oh joy luck club.....people people people...if you were all the happy people you claim to be, then as i read all of your letters in all the other forums as well, you might realize that this great big group hug you wish upon me is horse hockey...come on...you cry the blues and when your own personal issues, regardless of what they are, are presented to you, once again, we all stick together and have our little coffee click and wish that bad bob away with lots and lots of love...sheez...i know the sound of one hand clapping is pretty darn loud to you all, but being as it is, no matter what my own personal issues where in the past, they are just that, the past...i give each and every person a chance to be who they are, fat, thin, black, white what ever...segwaying into other topics, shooting the messenger, what ever, if you are fat, drunk, drugged up, in a absusive relationship, and are happy as a clam, more power to you....BUT! when you can't seem to have it your way and brad pitt or who ever is the lastest and greatest honkey tonk cowboy passes you up, the home coming queen walks past you and your drug dealer goes to the big house, QUIT YOUR DARN CRYING.......

so its whiners you don't like.

These hugs are the real deal...
There are alot of people here- who are there for each other...
Its real... So what if some of us whine. There are shoulders here and friends to call on here. You will see this when you have been here longer.

Welcome Bobdesigns...

aahhh BOB, Maybe misread what I WROTE!!
There was no group hug here..

I hug my friends CUZ I LIKE UM!!!

&&&& you haven't read any of my posts whining about sh*t!


I guess you never got the concept of
"IF YOU CAN'T SAY SOMETHING NICE" Then STFU!!!

Oh & Have a Great Day!!!

teddies right.we are whiny huggers lol.i too welcome you even if i don't agree with you on this topic.

wooooo!!!!! a man who is OUTSPOKEN and NOT rude. You rock bobdesigns!!!!

Bob, you got guts. But not for long if you keep this up. Maybe u
should bail on this topic.

this makes me want to lost 20 lbs

I haven't complained about being overweight, although I did give the reasons for it. I haven't whined about being alone, I actually prefer it (I don't have to put up with some man's nasty habits of leaving clothes laying around or whatever). I choose who I date, if I date and when I date them. Presently, other a minor depression issue (which by the way is due to the fact that I moved to a h*ll hole of a town and have been unemployed for a year because I listened to someone I thought was my friend and now all I want is to get a job and GO HOME!!!).
I am for the most part a very friendly, outgoing person, I love to read the jokes and some of the threads here can get quite funny. But when you put out that you think everyone is whining about this or that, boy are you WRONG!~!!!! Everyone just needs to vent from time to time and there ain't nothing wrong with that. Get a grip.

Oh and by the way, I haven't been here that long, but from what I have seen the people on this site are more supportive that most people I have met face to face!

I cant believce this thread is still going....Well said Puffins, Catch Me and Ms. Teddy...well said....

i dont whinnie,ya am big but am doing something about it ,yes you have been hurt now your jumping on any one thats in your way ,i feel sorry for you,

i promise this is my last post on this subject...i am not hurt; i was at the time, i moved on...life sucks and so it goes...whinners? if you want symapthy, look it up in the dictionary, instead of trying to find it among friends. the only way to learn is to try it, good or bad, we all win if we try...i applaud the ladies and guys who work to better their own selves, weight,booze, drugs..what ever...i just like to see people take annoinment for what ever ills them and tries to better theirselves.i don't think anybody here sits at home with a tastycake truck parked out front; i feel that everyone here is here for a purpose and that is to find love...i have been married three times, my first two wives got involved with drugs, i left them becasue of it..they could not seperate the two...my second wife went thru a few years where her face was terribly dis-figured by stress acne; i was in a 7-11 and she was checking out , when a little boy, no older than 4-5, pulled his momma's arm and said out loud, momma, that is the uglyist woman i ever saw....my wife went out the door bawling...wisdom from the mouth of babes? i felt bad for her and as well as the child for not being taught better...but is life fair? no...do i expect or deserve any one saying damn bob, you had some tuff times in your life..yep and even worse...do i keep going, i have too..no one else is gonna for me..i thank you all for the chance of trying to explain what i thought was a moot point and i felt it deserved a real answer..

Thank GOd this thread is done.........

I think Bob just likes to argue.....better with negative attention than no attention. Hmmmmm I wonder why his wife had so much stress???? The one common denominator in all of his marriages was hmmmmmm BOB!!!

Please pass the donuts!!

Hmmmm I also think that Bob has "Mrs.Claus" syndrome....he really is in love with overweight women but......he didn't get that tricycle for xmas!!!! lmaoooooooo

Well, Gypsy, I was going for the "let um have the last word so he'll crawl back under the rock that he came from thingy" but ok, pass the donuts.....

I think my problem was that I got a neon green skateboard instead of a 10 speed bike w/ a note from Santa that said, "sorry, I ran out of bikes b4 I got here, but I hope this will do until next x-mas"....talk about childhood anger.....

i don't think anybody here sits at home with a tastycake truck parked out front; No but is it bad to dream? MMMMMMmmmm tasty cake.

i feel that everyone here is here for a purpose and that is to find love... HMmmm, Ive seen some I thought just wanted sex.

i have been married three times; No, No, No,,,

my first two wives got involved with drugs; My wife made me want drugs...

i left them becasue of it..I never left she did..sniff, sniff

I kept the dog though, and everyday I take an 8 by10 color photograph of her, lean it against a fence post, and let the dog piss on it...
Bitter,,,,,,,,,,Nahhhhhh!!!