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Topic: what grabs your attention most about the opposite sex?
singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sat 09/03/11 11:44 AM
And Krupalicious, can you explain to me how a woman gets your attention with sex? Does she just walk up and lift her skirt? Although with the new picture, I wouldn't be suprised. Where I am from a BJ comes before the skirt lifting...(where are you from?) Sex is in the first eye contact....you KNOW...in the first two minutes.. You know right then and there if you are gonna get lucky. Glad you like the pic but I was just squatting down to fart. Are you kidding? Within the first two minutes? What is it some kind of Jedi mind trick? I don't even know if I'm going to approach a man or want him to approach me in two minutes:( I'm with you on this one. I wouldn't say I know that quickly either.

MrBiscuit Joined Tue 05/17/11 Posts: 1996	Sat 09/03/11 03:19 PM
what attracts you to a certain type? What about him or her grabs your interest? What makes you want to talk to them and learn more? hate to admit it, but the only thing that strikes my mind at first is SEX. You may call me a Jerk i wont I won't either and agree with the guys on this one! If there is no sexual spark all the wit & intelligence in the world still ain't gonna hold my interest! what is a 'sexual spark',,? do people immediately look at other people and instantly feel 'ooh, Id love to have sex with that one' They do with me. But, I don't operate that way. I am more romantic natured. And I have to feel that way first, before I would consider anything else :)

txmomof2 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 73300	Sat 09/03/11 03:38 PM
Thanks for backing me up white girl! No problem. Anything for a Texas man ANYTHING ? Yes anything

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 09/03/11 05:40 PM
what grabs your attention most about the opposite sex? It can be something as subtle as, the way they walked past me. The gait, the turn of the head, the attitude in the eyes. Or as complex as pheromones did it and it's not my fault.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 09/03/11 05:41 PM
what attracts you to a certain type? What about him or her grabs your interest? What makes you want to talk to them and learn more? hate to admit it, but the only thing that strikes my mind at first is SEX. You may call me a Jerk i wont I won't either and agree with the guys on this one! If there is no sexual spark all the wit & intelligence in the world still ain't gonna hold my interest! what is a 'sexual spark',,? do people immediately look at other people and instantly feel 'ooh, Id love to have sex with that one' They do with me. But, I don't operate that way. I am more romantic natured. And I have to feel that way first, before I would consider anything else :) I'm dumbfounded someone had to ask what a sexual spark is... oh itsa gonna be a loooong night

MrBiscuit Joined Tue 05/17/11 Posts: 1996	Sat 09/03/11 05:44 PM
what attracts you to a certain type? What about him or her grabs your interest? What makes you want to talk to them and learn more? hate to admit it, but the only thing that strikes my mind at first is SEX. You may call me a Jerk i wont I won't either and agree with the guys on this one! If there is no sexual spark all the wit & intelligence in the world still ain't gonna hold my interest! what is a 'sexual spark',,? do people immediately look at other people and instantly feel 'ooh, Id love to have sex with that one' They do with me. But, I don't operate that way. I am more romantic natured. And I have to feel that way first, before I would consider anything else :) I'm dumbfounded someone had to ask what a sexual spark is... oh itsa gonna be a loooong night I know right

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 09/03/11 05:45 PM
what attracts you to a certain type? What about him or her grabs your interest? What makes you want to talk to them and learn more? hate to admit it, but the only thing that strikes my mind at first is SEX. You may call me a Jerk I think ash gets the whole sexual spark thing 10pts for the man

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 09/03/11 05:47 PM
"what is a 'sexual spark',,?" "do people immediately look at other people and instantly feel 'ooh, Id love to have sex with that one'?" Yes really? wow. thats kind of scary,, so is this an ongoing thing or does it have a turn off switch based upon relationship status? of course it does feel it is not the same as "do it"

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 09/03/11 05:51 PM
what attracts you to a certain type? What about him or her grabs your interest? What makes you want to talk to them and learn more? hate to admit it, but the only thing that strikes my mind at first is SEX. You may call me a Jerk i wont I won't either and agree with the guys on this one! If there is no sexual spark all the wit & intelligence in the world still ain't gonna hold my interest! what is a 'sexual spark',,? do people immediately look at other people and instantly feel 'ooh, Id love to have sex with that one' They do with me. But, I don't operate that way. I am more romantic natured. And I have to feel that way first, before I would consider anything else :) I'm dumbfounded someone had to ask what a sexual spark is... oh itsa gonna be a loooong night I know right well I suppose it can depend what someone looks for but I hafta have the spark everything else is secondary but some people are looking so long and hard at lists of criteria that I am not sure they really have time to feel anything makes my head spin to think of it

MrBiscuit Joined Tue 05/17/11 Posts: 1996	Sat 09/03/11 05:57 PM
what attracts you to a certain type? What about him or her grabs your interest? What makes you want to talk to them and learn more? hate to admit it, but the only thing that strikes my mind at first is SEX. You may call me a Jerk i wont I won't either and agree with the guys on this one! If there is no sexual spark all the wit & intelligence in the world still ain't gonna hold my interest! what is a 'sexual spark',,? do people immediately look at other people and instantly feel 'ooh, Id love to have sex with that one' They do with me. But, I don't operate that way. I am more romantic natured. And I have to feel that way first, before I would consider anything else :) I'm dumbfounded someone had to ask what a sexual spark is... oh itsa gonna be a loooong night I know right well I suppose it can depend what someone looks for but I hafta have the spark everything else is secondary but some people are looking so long and hard at lists of criteria that I am not sure they really have time to feel anything makes my head spin to think of it I've never had a sexual spark, so I don't understand people that do have it. My brother has it, but not me That's why I'm a true old fashioned Gentleman, and always will be ^_^

manOfewwords Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 29908	Sat 09/03/11 06:22 PM
Thanks for backing me up white girl! No problem. Anything for a Texas man ANYTHING ? Yes anything

winterblue56 Joined Sun 12/12/10 Posts: 2465	Sat 09/03/11 06:52 PM
Laughter

winterblue56 Joined Sun 12/12/10 Posts: 2465	Sat 09/03/11 06:53 PM
what attracts you to a certain type? What about him or her grabs your interest? What makes you want to talk to them and learn more? Hair and eyes. Long hair is a definite turn-on for me. And the natural look without make-up is the other "killer." If you would have added "barefoot", you have had me to a T

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 09/03/11 06:59 PM
what attracts you to a certain type? What about him or her grabs your interest? What makes you want to talk to them and learn more? hate to admit it, but the only thing that strikes my mind at first is SEX. You may call me a Jerk i wont I won't either and agree with the guys on this one! If there is no sexual spark all the wit & intelligence in the world still ain't gonna hold my interest! what is a 'sexual spark',,? do people immediately look at other people and instantly feel 'ooh, Id love to have sex with that one' They do with me. But, I don't operate that way. I am more romantic natured. And I have to feel that way first, before I would consider anything else :) I'm dumbfounded someone had to ask what a sexual spark is... oh itsa gonna be a loooong night I know right well I suppose it can depend what someone looks for but I hafta have the spark everything else is secondary but some people are looking so long and hard at lists of criteria that I am not sure they really have time to feel anything makes my head spin to think of it I've never had a sexual spark, so I don't understand people that do have it. My brother has it, but not me That's why I'm a true old fashioned Gentleman, and always will be ^_^ old fashioned gentlemen are quite sparky spark with manners = very sexy

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Sat 09/03/11 07:22 PM
Not sure what being a gentleman has to do with not having sexuality. The sexual spark is simply a confident sense of self no matter the situation (such as being naked) I would think that being a gentleman in addition to being sexually confident would be like pouring gasoline onto a fire.

txmomof2 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 73300	Sat 09/03/11 09:21 PM
Not sure what being a gentleman has to do with not having sexuality. The sexual spark is simply a confident sense of self no matter the situation (such as being naked) I would think that being a gentleman in addition to being sexually confident would be like pouring gasoline onto a fire. Oh my nothing hotter then a sexually confident gentleman

1on2wheels Joined Wed 08/24/11 Posts: 8	Sat 09/03/11 09:25 PM
A smile. first, then what they have to say. and the their physical looks. Honest.

txmomof2 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 73300	Sat 09/03/11 09:28 PM
Thanks for backing me up white girl! No problem. Anything for a Texas man ANYTHING ? Yes anything

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Sat 09/03/11 09:30 PM
Not sure what being a gentleman has to do with not having sexuality. The sexual spark is simply a confident sense of self no matter the situation (such as being naked) I would think that being a gentleman in addition to being sexually confident would be like pouring gasoline onto a fire. Oh my nothing hotter then a sexually confident gentleman Word to yo muthah. :)

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Sat 09/03/11 09:35 PM
I ain't positive that women still like it but, I was raised old school. You open doors for ladies. You accompany them and protect them. You make them smile as best you can. You give them a welcoming shoulder and an open ear. You treat her with the respect that you would demand for yourself. I ain't ever gonna get away from the stereotype of treating a woman like an equal. I woulda sucked at being a cave man.