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I asked you a question because I didn't know what you meant. When you meet people face to face there is no hiding. Behind a computer screen a person could be any personality they want. Fake photos/fake information etc etc 
Well, sure. However, that doesn't mean people in person can't hid anything. Nor does it mean that people online are hiding things. Some do and some don't ,got to sort out the men/women from the devious Right. I just can't assume that everyone online is lying and everyone in person isn't hiding anything. That comes out through getting to know people. Not quite sure what his has to do with nice guys, though. Well there you go......lets reserve judgment until we have all the facts...nice getting to know you 
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Yep, I'm all for getting to know people better to see what they're like. However, if they start off as whiny guys complaining about how they're too nice, that's not going to make me want to take the time to get to know them.
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Yep, I'm all for getting to know people better to see what they're like. However, if they start off as whiny guys complaining about how they're too nice, that's not going to make me want to take the time to get to know them. You don't bother with them,end of story...move on as some the enlightened men/women on here will tell you. But then again most people on here have history ...some unfortunately have baggage. |
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Yep, I'm all for getting to know people better to see what they're like. However, if they start off as whiny guys complaining about how they're too nice, that's not going to make me want to take the time to get to know them. You don't bother with them,end of story...move on as some the enlightened men/women on here will tell you. But then again most people on here have history ...some unfortunately have baggage. Do you always repeat what people have said? You're basically telling me to handle things the way I've already said I handle them. 
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Optomistic69
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Fri 11/04/11 08:09 AM
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Yep, I'm all for getting to know people better to see what they're like. However, if they start off as whiny guys complaining about how they're too nice, that's not going to make me want to take the time to get to know them. You don't bother with them,end of story...move on as some the enlightened men/women on here will tell you. But then again most people on here have history ...some unfortunately have baggage. Do you always repeat what people have said? You're basically telling me[/} to handle things the way I've already said I handle them.
If I am basically telling you then I am not repeating what you said.  
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Hummmmm all I'm saying is if you have to tell me your a nice guy/girl then something is wrong with this picture.....
Someone that is always trying to convice others of what they are normally are not what they think they are!! 
Let me find out for myself just be yourself.... 
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LOL I kind of shake my head when this conversation pops up. Wasn't until I got into the virtual world that calling a man a "Nice guy" became such a loaded title.
I really don't know how a typical man who is generally not used to describing themself is going to describe himself without useing such a term. Especially if he is used to "nice" meaning generally mature, considerate, a minimum of manners, and not a braggart. Terms of self description are always going to be subject to interpretaion and validation but hey I will accept "Nice guy" as a description and be optomistic at least that it means the same thing as it does in my book. Not a push over just cival and a basic good guy. |
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Yep, I'm all for getting to know people better to see what they're like. However, if they start off as whiny guys complaining about how they're too nice, that's not going to make me want to take the time to get to know them. You don't bother with them,end of story...move on as some the enlightened men/women on here will tell you. But then again most people on here have history ...some unfortunately have baggage. Do you always repeat what people have said? You're basically telling me[/} to handle things the way I've already said I handle them.
If I am basically telling you then I am not repeating what you said.
As I've already said, if they're being whiny and complaining that they're too nice, it's not going to make me want to take the time to get to know them. Which means, I wouldn't bother with them and that I'd move on. I wasn't asking for advice. I was stating how I dealt with "nice guys." |
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Hummmmm all I'm saying is if you have to tell me your a nice guy/girl then something is wrong with this picture..... Someone that is always trying to convice others of what they are normally are not what they think they are!!
Let me find out for myself just be yourself....
Totally agree. 
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Yep, I'm all for getting to know people better to see what they're like. However, if they start off as whiny guys complaining about how they're too nice, that's not going to make me want to take the time to get to know them. You don't bother with them,end of story...move on as some the enlightened men/women on here will tell you. But then again most people on here have history ...some unfortunately have baggage. Do you always repeat what people have said? You're basically telling me[/} to handle things the way I've already said I handle them.
If I am basically telling you then I am not repeating what you said.
As I've already said, if they're being whiny and complaining that they're too nice, it's not going to make me want to take the time to get to know them. Which means, I wouldn't bother with them and that I'd move on. I wasn't asking for advice. I was stating how I dealt with "nice guys." Haven't read all your posts..sorry but you tell me briefly how you deal with "Nice Boys" Just for me please 
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Yep, I'm all for getting to know people better to see what they're like. However, if they start off as whiny guys complaining about how they're too nice, that's not going to make me want to take the time to get to know them. You don't bother with them,end of story...move on as some the enlightened men/women on here will tell you. But then again most people on here have history ...some unfortunately have baggage. Do you always repeat what people have said? You're basically telling me[/} to handle things the way I've already said I handle them.
If I am basically telling you then I am not repeating what you said.
As I've already said, if they're being whiny and complaining that they're too nice, it's not going to make me want to take the time to get to know them. Which means, I wouldn't bother with them and that I'd move on. I wasn't asking for advice. I was stating how I dealt with "nice guys." Haven't read all your posts..sorry but you tell me briefly how you deal with "Nice Boys" Just for me please
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Yep, I'm all for getting to know people better to see what they're like. However, if they start off as whiny guys complaining about how they're too nice, that's not going to make me want to take the time to get to know them. You don't bother with them,end of story...move on as some the enlightened men/women on here will tell you. But then again most people on here have history ...some unfortunately have baggage. Do you always repeat what people have said? You're basically telling me[/} to handle things the way I've already said I handle them.
If I am basically telling you then I am not repeating what you said.
As I've already said, if they're being whiny and complaining that they're too nice, it's not going to make me want to take the time to get to know them. Which means, I wouldn't bother with them and that I'd move on. I wasn't asking for advice. I was stating how I dealt with "nice guys." Haven't read all your posts..sorry but you tell me briefly how you deal with "Nice Boys" Just for me please
That was brief 
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I'm not sure what you're asking for that I haven't already stated.
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I'm not sure what you're asking for that I haven't already stated.
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I'm not sure what you're asking for that I haven't already stated.
Exactly. I'm just trying to figure out what you're asking for. |
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I'm not sure what you're asking for that I haven't already stated.
Exactly. I'm just trying to figure out what you're asking for. We are going around in circles best to let it die
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I'm not sure what you're asking for that I haven't already stated.
Exactly. I'm just trying to figure out what you're asking for. We are going around in circles best to let it die
We're going in circles because you are not being clear about what you're asking for. If you can't clearly explain what you want me to tell you, then I cannot help you. |
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I'm not sure what you're asking for that I haven't already stated.
Exactly. I'm just trying to figure out what you're asking for. We are going around in circles best to let it die
We're going in circles because you are not being clear about what you're asking for. If you can't clearly explain what you want me to tell you, then I cannot help you. I do not need any help....but thank you for the offer.
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So then you're always confusing like this? Even when asked to be clearer about what you're asking for? Thanks for the heads up.
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So then you're always confusing like this? Even when asked to be clearer about what you're asking for? Thanks for the heads up. I surrender
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