ok...i would like to say if women would try to lose weight we wouldnt have this problem...not to be rude but there is someone for everyone BUT its natural selection if you not attractive you get the worse and that means your kids get the worse..so try to at least look good i know alot of big women and the clothes they wear make them beautiful. but i wouldnt date them

What an incredibly rude and horrible thing to say...

...although I suppose he does have a point, genetics DO play a part in the attractiveness of a person, but why bother breeding people together to make more attractive people? Stuff like that is bound to cause some kind of physical disorder?

Besides, it's fleeting. In the 1930's large women were adored as sex symbols because of their generous curves. Tastes change, don't worry about society things, society happens to be a pack of idiots agreeing.

I've often wondered why people like "Thatplayer89" and "Bob" are even on this site. Listening to them, it's obvious both of them have a plethora of Hollywood-like beauties beating down their doors at all times just for the opportunity to bask in their glory-if only for a fleeting moment.

Now that the moment of sarcasm is out of the way......

Guys, get over yourselves. If the two of you(and others like you) are TRULY "all that", how do you constantly find time to post in these forums on almost a minutely(is that really a word?)basis? Either the ladies can take care of themselves just fine without you, or you seem to be stretching the truth QUITE a bit. I'm betting on the latter. Good luck, boys, you two are gonna need it in the real world. You know, the one where the REAL women-of all shapes and sizes(God love 'em all!)exist.

Thatplayer, feel free to read this once yer thru blowing up yer inflatable date!

I Just had to comment on this one. I am a big girl, not 400 lbs, but I'm a little overweight. I used to be the almost 400 pound girl.But not anymore. Years of hard work, not surgery, have me where I am today. Yes, I'm a big girl. and I'm Dam proud to be one. Proud because I am alive and well. I'm not 80lbs soaking wet,wearing size 0 pants. I love myself and who I am. If others dont' see beyond the outer, how can they know the inner??????????????? Remember, you can't judge a bood by it's cover and you can't find the plot to the movie until you watch it. Something for you to think about people. Thanks for listening.

sorry for the spelling error. should be, can't judge a BOOK, by it's cover. Guess you figured it out. sorry

"Thatplayer" Didn't any one teach you children shouldn't speak until they have been spoken to??
All I have seen is you churping off everywhere with sarcastic BS.. HELLLLOOOOO!!! your maybe 18yrs old. who know's.
Your profile doesn't even make since...
Your talkin out the side of your neck about people's looks & what they should & shouldn't do....
When you don't even have a picture up!!
unless of course you do look like a bloody b*tch!
You say your JOB is to make your dreams come true!!
I could care less what you really do...
I bet a real job out of your momma's house would be a start...
& a good reason you wouldn't date them is cuz they wouldn't date you I bet!



One Thing I've learned about people that are always runnin their mouths & spewing their ignorance....
Is they do it to hear themselves...
it's not to share their worldly knowlege...

It's amazing how much you can learn from listening..

player,grieving and bob should get together and compare notes on why they are alone ...its obvious to everyone but them.

Cute!!! You are a riot!!

thanks need...nice ruler..

I always come prepared to lay the smack down.

lol or see if a man measures up....

Why do people have to say things like that.I was raised that if you dont have anything nice to say then dont say anything at all. I am a big girl too. But I am healthy, exercise and have a great job where the people appreciate me for what I do and have to offer not what I look like.

Mish, you are right but unfortunately that isn't the way life works.

Cute, you know it, honey. I have my standards.

my standards are on a sliding scale..

The sad sad words of worthless stupid people. "ThatPlayer" ticks me off sometimes... well that and people like him.

Cute, me I got a fixed standard.

why get ticked at poor ignorant folk.Killem with kindness i tell ya.

Besides Player is only 18.. what does he know about real women?

True, when I was 18 I was still a selfish stupid kid too...

...thank goodness THAT's over.

at 18 i knew a lot of stuff.wish i could remember it now..