Topic: Should love ever give up?
TBRich's photo
Mon 11/14/11 11:34 AM
My Dad once said this about marriage: its like going to the BaskinRobbins- with 31 flavours why settle for Rocky Road?

msharmony's photo
Mon 11/14/11 01:48 PM

My Dad once said this about marriage: its like going to the BaskinRobbins- with 31 flavours why settle for Rocky Road?



cause there is nothing like home made ice cream when you already have the ingredients at home,,,,lol

OddestBell's photo
Mon 11/14/11 04:30 PM
Not all people know how to love and sometimes those people wind up in relationships with those who love with all of their heart. While one starts to put down roots and gets to ready to grow, the other one just can't crack through the shell. In those cases, it's best to give love up since it's a one-sided affair and all it can do is hurt the other.

no photo
Tue 11/15/11 03:28 AM

Not all people know how to love and sometimes those people wind up in relationships with those who love with all of their heart. While one starts to put down roots and gets to ready to grow, the other one just can't crack through the shell. In those cases, it's best to give love up since it's a one-sided affair and all it can do is hurt the other.

I guess if it's not a two-way street, it's better to call it quit...else someone might get hurt

boonedoggy61's photo
Tue 11/15/11 07:27 AM
I felt Like this after my last divorce in 99...I kind of recessed into my own little world. I did'nt try to get out and meet anyone actually
I guess I did not want to meet anyone....and then with loosing my two kids I fell deeper into that hole.It has been a long hard battle for me to try and fight back from all this...but I am still trying.......

teadipper's photo
Tue 11/15/11 07:32 AM
I did not see it but probably already someone has said it.

A HUGE part of love is knowing when to let someone go.

vivian2981's photo
Tue 11/15/11 07:36 AM

I felt Like this after my last divorce in 99...I kind of recessed into my own little world. I did'nt try to get out and meet anyone actually
I guess I did not want to meet anyone....and then with loosing my two kids I fell deeper into that hole.It has been a long hard battle for me to try and fight back from all this...but I am still trying.......


I did that after my last divorce, went into hiding. But you can only hide so much. I joined this site and the friends I've made here have drawn me out of that hole I was in. Still not really looking for anything permanent..but that is a personal choice..I like my life now.

boonedoggy61's photo
Tue 11/15/11 07:40 AM


I felt Like this after my last divorce in 99...I kind of recessed into my own little world. I did'nt try to get out and meet anyone actually
I guess I did not want to meet anyone....and then with loosing my two kids I fell deeper into that hole.It has been a long hard battle for me to try and fight back from all this...but I am still trying.......


I did that after my last divorce, went into hiding. But you can only hide so much. I joined this site and the friends I've made here have drawn me out of that hole I was in. Still not really looking for anything permanent..but that is a personal choice..I like my life now.



Yeh I have to agree with ya Vivian being here sure has helped alot..
I love everyone here....

soufiehere's photo
Tue 11/15/11 07:44 AM

I felt Like this after my last divorce in 99..
.I kind of recessed into my own little world.
I did'nt try to get out and meet anyone
actually
I guess I did not want to meet anyone....and
then with loosing my two kids I fell deeper
into that hole.It has been a long hard battle for me to try and fight back from all this...but I am still
trying.......

Trying.
Is the whole game.

boonedoggy61's photo
Tue 11/15/11 07:50 AM


I felt Like this after my last divorce in 99..
.I kind of recessed into my own little world.
I did'nt try to get out and meet anyone
actually
I guess I did not want to meet anyone....and
then with loosing my two kids I fell deeper
into that hole.It has been a long hard battle for me to try and fight back from all this...but I am still
trying.......

Trying.
Is the whole game.




Thanks Soufie..........

soufiehere's photo
Tue 11/15/11 07:59 AM


Trying.
Is the whole game.

Thanks Soufie..........

:heart:

no photo
Tue 11/15/11 08:19 AM



Trying.
Is the whole game.

Thanks Soufie..........

:heart:

No crime in trying

boonedoggy61's photo
Tue 11/15/11 08:53 AM
nope there's not...

RhonLynn's photo
Tue 11/15/11 09:20 AM

I married my ex twice. What's that line? Do me once shame on you. Do me twice shame on me.laugh I am so happy that she found someone that she is happy with. She is even on my Facebook. I think her new husband is so good for her. I see her having good times with the kids we had. The love isn't dead. She is just with the person she should have been with to begin with. I really believe she found her soul mate. Its all good.:smile:


flowerforyou

boonedoggy61's photo
Tue 11/15/11 11:17 AM


I married my ex twice. What's that line? Do me once shame on you. Do me twice shame on me.laugh I am so happy that she found someone that she is happy with. She is even on my Facebook. I think her new husband is so good for her. I see her having good times with the kids we had. The love isn't dead. She is just with the person she should have been with to begin with. I really believe she found her soul mate. Its all good.:smile:


flowerforyou





I did the same thing......................

boonedoggy61's photo
Tue 11/15/11 12:35 PM




Trying.
Is the whole game.

Thanks Soufie..........

:heart:

No crime in trying






I tried all thru the divorce but she would not listen...Almost a year later here she came back...I was so inlove with this woman when she asked if we could start over....I said yes.....

vivian2981's photo
Tue 11/15/11 12:58 PM



I married my ex twice. What's that line? Do me once shame on you. Do me twice shame on me.laugh I am so happy that she found someone that she is happy with. She is even on my Facebook. I think her new husband is so good for her. I see her having good times with the kids we had. The love isn't dead. She is just with the person she should have been with to begin with. I really believe she found her soul mate. Its all good.:smile:


flowerforyou





I did the same thing......................


twiceslaphead

boonedoggy61's photo
Tue 11/15/11 01:02 PM
Yep.............

boonedoggy61's photo
Wed 11/16/11 04:12 AM
Oh well....I thought we could make it work.............

vivian2981's photo
Wed 11/16/11 05:44 AM
It did work...we got over itlaugh