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Are you a realist? A pessimest, or a optimist? Does this have an influence in your dating life or the type of a person you are looking for in your life as a significant other?
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Absofreakinglutely.
I am an optimist. I always see the good first. Those with negative aura's are highly suspect to me. |
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Fri 11/11/11 06:01 AM
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Absofreakinglutely. I am an optimist. I always see the good first. Those with negative aura's are highly suspect to me. can U just say "she said it for me" any negativity - any at all - just starts a downward spiral that is difficult to stop but I find that most people are negative and it can be difficult for them to change their thinking |
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Edited by
42BlackBBW
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Fri 11/11/11 06:06 AM
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I'm an optimistic pessimist
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My first impressions are nearly always correct but I always give someone the opportunity to prove me wrong. |
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I am a definite realist and have been often accused of seeing the details rather than the big picture, but it is often the details that others overlook and they come unstuck because they didn't go into the subject in detail, (if you know what I mean).
Hmmm they don't have any head-scratching smileys, not that I have nits or anything. |
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I am a definite realist and have been often accused of seeing the details rather than the big picture, but it is often the details that others overlook and they come unstuck because they didn't go into the subject in detail, (if you know what I mean). Hmmm they don't have any head-scratching smileys, not that I have nits or anything. See, I think the others are correct to a point, I think the realist sees the details OF the big picture. Which is how I view the world. Does this interfere with dating or does this trait help with dating? |
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A skeptic, a cynic, a questioner.
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A skeptic, a cynic, a questioner. Lex those were not any of the 3 choices. LOL But ok, of the 3 you listed, how do they help or hinder in dating? |
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I was once questioned by one of my teachers...
<<Analyst or Creator?>> |
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I'm an over educated flying pig!
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I was once questioned by one of my teachers... <<Analyst or Creator?>> And your answer you choose was...? How does your choice help or hinder your dating/mate/SO search? |
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I'm an over educated flying pig!
OH you are not flying. 
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A skeptic, a cynic, a questioner. Lex those were not any of the 3 choices. LOL But ok, of the 3 you listed, how do they help or hinder in dating? Well, I guess I'd have to say I'm skeptical/cynical about the whole dating concept. I suppose that could be seen as "pessimistic" but I prefer to see it as realistic. Dating, per se, requires two people (at the very least), and I haven't been able to find a second person in the last three years. |
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I'm fairly optimistic.
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I am optomistic69
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Fri 11/11/11 07:10 AM
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I am a definite realist and have been often accused of seeing the details rather than the big picture, but it is often the details that others overlook and they come unstuck because they didn't go into the subject in detail, (if you know what I mean). Hmmm they don't have any head-scratching smileys, not that I have nits or anything. I like this comment too!! how about a thumbs up smiley 
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A skeptic, a cynic, a questioner. Lex those were not any of the 3 choices. LOL But ok, of the 3 you listed, how do they help or hinder in dating? Well, I guess I'd have to say I'm skeptical/cynical about the whole dating concept. I suppose that could be seen as "pessimistic" but I prefer to see it as realistic. Dating, per se, requires two people (at the very least), and I haven't been able to find a second person in the last three years. Well it took me 5 years, I know that is not a magic number, but I as an realist belive that given the probibliity that the one for you is not on line or found mingle just yet, it will happen for you given more time. Just always stay just as you are. |
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I am optomistic69 I see that. Does this help or hinder? |
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A skeptic, a cynic, a questioner. Lex those were not any of the 3 choices. LOL But ok, of the 3 you listed, how do they help or hinder in dating? Well, I guess I'd have to say I'm skeptical/cynical about the whole dating concept. I suppose that could be seen as "pessimistic" but I prefer to see it as realistic. Dating, per se, requires two people (at the very least), and I haven't been able to find a second person in the last three years. that I see in you - but also just a bascially nice person, lex and those are good things - to be skeptical - we know there's no snake oil in your bathroom cabinet
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I am a definite realist and have been often accused of seeing the details rather than the big picture, but it is often the details that others overlook and they come unstuck because they didn't go into the subject in detail, (if you know what I mean). Hmmm they don't have any head-scratching smileys, not that I have nits or anything. See, I think the others are correct to a point, I think the realist sees the details OF the big picture. Which is how I view the world. Does this interfere with dating or does this trait help with dating? It takes the romance out of dating and it is probably better to be with a like-minded person who also sees the details. Then the couple can discus the details together. Lack of communication is the worst thing in a relationship. |
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