Topic: what grabs your attention most about the opposite sex?
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Sun 09/04/11 11:25 PM
Manners, sense of humor, Good self esteem.

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Sun 09/04/11 11:56 PM
Someone with a sense of humor and some brains usually attracts me first. How they treat me is also a big part of it. A Neanderthal type, crude person or snobby guys are a real turn off.

prashant01's photo
Sun 09/04/11 11:59 PM
Tastes & priorities varies as per your age,so do attraction factors too

ybcat1's photo
Mon 09/05/11 05:57 PM

what attracts you to a certain type? What about him or her grabs your interest? What makes you want to talk to them and learn more?





Love those almond eyes. smile2

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Mon 09/05/11 06:06 PM



Not sure what being a gentleman has to do with not having sexuality.

The sexual spark is simply a confident sense of self no matter the situation (such as being naked)

I would think that being a gentleman in addition to being sexually confident would be like pouring gasoline onto a fire.


I said I'm an old fashioned Gentlemen. And it's beyond my imagination to just jump in bed with the first Lady I see.

You won't understand me, I'd say nearly everyone on mingle won't understand me. Intimacy is something that comes much later on, and what makes you think I don't have sexuality. I do, but only for the ones that actually mean something to me (emotionally). Just not right of the bat with anyone.


YOu indeed are a unique individual my dear MrBiscuitflowers flowers


but what he is saying sounds pretty normal to me rather than unique

hence I have said on here before and repeat that I feel like I am culturally different here

what biscuit is saying is the norm NOT the exception where I come from...slaphead

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Mon 09/05/11 06:09 PM


Now im thinkin what would happen if we all started to perform 'Celibacy'



There would be a lot less idiots in the worldnoway
rofl rofl

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Mon 09/05/11 06:37 PM




Not sure what being a gentleman has to do with not having sexuality.

The sexual spark is simply a confident sense of self no matter the situation (such as being naked)

I would think that being a gentleman in addition to being sexually confident would be like pouring gasoline onto a fire.


I said I'm an old fashioned Gentlemen. And it's beyond my imagination to just jump in bed with the first Lady I see.

You won't understand me, I'd say nearly everyone on mingle won't understand me. Intimacy is something that comes much later on, and what makes you think I don't have sexuality. I do, but only for the ones that actually mean something to me (emotionally). Just not right of the bat with anyone.


YOu indeed are a unique individual my dear MrBiscuitflowers flowers


but what he is saying sounds pretty normal to me rather than unique

hence I have said on here before and repeat that I feel like I am culturally different here

what biscuit is saying is the norm NOT the exception where I come from...slaphead


That's why we get along so well ^_^

We share the same time line of inheritance. That's mainly what it is :)

wxmann's photo
Tue 09/06/11 05:54 PM
Hmm... think

Fairly long hair, but not too long - about shoulder length. I like a gal with curly hair. Brown eyes seem to attract me. I like a gal in long dresses or skirts, I think they look prettier. Good witty humor. Easy to talk to. Good listener. Someone that doesn't look like Dolly Pardon. surprised

Use to be slim and trim - but not any more. I talked to some gals whom are a bit larger and they seem to have even larger hearts. Seen one at a Walmart once upon a time. She had brown eyes, long straight hair and kinda on the chubby side. But she still looked pretty to me. I was surely attracted to her. embarassed Don't see her any more. tears

Seen another blond gal I was most surely attracted too. Had on a long brown checkered print flowing dress hung barely above her feet with a white sweater and wearing flip-flops. She seem to be a bit chubby, hard to tell in that dress though. Oh my did she look great. drool

I don't think I'm too picky.

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Wed 09/07/11 11:15 PM
Personality. If we have common interests. Her sense of humor. If we're able to have meaningful conversations. Her eyes. Her smile.
If we enjoy each others company and can be ourselves around each other are probably the two biggest for me.

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Thu 09/08/11 09:48 PM
wow, this made it to 6 pages! I wasn't expecting that. I read all 6 pages and the conversation made me laugh quite a bit. Completely entertaining. Also some great answers. :)

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Thu 09/08/11 10:28 PM
Sometimes really nice eyes grab my attension.

thewaterbearer's photo
Thu 09/08/11 10:32 PM
The willingness to communicate and accept me for who I am inside and out.

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Thu 09/08/11 10:38 PM


Well, Thankyou, I appriciate it ^_^

I have more Lady friends then most guys that I know. And I'm sure it's because I am very cool, polite, and well mannered, and sex is the last thing I think about unless the Lady brings it up, or I feel I would like to take the romance to a new level. My Lady friends are my best friends, so I always treat them with respect.



No doubt you're always around the ladies, i see that in your diary posts. Heh heh ;) You could take your pick though. Nothing is stopping you. I'm the same with my male friends. Well, really, i just have to get to know em first.


Hmmmm, you sure you're not a pimp? rofl Kidding.

nObOdys_wiFe_JM's photo
Fri 09/09/11 01:19 PM
physically --> clean/neat cut fingers and toes nails
--> a good figure of hands and feet
--> clean/neat hair cut (formal cut)
the rest is being humorous and lil bit of snob and playing hard to get guy HAHA... challenging!! love love love

w0m4n's photo
Fri 09/09/11 01:40 PM
neat, clean, manly, smart but grounded

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Fri 09/09/11 07:44 PM
The size of his sausage! drool rofl rofl




























shocked scared surprised

nObOdys_wiFe_JM's photo
Sat 09/10/11 04:22 PM

The size of his sausage! drool rofl rofl




























shocked scared surprised



drool drool drool drool drool drool drool

Holly4459's photo
Sat 09/10/11 04:39 PM
A clean manly scent!






sorry I find it hard to concentrate with that huge weiner in my face!laugh

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Sat 09/10/11 05:37 PM
naughty but funny @ sausage:laughing:

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Sat 09/10/11 06:39 PM
A man that has the values of loving him self first, manners that match his self love, I love eyes....any color, any shape..and of course opposites of likes, so there is always something ALIVE to talk about....:)

And of course I may see a man that has that sexual attraction but I perfer to wait and get to know him first before acting upon the desires.....:)

About the sausage.........LOL.....that one is hard to beat