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Topic: Microwave relationships
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Mon 11/28/11 01:32 PM
Edited by Teditis on Mon 11/28/11 01:33 PM



I’m not arrogant enough to say that I’m perfect as I am. I’m more than aware that there are a few elements of my persona that could do with a bit of tweaking here and there. I’m always open to suggestions...as long as someone doesn’t want to change who I am on a fundamental level.

Naw... I wouldn't wanna change a soul, honest.
But I'm "horribly" inquisitive and wanna to know what I'm "getting into"... but I end up interrogating.

Seems peeps get all waded up when you ask them what they "really mean" on any view that they hold dear... and if they hold it "dear", then I wanna understand it, see?
They see... you wanna change me. haha. Whicj ain't true.

But I'm the common denominator... so I guess I need to figure out other ways.

"Microwave" anything seems all too common to me... and I'm not sure that I like it.
Good poat...


Is that your way of saying that you won’t get into the water until you’ve checked the temperature?

I think I'm going to keep the rest of my thoughts to myself methinks but there are some very telling signs in what you've written :smile:


Haha, I love a quick mind. And descretiton... a lovely mix.

But I wouldn't want to use that metaphor as my first pick. (though you're welcome to it... no arguments.)
I'll jump in fast enough... I'll just jump back out if I've misjudged. (or been thrown out, haha.)

"Once burned, twice shy..."
"The considerate man has no one left to blame..."
"... there are no foolish questions, save the one unasked."
"The unexamined life is not worth living" (or dating)
"I chose not to listen to my intuition and thereby gained experience..." (I've learned to listen to my intuition.)
These are some thoughts I have when choosing friends...

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Mon 11/28/11 01:47 PM

I’m not arrogant enough to say that I’m perfect as I am. I’m more than aware that there are a few elements of my persona that could do with a bit of tweaking here and there. I’m always open to suggestions...as long as someone doesn’t want to change who I am on a fundamental level.


Tweaking is one thing, and one should be open to that; relationships necessarily entail varying degrees of personal adaptation.

It's the "fundamental level" thing I have issues with, and that's the level everyone tries to change in me. Still, you can't make a pelican out of Grape Nuts. Not a working one, anyway.



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Mon 11/28/11 01:54 PM
Edited by 42BlackBBW on Mon 11/28/11 01:57 PM




I’m not arrogant enough to say that I’m perfect as I am. I’m more than aware that there are a few elements of my persona that could do with a bit of tweaking here and there. I’m always open to suggestions...as long as someone doesn’t want to change who I am on a fundamental level.

Naw... I wouldn't wanna change a soul, honest.
But I'm "horribly" inquisitive and wanna to know what I'm "getting into"... but I end up interrogating.

Seems peeps get all waded up when you ask them what they "really mean" on any view that they hold dear... and if they hold it "dear", then I wanna understand it, see?
They see... you wanna change me. haha. Whicj ain't true.

But I'm the common denominator... so I guess I need to figure out other ways.

"Microwave" anything seems all too common to me... and I'm not sure that I like it.
Good poat...


Is that your way of saying that you won’t get into the water until you’ve checked the temperature?

I think I'm going to keep the rest of my thoughts to myself methinks but there are some very telling signs in what you've written :smile:


Haha, I love a quick mind. And descretiton... a lovely mix.

But I wouldn't want to use that metaphor as my first pick. (though you're welcome to it... no arguments.)
I'll jump in fast enough... I'll just jump back out if I've misjudged. (or been thrown out, haha.)

"Once burned, twice shy..."
"The considerate man has no one left to blame..."
"... there are no foolish questions, save the one unasked."
"The unexamined life is not worth living" (or dating)
"I chose not to listen to my intuition and thereby gained experience..." (I've learned to listen to my intuition.)
These are some thoughts I have when choosing friends...



Thanking ye kindly :smile:

I've never been known to look gift horses in the mouth :smile:

Jumping in the deep end is never scary if you know how to swim.

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Mon 11/28/11 01:57 PM
Edited by Teditis on Mon 11/28/11 02:14 PM





I’m not arrogant enough to say that I’m perfect as I am. I’m more than aware that there are a few elements of my persona that could do with a bit of tweaking here and there. I’m always open to suggestions...as long as someone doesn’t want to change who I am on a fundamental level.

Naw... I wouldn't wanna change a soul, honest.
But I'm "horribly" inquisitive and wanna to know what I'm "getting into"... but I end up interrogating.

Seems peeps get all waded up when you ask them what they "really mean" on any view that they hold dear... and if they hold it "dear", then I wanna understand it, see?
They see... you wanna change me. haha. Whicj ain't true.

But I'm the common denominator... so I guess I need to figure out other ways.

"Microwave" anything seems all too common to me... and I'm not sure that I like it.
Good poat...


Is that your way of saying that you won’t get into the water until you’ve checked the temperature?

I think I'm going to keep the rest of my thoughts to myself methinks but there are some very telling signs in what you've written :smile:


Haha, I love a quick mind. And descretiton... a lovely mix.

But I wouldn't want to use that metaphor as my first pick. (though you're welcome to it... no arguments.)
I'll jump in fast enough... I'll just jump back out if I've misjudged. (or been thrown out, haha.)

"Once burned, twice shy..."
"The considerate man has no one left to blame..."
"... there are no foolish questions, save the one unasked."
"The unexamined life is not worth living" (or dating)
"I chose not to listen to my intuition and thereby gained experience..." (I've learned to listen to my intuition.)
These are some thoughts I have when choosing friends...



Haha, I love a quick mind. And descretiton... a lovely mix.



Thanking ye kindly :smile:


But I wouldn't want to use that metaphor as my first pick. (though you're welcome to it... no arguments.)




I've never been known to look gift horses in the mouth :smile:

Jumping in the deep end is never scary if you know how to swim.


Hahahaha.. nice.
I know how to swim just fine...
I still think about drowning.
...tis a foible of mine. A weakness, a fear.

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Mon 11/28/11 02:07 PM


I’m not arrogant enough to say that I’m perfect as I am. I’m more than aware that there are a few elements of my persona that could do with a bit of tweaking here and there. I’m always open to suggestions...as long as someone doesn’t want to change who I am on a fundamental level.


Tweaking is one thing, and one should be open to that; relationships necessarily entail varying degrees of personal adaptation.

It's the "fundamental level" thing I have issues with, and that's the level everyone tries to change in me. Still, you can't make a pelican out of Grape Nuts. Not a working one, anyway.





I would do as well. It's deceitful and the worst kind of lie as far as I'm concerned.

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Mon 11/28/11 02:12 PM






I’m not arrogant enough to say that I’m perfect as I am. I’m more than aware that there are a few elements of my persona that could do with a bit of tweaking here and there. I’m always open to suggestions...as long as someone doesn’t want to change who I am on a fundamental level.

Naw... I wouldn't wanna change a soul, honest.
But I'm "horribly" inquisitive and wanna to know what I'm "getting into"... but I end up interrogating.

Seems peeps get all waded up when you ask them what they "really mean" on any view that they hold dear... and if they hold it "dear", then I wanna understand it, see?
They see... you wanna change me. haha. Whicj ain't true.

But I'm the common denominator... so I guess I need to figure out other ways.

"Microwave" anything seems all too common to me... and I'm not sure that I like it.
Good poat...


Is that your way of saying that you won’t get into the water until you’ve checked the temperature?

I think I'm going to keep the rest of my thoughts to myself methinks but there are some very telling signs in what you've written :smile:


Haha, I love a quick mind. And descretiton... a lovely mix.

But I wouldn't want to use that metaphor as my first pick. (though you're welcome to it... no arguments.)
I'll jump in fast enough... I'll just jump back out if I've misjudged. (or been thrown out, haha.)

"Once burned, twice shy..."
"The considerate man has no one left to blame..."
"... there are no foolish questions, save the one unasked."
"The unexamined life is not worth living" (or dating)
"I chose not to listen to my intuition and thereby gained experience..." (I've learned to listen to my intuition.)
These are some thoughts I have when choosing friends...



Haha, I love a quick mind. And descretiton... a lovely mix.



Thanking ye kindly :smile:


But I wouldn't want to use that metaphor as my first pick. (though you're welcome to it... no arguments.)




I've never been known to look gift horses in the mouth :smile:

Jumping in the deep end is never scary if you know how to swim.



Hahahaha.. nice.
I know how to swim just fine...
I still think about drowning.
...tis a foible of mine. A weakness, a fear.


Safety nets are pretty good at minimising fear laugh

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Mon 11/28/11 02:26 PM
haha... isolation works pretty good too, js.

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Mon 11/28/11 02:31 PM

haha... isolation works pretty good too, js.



A net by any other name...:smile:

Teditis's photo
Mon 11/28/11 02:34 PM


haha... isolation works pretty good too, js.



A net by any other name...:smile:

I'll have to watch for you more often...

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Mon 11/28/11 02:47 PM



haha... isolation works pretty good too, js.



A net by any other name...:smile:

I'll have to watch for you more often...


Likewise..I also have a strong appreciation of a quick mind and a weakness for witty banter :smile:

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Mon 11/28/11 07:45 PM



Oh yes I forgot patience, kindness, and a nice butt.


Is that me you are talking about, dada? rofl

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Mon 11/28/11 08:23 PM




Oh yes I forgot patience, kindness, and a nice butt.


Is that me you are talking about, dada? rofl


Cover that bottom!

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Mon 11/28/11 08:25 PM





Oh yes I forgot patience, kindness, and a nice butt.


Is that me you are talking about, dada? rofl


Cover that bottom!


You feel being teased again? tongue2

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Mon 11/28/11 10:14 PM






It's a good thing I'm taken cause I don't know what half the buttons on my microwave are for. frustrated frustrated frustrated


Personally, I think that all those buttons on microwaves were put there to tease and torment people. I wonder if they ever feel under appreciated laugh


I think they all do the same thing, so just like anything else that has buttons, I randomly press them all. At the least, none of them will feel left out.

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