I resent being called a troll


I'm and addict......Forum Addict that is

Just because you don't find anyone in your area does not mean there are not plenty of those that live a distance you could have as a friend....The forums is where we all meet and chat about what ever comes up....

Have fun and come trolling with us ya never know what may happen. You might even enjoy it....

Then don't rely on the site to meet anyone. Use the time to go out and meet people, rather than complaining.

Look..expecting to find someone here on the site without putting time and effort into it is like expecting to lose weight without diet and exercise. It aint gonna happen.

Give it time...if relationships were that easy and quick to find, there wouldn't be ten million dating websites out there. I wish you luck. :)

Hi bigblockcoupe,

The site is alive and well. Here are a few suggestions that might help.

First, expand your search criteria. Simply expanding by fifty miles, and changing age preference by a couple of years (either way) can produce more results. I'm sure if you find someone you like, that extra fifty miles will not be a problem.

Second, Your profile doesn't say much about you. Your profile should be upbeat, and complete. Talk about things you like, your hobbies, etc. and also more about what you are looking for in a potential partner. Give the reader something to peak their interest. Profiles are much like classified ads.

Say you want to sell a car, "for sale; 2001 Buick, brown $2500" Well that doesn't say much.. all the reader knows, is what they see. It doesn't say anything about the condition of the tires/paint/interior/mileage. Those are things a prospective buyer would want to know. The same is true with profiles.

Lastly, simply having a profile will not do the work for you. You have to get it noticed. This is where emails come into play. If someone interests you, shoot them an email. It's a safe bet, the person will read your profile, before responding, so the above advice is solid. Also, in closing, women, generally do not like to make the first move, so that first contact email is important.

Good luck in your search.

Did anyone actually take the time to read my initial post?i was griping that there is hardly anyone that is on the site that is remotely close, like within 100 miles, that has visited their profile in the last 30 days and almost no new profiles. What is there to put time into?Almost every single profile isn't being checked by the poster so why would I email or try to make contact with people who no longer frequent the site? This could be regional but seriously I doubt it. I've had several hits from women in other countries but usually that leads to some kind of scam or its the site moderators using made up profiles to drum up interest in your profile in an attempt to get you to upgrade. Just my 2 cents from prior experiences.

What would you like people to do? Force women in your area to join? As a few of us have said, we also have issues with not many locals. We gave you ideas to meet other people and you did not like them.

This is a free site. If you don't like it, I'm sure you can find one to pay for that may have more locals.

Or, you could start being friendly and chat with new people.

Dee duh dee! Never mind.

Awesome attitude you have there!

Actually bro....

First things first...Try a little patience.

If you ordered a guitar, you would still be waiting on it if it came in the mail.

So like it or not, patience is required. Unless you gotta have someone in walking distance that is FaceBook stuff. But, if you gotta have some one that close, hit either clubs bars or churches...plenty of chicks there. Go snap one up then tell us how it goes.

Personally, I dig this site. I have physically met close to 20 people from this site and they have all been very cool to hang out with, party with and even fall in love with. Plus, I get to travel alot too. Hell, end of the month I am flying out to the Oregon coast to spend a week with an awesome woman!

usually it goes in spells il meet 2 or 3 girls at one time darn the luck if all 3 wont be out of country or the state an want me to send money so once a month or so i meet a few some times just dont think will ever meet the right one lol.

With that attitude its no wonder you are single.....what woman wants to date a man to be belittled?? You live in Okalhoma do you know the women in your area.....do you expect to find many women in your area that you dont know on here?? Is it a small area? Is it a large area.....did you go to school with everyone in town?? Where do you go to meet women in your area?? How far are you actually willing to go to meet your woman?? Maybe you should move to a larger pool possibility??

Here is a little proof that this place works on many levels.

Hanging out with TxsGal



Enjoying some th my Mingle woman Soufiehere



EseBulldog is a great Mingle date!!



Hanging out for a weekend with a bunch of Minglers from this site that may not be a deadas you think.

There may not be many people in your area who even know about Mingle. I found this site a couple years ago simply by mistake when I was learning about how to surf the web. If there are places in your area where singles meet you could ask the establishments there if you could put up a notice on their community board informing people of the Mingle site. That costs nothing but your time and you never know who would read it and join up. Maybe someone you would like to meet? Just my opinion, but I don't think it could hurt to try to network that way. You don't even have to put anything about yourself on the flyer.

Oops, double post

*shoots thread with shotgun* Now it's REALLY dead

I know! Trolling is so time consuming! I finally gave that up and just participated, instead.

Save your breath....

Negative attitudes produce negative results.

If this dude is chapped cause women didn't come flocking to him in droves....I can welcome him to my world.

I just tried that. One of the locals who showed up was the other guy who keeps creating negative threads about women.

sounds like your a little inexperienced with the online dating scene