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Topic: Turn on or turn off?
Scarface21 Joined Mon 01/30/12 Posts: 17	Tue 02/14/12 08:39 PM
New to the site and I'm sure it's easy to see the scar on my face. For the women out there (any age) is it a turn on and should I embrace it? Or is it a turn off and I should hide it with makeup and the like?

Sin_and_Sorrow Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 5757	Tue 02/14/12 08:44 PM
...hiding it would be dumb. ..about as dumb as seeing you wearing make-up to cover it. Who the eff cares what anyone thinks.. You like it, embrace it. ..ashamed by it? Cover it. Meh.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Tue 02/14/12 08:45 PM
Be yourself. There aren't many people that don't have scars.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 02/14/12 08:45 PM
don't do anything about it

miken747 Joined Mon 02/13/12 Posts: 98	Tue 02/14/12 08:49 PM
I'm not a woman but I hear some different scars its one of those weird traits women have I guess. As far as a guys perspective never hide anything that makes you you or is part of you. Women don't want a Guy who's unsure of himself.

Ber1 Joined Sun 11/20/11 Posts: 1	Tue 02/14/12 08:50 PM
Make-up would look bad. You look fine as is. Don't try to change yourself. Everyone has scars, regardless of where there are. Covering them up is foolish.

RoamingOrator Joined Fri 07/20/07 Posts: 4943	Tue 02/14/12 08:51 PM
Do you have a good story to go with it? I've got a scar over my left eye, but a great story to go with it. Remember: Wounds heal, Chick's dig scars, Glory lives forever!

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45425	Tue 02/14/12 08:53 PM
I don't think it detracts from your appeal in any way. I knew a guy in high schhol who wore makeup to hide his skin..silliest thing I ever saw. Wear it with pride I say, it is better than jewelry.

Scarface21 Joined Mon 01/30/12 Posts: 17	Tue 02/14/12 08:57 PM
Thanks for the input everyone. Looks like I'll embrace it. There is a story to it, but its rather odd as to how I got the scar. more of a nightmare. but if anyone wants to know, cool.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Tue 02/14/12 09:01 PM
New to the site and I'm sure it's easy to see the scar on my face. For the women out there (any age) is it a turn on and should I embrace it? Or is it a turn off and I should hide it with makeup and the like? Well, the more important question is do you make it a turn on or a turn off for women? I mean, do you allow it to hinder your confidence, if so I would say it's a turn off. If you do not let it have any influence on your confidence, I'm sure women would find that to be a turn on.

miken747 Joined Mon 02/13/12 Posts: 98	Tue 02/14/12 09:01 PM
Hey I got a scar on my hand from when I wax in the army I opened a spiderco knife backwards sliced my hand good. Now days they use my image to tea h people how not to open a spiderco knife. Well not really but I did open it backwards and did leave a wicked scar.

Sin_and_Sorrow Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 5757	Tue 02/14/12 09:01 PM
..you kinda remind me of Dmitri from the TV Series 24. ..the son of the crazed Russian Arms Dealer...

Down2earthdebbie Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 6097	Tue 02/14/12 09:04 PM
Don't hide it ........just be you!!

Down2earthdebbie Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 6097	Tue 02/14/12 09:11 PM
That will heal....there is stuff you can get for that to help heal the scar it works.....I forgot what it's called??

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 02/14/12 09:20 PM
..you kinda remind me of Dmitri from the TV Series 24. ..the son of the crazed Russian Arms Dealer... u used to live in that neighborhood too????

wolfchic Joined Wed 09/26/07 Posts: 8036	Tue 02/14/12 09:54 PM
Just be you!You are fine just the way you are!

Sin_and_Sorrow Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 5757	Tue 02/14/12 09:57 PM
..you kinda remind me of Dmitri from the TV Series 24. ..the son of the crazed Russian Arms Dealer... u used to live in that neighborhood too???? ..neighborhood? o.o

Down2earthdebbie Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 6097	Tue 02/14/12 10:21 PM
..you kinda remind me of Dmitri from the TV Series 24. ..the son of the crazed Russian Arms Dealer... u used to live in that neighborhood too???? ..neighborhood? o.o Happy valentines day to you!!!

manOfewwords Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 29908	Wed 02/15/12 02:48 AM
wanna see my scar ?

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Wed 02/15/12 02:58 AM
New to the site and I'm sure it's easy to see the scar on my face. For the women out there (any age) is it a turn on and should I embrace it? Or is it a turn off and I should hide it with makeup and the like? Just read your profile...Handsome man with a story to tell...what could be better? Welcome to mingle Scarface!! Luck, love, happiness......