1. Nice guys. His mother taught him that to attract a woman you have to:
a. Open the door for her
b. Hold her coat
c. Never argue with her
d. Always be polite
e. Etc...
These are desirable once "one is in a relationship with a woman" but they do not teach a man how to draw her attention. The average nice guy doesn't really understand how a woman's mind works and ends up boring her.

2. Jerks and bad boys. These types have a personality disorder that happens to create circumstances that women like. They are uncontrollable, exciting, a challenge and always manipulating and triggering a woman's emotions.

3. Enlightened nice guy. Probably what most women are looking for but can't find. He is the basic nice guy with no intent on using a woman and then dumping her to the curb for a new "side of beef". This type of man understands how a woman's emotions can be directed and channeled to draw her towards himself if he desires a relationship. Once a woman finds one of these they can't get enough of him.

indianadave4,

Well since you have it all figured out, you should have women crawling all over you.

Why and how do you think a guy with a "personality disorder" would "create circumstances that women like?"

HUH? Women don't want men with personality disorders.

Women want a strong, intelligent, confident grownup man.

Women want a real man! A grown up confident man who isn't so addicted to sex that he can't say no to women who offer it to him. A man like that will not be, faithful to a woman. He will allow himself to be seduced by any woman to lifts up her dress.

How hard is it to find an intelligent, strong, confident grownup man? Very hard.