thu 03/22/12 02:02 PM
You Dont!!! The fockers.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Thu 03/22/12 02:04 PM


2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Thu 03/22/12 02:05 PM


bhernandez Joined Sun 03/21/10 Posts: 14901	Thu 03/22/12 02:14 PM
but they have an edit button. o.O

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Thu 03/22/12 02:46 PM
Time machine, duh.

Bataki Joined Thu 03/03/11 Posts: 28	Thu 03/22/12 02:51 PM
I hate cheaters.. i guess everybody does....

Bataki Joined Thu 03/03/11 Posts: 28	Thu 03/22/12 02:52 PM
I hate cheaters..

42BlackBBW Joined Mon 09/12/11 Posts: 3243	Thu 03/22/12 03:41 PM
My parents and life experiences have moulded me for better or for worse...I generally learn from my mistakes even though I may repeat them and I would never hurt someone by cheating on them. Cheating isn’t a mistake, it’s a betrayal.. If you fall off a bike that you're learning to ride doesn't always mean that you've made a mistake. Sometimes it may just mean that you failed to see the rock in the road.

uncommonsense Joined Wed 03/21/12 Posts: 68	Thu 03/22/12 04:09 PM
I agree. Cheating is NOT a mistake. "Oooops! I just dropped my glass of water on the floor. damn!" That is a mistake. Thrusting into a girl 100 times is on purpose. Sorry if that seems .. ummm.. indelicate. True nonetheless. I can't stand cheaters. lol

42BlackBBW Joined Mon 09/12/11 Posts: 3243	Thu 03/22/12 04:37 PM
That kinda reminds of a particular lyric in Eminem's Guilty Conscience song..."What? She tripped? Fell? Landed on his d!ck?!)"

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Thu 03/22/12 05:05 PM
Whats with all these cheating threads?They're getting as bad as the nice guy threads.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 03/22/12 05:09 PM
Hmmmmm, not sure why I would need to forgive myself for my mistakes. They have made me who I am. I learn and move on. No worries. No offense but I think your statement is the very reason why people cheat so much. They have no conscious. NO ACCOUNTABILITY! What if you were dating a guy and he cheated with several women and had kids with them. He says,"no worries honey; this happened for a reason and I live with no regrets! This will make you into the person you are supposed to be". I think your statement is utter nonsense. With your quote you are perfect, live a perfect life, and if you hurt people it's all good. People that live this way are selfish arrogant and narcissistic. I have regrets. I kick myself in the butt for making a mistake and learn from it so I won't do it again. I dont want to hurt me or anyone else. I don't really have regrets. Do you think that means I cheat?

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Thu 03/22/12 05:15 PM Edited by Cheer_up on Thu 03/22/12 05:17 PM
Sure you can fix mistakes example if you put a check in the bank but you punched in the wrong amount number you made a mistake right? now you phone the bank and tell them and the mistake gets fixed you work on a car and put a wrong part on that car but then the person comes back to you and says car is not working you tell him i am so sorry i will fix the mistake i made i put the wrong size of belt on lollllll or you were counting money and count it wrong and made a mistake on how much you had you count it again and you fixed the right number lolllllllll topic of room room forum is youcant fix mistakes but you can it depends what mistake you make:)