Most nice guys I've met don't brag about being a "nice guy."

They are what they are and they treat women with respect.

They don't expect a pat on the back for being a "nice guy" either.

I expect people to be decent human beings without the thought of getting some reward or pat on the back.

Doing the right thing comes natural to grown up adult men and women.

Its time for all adults to stop whining about their past and start working on themselves.

This includes woman and men.

I'm 62 and I still have a lot of work to do on me. (I'm almost perfect.)

I am an ordinary Guy But as near perfect as one can be

Whew! I sure am glad I am perfect. It is silly though.. I can't imagine anyone saying something along the lines of "Hi I am a huge jerk!.. I will try to sleep with you and text you day and night" ...lol now, really..how would that turn out?

This is really funny rap song:

"I'm just a regular everyday normal guy"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5PsnxDQvQpw

Well, personal opinion here, but it seems that the men don't feel they have anything else really going for themselves except being a "nice" guy. Which could be subjective anyway so may not mean anything at all.

But it appears they have self esteem issues and use the "nice"guy excuse to validate their failures, buying into the stereotypical belief that women want bad boys, of course.

Instead of realizing that confidence is the number one top of the list uber attractor. Men who feel they are less than at any level show it even if it is coming out subconsciously. So they have to work on themselves to break their own feelings of inadequacy before they can attract anyone of value to them.

Women have to do the same also.

I have been working on this because in my previous state I felt less than and I attracted those who wished to abuse me because it was easy for them.

A brilliantly accurate post!!...You get this

Hey if Cheesecake is involved, no mister nice guy here.

OOOO who said cheesecake!!!?

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Me, I am far from perfect but I am honest about it.

Honest is good for me

Well, no point in lying as you will find out one way or another. As Jeanie says; nice guys are just that. They don't brag about it or expect a pat on the back. My best friend is one of the nicest guys I have ever met and its not just me that thinks it. I have met a lot of people around the city and everyone that knows him girl or guy says he is a nice guy. He is a District Chief Firefighter so he is well known in the city.

Well said! I completely agree with this.

A friend of mine from Australia said to me last week that if you are going to liegh make sure you have a good memory.

My mermory is hopeless

I am still procrastinating on writing the book, "How I became perfect."

I divorced my husband. Then I was perfect.

I hear ya.

it is the first means of attack ...first ya stun them (with a surprising fact- im a nice guy) then while they are in awe and shocked you throw the head in for the kiss....before they've realized it ..they are going home with that nice guy!!!!!! .....everyone wants to meet someone nice! ha ha

that was hilarious.....this was funny too. same guy.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=15S0g8pG6HU&feature=fvwrel

Hilarious!!