i think its wonderful you dumped your wife after she gained 20 pounds and was no longer the trophy you desired.what a scumbag.

that is exactly what i thought a woman would say...read right thru everything i wrote, to try and find a juicy gem to jump on...sorry toots, she dumped me, she got what she wanted(a green card) and away we go.....next time don't set your self up so easily....mr. scumbag

I honestly can't believe this topic has continued on to this degree.
Why doesn't everyone just agree to disagree? Face people, NO ONE IS PERFECT!!! No one has the perfect body, personality, or whatever. Everyone has issues, be it medical, emotional, physical or whatever.
No one is going to find that "Perfect" person, because they don't exist. However, it is possible to find that perfect person for you and you alone. We each have an idea of what we are looking for and they aren't always going to match everyone elses ideas, but that is why everyone is different.
Personally, I am not looking for Mr. Perfect. I am however looking for Mr. I am ok with who I am, I can communicate, I am honest, and I don't want to be alone anymore either. Size, shape, etc don't matter to me, as long as he fits in that description.

Bob, sorry to hear you had a seizure. One of my daughters suffers from them too and any drastic change in weather, or emotions can trigger them. I understood what you had to say, I just feel you could maybe have phrased it so that it wasn't quite so demeaning.

Bob.....take 67 Dilantin and call me in the morning!!! jk

two points; why this topic keeps going, because there is no final answer...everyone wants the world to quit pickin on poor little me, and by the way, since i said your'e fat(not my words) i'm a scumbag...if some one asks me a simple question about why can't i....i am going to answer them, and not in donut jokes....not facing reality, while keeping on getting fatter, staying on drugs or what ever, is not a pretty kodak moment; you are not going to get an american greeting card telling you hey, by the way, i think you great, but you are fat...not going to happen...i get tired of women who judge me because i am bald, or have been married and so on...but does it mean i expect a gift box and a dozen of krispe kremes famous because of it...no...
and painting a pretty picture; like i said above; what is it going to take for some one to develop self esteem? just like we coddle poor, picked on high schoolers, the ugly truth called life, once free of mom and daddy, rears its head....reality is just that...so the bouncing bunnies, cute cats and all the pizza's in teh world aren't gonna make any one change their habits, only the face of fact and truth will either open their eyes or blind them to the fact in their own self delusion

honesty is nice when it comes from a nice place.you obviously have a deep rooted dislike for overweight folks ...the tone of your posts say all.

Gypsi, cute, would you kindly pass the pizza, donuts, swonicles, chocolate covered Llama balls, oh and the drugs would top that off just right, eh?

again, shallow insults to add spice to the arguement; i don't care if you and everyone else is happy or what ever about being so called fat, your choice of words; i have no issue with any one of any regard, but when you, start crying why doesn't any one love me because i am _______(insert your issue), quit trying to blame the other guy or girl for your own problems.....

walked in ran out noway

honesty from a nice place...now that is rich...oh by the way, you have cancer, have a nice day...don't see many greeting cards saying that do you...come on...you folks seem to think i am the big bad scum bag because i refuse to sit in complete dis regard for life and how others view me; because some one is fat or black or sick or what ever, is it societies fault that you have made yourself and countless others feel you are some kind of victim? the only crime is killing yourself, and punishing others for it

someone needs a hug

I just read this whole thread and some of these comments on heavey set people made me sick.
I am on the heavy side- and haven't been the toothpick I was in my younger days for years. There are many reasons why we gain weight. Some of us are heathly as can be.

(I would love to see those that made snide remarks gain weight.)

Some weight gain is out of our control...
Some of us carry weight no matter what we do...
Some of us don't eat much at all and still gain weight...
I agree with cute... Stick the threadmill up your arse...
Stop insulting people!!! No matter what size or shape we are-
We are all humanbeings and we have feelings...

I happen to be happy just the way I am and if someone dosen't
like it- they can just keep on walking...
I hope the poster did'nt deactivate due to the stupidity
of some peoples ignorences...

JMO- Teddy

I take responsibility for my own acts and i handle the consequences.Never have posted a 'why am i single' thread or"is my fat ass a turnoff"thread.
accepting people as they are is not enabling it is having a big heart.when people feel good about themselves ,they feel motivated to do things like excercise.Belittling people,pointing out their faults etc just shows the flaws in your character not theirs.I know what I am,I like me.I'm sorry that bothers you bob.If I drop dead it really is none of your concern because frankly i could eat lettuce 365 days of the year and have some psycho shoot me because she got fired that day or his wife wouldn't give him a hummer.
when my number is up,it's up no matter if i'm fat.skinny,sick,healthy or in between.so i'm gonna live my life the way i want,eat foods i want and be happy.

Hmmmm, who insulted you Darlin Bob? That wasn't nice! Let me at um!!!

(((Ms Teddy, Cute)))) Well said. I believe the thread starter was not a question, but a statement! No one asked if they were fat, or for any undue comments of the negative variety.

Hi Bob, Welcome to the site!!

You know some times we all need hugs!

& when your new to a site you don't feel like you have alot of friends yet or fit in some times, So It could be a real bummer to get ugly mail...
I'm one of the ol' timers & have tons of friends & people that love me & I got nothing but Love for just about everybody in the forums.
There is some new peeps I haven't got to know.

In general there is lots of love here...

&&&& If I get ugly mail it still hurts my feelings no matter how much love there is...
So think about how she felt bein new here & getting it??

Would it of been so hard for you to just say a few NICE words??

I'm Sorry your wife had issues & left...
I'm sorry you had a bad seizure..
I know they can leave you feeling like crap for days...



Hiya ((((Rosiebaby)))))

((((((((Msteddie,Cutie,CFire)))))))

Well said (((Catch)))

((catchme))

(((Hugs))) Peoples...