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To actually fall in love?
This question is mainly posed at the old timers here. Though, anyone is free to answer. Can you let go of your fear and just love like what you want to recieve? Can you put aside the heart ache of failed attempts? Do you got the balls to stand up to the plate again and risk striking out when you want a Homerun? It took me three years before I had the courage to just say "Screw it! Let's fall in love" I am so grateful that I took the chance and despite odds or distance, I found what everyone here is searching for.....love. Do you really plan on saying "F**kit...I do love you"? If not, no biggie cause I know that some of my very best friends are here.... But ask yourself this simple question....DO YOU WANT TO FALL IN LOVE? I am talking about the patience, work, compromise, empathy. Cause I know alot of people here can't see past thier past or thier ideals. I used to be one of them. Just curious.... Will you honestly give love a fighting shot or do you resist it. (I know the answer before I ask the question so, if I have talked to you for a while now...you better be honest or I will call you out) Do you have the guts? Step up...or step away. |
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To actually fall in love? OK, I'll bite. Even tho I feel like I'm answering my psych final..... Yes I do have the courage for such - immense This question is mainly posed at the old timers here. Though, anyone is free to answer. Can you let go of your fear and just love like what you want to recieve? yes - I knw I can - already have Can you put aside the heart ache of failed attempts? same as above Do you got the balls to stand up to the plate again and risk striking out when you want a Homerun? been there done that - and some on here knw I have and I will It took me three years before I had the courage to just say "Screw it! Let's fall in love" I am so grateful that I took the chance and despite odds or distance, I found what everyone here is searching for.....love. Do you really plan on saying "F**kit...I do love you"? already have for all the good it did If not, no biggie cause I know that some of my very best friends are here.... But ask yourself this simple question....DO YOU WANT TO FALL IN LOVE? I am talking about the patience, work, compromise, empathy. Cause I know alot of people here can't see past thier past or thier ideals. I used to be one of them. Just curious.... Will you honestly give love a fighting shot or do you resist it. (I know the answer before I ask the question so, if I have talked to you for a while now...you better be honest or I will call you out) Do you have the guts? ya ...course I do Step up...or step away. might step away from time to time, and possibly at some point for good, but it won't be with a bad attitude - I do it to think....not to quit |
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I am the gutless wonder and I step away! But, I'm good with that.
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Then set your sights of your love gun Sweetest....
think of the person here you may have a shot with.....this is where the question counts....will you take the chance and really offer yourself? If the answer is yes... TRY IT!!!! (It worked on me) I just see so many people here who just want love....but, ain't got the guts to take a chance. Sure, failure is possible...but, if no one is willing to just get naked and say "this is me....I give it all to you"......if you can't do that....then your road will be as long and avoidable as mine was. |
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I am the gutless wonder and I step away! But, I'm good with that. WHAT?! But, I always think of you as being self assured and a take no crap kinda woman. Hmmnnn |
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Then set your sights of your love gun Sweetest.... think of the person here you may have a shot with.....this is where the question counts....will you take the chance and really offer yourself? If the answer is yes... TRY IT!!!! (It worked on me) I just see so many people here who just want love....but, ain't got the guts to take a chance. Sure, failure is possible...but, if no one is willing to just get naked and say "this is me....I give it all to you"......if you can't do that....then your road will be as long and avoidable as mine was. thanks ur cool krupa to be so nice, sometimes Ima dork and do not know what to do or say and I ALWAYS (set ur watch by it) say the wrong thing at the WORST possible time - only in man love am I such a klutz....why a man sense of humor is a requirement..... and @ Ruth - I don;t have the guts I once did either, sugar, but ya, I am still pretty much Capt. Courageous |
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I am the gutless wonder and I step away! But, I'm good with that. WHAT?! But, I always think of you as being self assured and a take no crap kinda woman. Hmmnnn I am, but it's exhausting kicking the crap out all the time. I find it easier to never let it in in the first place. Now I'm going to bed with my trashy romance novel and fall in love. The best part....there won't be a man here when I wake up. |
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and @ Ruth - I don;t have the guts I once did either, sugar, but ya, I am still pretty much Capt. Courageous |
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I surrender :-)
You are right, it is very hard. The risk. No guts, no glory though. And so worth it :-) |
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Step away---for now anyway
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Wow...the irony of Deli being smoking hawt...but reserved../yet she has akways been very casual and a bit distant. That woman is fine and smart....She should get some love.
Soufie....I will bone on Halloween. Ruth...the toughest ones to crack through the shell are the ones who really want that love the most. I may be wrong but, beneath it all...my money says that you are a lover. |
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If I had someone to fall in love with, then I would go for it. But...I'm in a new location, kinda hard right now until I settle in.
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I would have to step away.
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Label me gutsy....I may joke and play around but when it comes down to it I want and need that one true love that withstands all storms.
I am willing to fight, weed, torment, whatever I have to do to get it. |
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Great thread. I will step back. You're a greater man than I am Gunga Din.
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You are right,I don't have the guts. I would walk away.
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No guts no Glory right? I have the guts...and i love being loved...
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I have the guts, and after that I will still have the guts...until the day I cant do that anymore, yes I want it all again...does that sound like im jumping up and down while saying that? I think I am!
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Edited by
74Drew
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Wed 08/24/11 12:23 AM
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To actually fall in love? This question is mainly posed at the old timers here. Though, anyone is free to answer. Can you let go of your fear and just love like what you want to recieve? Can you put aside the heart ache of failed attempts? Do you got the balls to stand up to the plate again and risk striking out when you want a Homerun? It took me three years before I had the courage to just say "Screw it! Let's fall in love" I am so grateful that I took the chance and despite odds or distance, I found what everyone here is searching for.....love. Do you really plan on saying "F**kit...I do love you"? If not, no biggie cause I know that some of my very best friends are here.... But ask yourself this simple question....DO YOU WANT TO FALL IN LOVE? I am talking about the patience, work, compromise, empathy. Cause I know alot of people here can't see past thier past or thier ideals. I used to be one of them. Just curious.... Will you honestly give love a fighting shot or do you resist it. (I know the answer before I ask the question so, if I have talked to you for a while now...you better be honest or I will call you out) Do you have the guts? Step up...or step away. nope, no guts. not any more anyway. all my innards all got removed the last time i took the chance. i've had an innard-ectomy. . . . |
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Humm me have guts ya tell me what ya think?
Honestly my past relationships have not scared me from going for the gusto again.. If I was to find love I would give it all I have well that is if they live within the same area as I do. I'm not into the LDR thing I want one that lives close enough to touch when I need them someone to hang out with and enjoy life with. Yeah I want one that is within my reach.. For those that LDR works for kuddo to you!! I don't feel that I'm settling due to distance just living in reality what works for me.. Besides I'm such a lovable person |
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