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Because their good lives are a bit boring I guess.....

Usually because nice guys are boring as hell, unchallenging, and don't trigger attraction in women. I'm an ex-nice guy.

There's not really anything to rate in your profile.

then you hear them good girls cry and ask why do i get treated so bad.

Cause their shwartzes are bigger, though they don't always know what to do with them.

I think because people always want the unattainable.

i used to love bad boys it was the thrill of the chase the attention and the feeling of the unknown.it was a rush!

now id rather go the guy i know i can count on and who has my back and im still looking for the guy i can count on lol

Because women think 'bad boys' are strong, when in fact - they're weak! Bad boys are selfish & no respecters of women. Yes, they're funny, exciting, dangerous, unpredictable etc... The downside being they're totally self obsessed, immature players who only think about sex with you, your friends, anybody within drinking distance... they'll never want to settle down & commit to you, get seriously emotionally involved with you, cherish the ground you walk upon because they're not going to remain in one place too long. Once they're bored or you've become far too clingy... they're off for new talent... more conquests. These guys never grow up! They're super shallow...

............yeah....ok....

Allow me to retort....

Women don't want bad guys or good guys. They want a good guy who can be bad. They want bad guy who is really good.

They don't want some mysogynistic A-Hole and they dont want a panzy.

They want a man when he needs to be a fkn man. They want him to be a boy. They want him to be a lover. They want him to be a friend.

If you are just good or bad...you are only limitig your options.

Dead on Krupa. You are a very insightful man.


In the same vein, why do guys always want to date the hot, sexy, young, nasty girls/women and then complain when she dumps him?

For a lasting relationship, men really want a woman that is intelligent, compassionate, loving, a good cook, and tolerant of some imperfections AND a sexy, nasty lover in the bedroom (or whereever). They want a woman that will be their friend as well as a lover.

It's like the old song goes "If you want to be happy marry a woman uglier than you" but in my case they don't make those.

Way to go Krupa.....

No offence, just that i'm fed up of seeing posts that seem to define that all women do this, and that all men do that. There are various types of people. No need to be so black or white about life. I think you can be attracted to someone for many reasons, not just personality.

Well said, Krupa.

We want a nice guy who isn't also too afraid to speak up when something isn't right. A nice guy with a backbone.

1. Nice guys. His mother taught him that to attract a woman you have to:
a. Open the door for her
b. Hold her coat
c. Never argue with her
d. Always be polite
e. Etc...
These are desirable once "one is in a relationship with a woman" but they do not teach a man how to draw her attention. The average nice guy doesn't really understand how a woman's mind works and ends up boring her.

2. Jerks and bad boys. These types have a personality disorder that happens to create circumstances that women like. They are uncontrollable, exciting, a challenge and always manipulating and triggering a woman's emotions.

3. Enlightened nice guy. Probably what most women are looking for but can't find. He is the basic nice guy with no intent on using a woman and then dumping her to the curb for a new "side of beef". This type of man understands how a woman's emotions can be directed and channeled to draw her towards himself if he desires a relationship. Once a woman finds one of these they can't get enough of him.

hmm, to me it looks like the bad boys aren't here on the forums whining all the time. The only whining I have seen lately has been from themso called nice guys.

The same spontaneous type of personality typical of bad boys, is also the type of personality that produces a more passionate romantic type.

Passionate personalities are a double edged sword, though, as what goes up in a passion way...also comes down quite passionately too. By the time we realize we are dealing with a bad boy or worse... a heavy duty mmanic type, we are so hooked on the romantic passion that we try to deal with the bad side so we can keep getting our fix.

Could not have said it better.....we don't want a wimp nor do we want one that whines all the time...

They have to be able to be a man but........are able to show their emontions as well...Don't want one that is looking for their mommy nor a maid but one that knows the meaning of what equal is and knows when to stand up and show they can be a man....

We don't one that walks around with their head up their azz but one that can take control of situations when needed and able to make choices on their own when needed...

Other wise if ya whine and can't think for your self and always lookiing for someone to do everything for ya then man up there is a woman around the corner that will be waiting for ya!!

so they can make his life into a living hell.

...and that's what he gets for being bad.