seriously this is the only dating site I have seen where almost everyone in my area has not been on for a month or more and no new profiles since I signed up, very discouraging.

What, you're not gone yet?!

Tribbles try and be nice. He's only saying what ALOT of people feel. Its just pent up frustration.

With only one post, I would feel discouraged too....just sayin

Wouldn't that just mean that your area is dead?

hahahahaha

seriously though

One post and a lack of success makes this a dead site? Must be Halloween!

Many do have problems finding active locals here. But, get involved in the forums and you'll meet some cool people.

It is the same in my area...just the way it goes...

Road Trip!!

It is a bit slow at the moment,but so are other Places!
Winter will change things!

Well; Welcome to the site. Grand luck indeed in your search.

Obviously the forums are the only part of this supposive dating site that are booming, i'm not interested in meeting someone half the world away. Seriously who had time to troll these forums all day anyways?

You haven't even been here a month yet...be patient..All things in their own time. Welcome to Mingle. Good Luck to you.

If you look under the profile pictures, you can see how long everyone has been here and how many times they post.
This site is in no way 'dead'. It's just a slow time of the year.

The internet is available to widen your
prospective pool of possibilities.
If you still wish to limit yourself to your
immediate area, you could just take a walk.

But if you want to open your eyes to what is
here, you may see something you can't
live without.

I think you have a point there. I used to fish here a lot and not even get a nibble. After a while even my most patient friend asked me if I was just drowning worms. He seemed to fare better than me so I asked him what he was using for bait. He said that he was using the same bait as me but he had this troll motor. He told me that it didn't hardly make any waves. He had this way of communicating with the fish. It was a new experience for me. One day he took me for a ride in his boat. It was a Cajun Bass Boat. It was the prettiest boat I had ever seen. It had live wells. It was really something. Yup. If you ever get serious about trolling I would get one.

What you want me to change?? I'm ready...bring it on

Leave it to me to put Foot In Mouth!