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About 3weeks ago, i met a guy here on mingle and we were dating, to the best of my knowledge every was fine, untill few days ago..,,
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Mon 08/22/11 06:18 AM
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About 3weeks ago, i met a guy here on mingle and we were dating, to the best of my knowledge every was fine, untill few days ago..,, it's the nature of the internet. It is also why many date multiple people so that if one bails you still have a squeeze - it's tough when it's ur main squeeze tho it'll be OK - u know the cure right? 
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What, what?
He vanish? Get married? Show up on America's Most Wanted? Oh mon, he didn't become a Mod did he? |
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Mon 08/22/11 06:25 AM
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mine never posts any more (occasional squeeze, I mean) I'm that righteous I guess |
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IDK klc I think someone who is a complete stranger that asks a lot of personal questions is totally suspect. I usually delete them |
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 Righteous
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....when he sent me a mail. sorry i can no longer continue with you b'cos i tol my pastor about it and he said no that online dating is dangerous, no responsible person will with to involve in it, and the pastor order him to deactivate his account which he did. i felt so bad and i felt so low.
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....when he sent me a mail. sorry i can no longer continue with you b'cos i tol my pastor about it and he said no that online dating is dangerous, no responsible person will with to involve in it, and the pastor order him to deactivate his account which he did. i felt so bad and i felt so low. If you met him, it would no longer be 'on line.' Pastor would have to b!tch out someone else. |
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....when he sent me a mail. sorry i can no longer continue with you b'cos i tol my pastor about it and he said no that online dating is dangerous, no responsible person will with to involve in it, and the pastor order him to deactivate his account which he did. i felt so bad and i felt so low. Were you actually dating him or just chatting online? There is a difference. |
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....when he sent me a mail. sorry i can no longer continue with you b'cos i tol my pastor about it and he said no that online dating is dangerous, no responsible person will with to involve in it, and the pastor order him to deactivate his account which he did. i felt so bad and i felt so low. I thought you were actually dating tho. Cant you continue without the account? yes we did, but i got so mad and the last time he called i told him to stop calling me and stop wasting my time. dont know if that right |
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....when he sent me a mail. sorry i can no longer continue with you b'cos i tol my pastor about it and he said no that online dating is dangerous, no responsible person will with to involve in it, and the pastor order him to deactivate his account which he did. i felt so bad and i felt so low. I thought you were actually dating tho. Cant you continue without the account? yes we did, but i got so mad and the last time he called i told him to stop calling me and stop wasting my time. dont know if that was right |
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Righteous
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....when he sent me a mail. sorry i can no longer continue with you b'cos i tol my pastor about it and he said no that online dating is dangerous, no responsible person will with to involve in it, and the pastor order him to deactivate his account which he did. i felt so bad and i felt so low. joy that is kinda crazy - consider the luck in finding this out about him now....just imagine being involved with someone who would let his pastor run your lives....not a great picture there... you are really fortunate to find this out early on about him - it reflects their ignorance, not anything bad about u now start messaging cute guys!! |
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Mon 08/22/11 06:49 AM
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IDK klc I think someone who is a complete stranger that asks a lot of personal questions is totally suspect. I usually delete them Even if its "are you currently seeing someone?" "Can you meet me at a moments notice for coffee?" "What was the last meal you made for yourself?" "What do you enjoy doing with your children?" "How many people do you feel comfortable dating at once?" "How many people are you interested in currently" "Do the other women you date know they are 1 of 4?" etc. If someone is not willing to answer my questions, Im fine if they delete me. yes generally these things come up in the first few conversations, but if I got them as a bulleted list....nah those are good questions tho - it is just not like me to ask them all at once |
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Edited by
joy4gud
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Mon 08/22/11 07:07 AM
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....when he sent me a mail. sorry i can no longer continue with you b'cos i tol my pastor about it and he said no that online dating is dangerous, no responsible person will with to involve in it, and the pastor order him to deactivate his account which he did. i felt so bad and i felt so low. Were you actually dating him or just chatting online? There is a difference.  to thd best of my knowledge, we were dating, b'cos we both wants to settle down.
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....when he sent me a mail. sorry i can no longer continue with you b'cos i tol my pastor about it and he said no that online dating is dangerous, no responsible person will with to involve in it, and the pastor order him to deactivate his account which he did. i felt so bad and i felt so low. I thought you were actually dating tho. Cant you continue without the account? yes we did, but i got so mad and the last time he called i told him to stop calling me and stop wasting my time. dont know if that was right I dont understand. Sounds more like you broke his heart. what! broke his heart? Noooo |
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....when he sent me a mail. sorry i can no longer continue with you b'cos i tol my pastor about it and he said no that online dating is dangerous, no responsible person will with to involve in it, and the pastor order him to deactivate his account which he did. i felt so bad and i felt so low. I thought you were actually dating tho. Cant you continue without the account? yes we did, but i got so mad and the last time he called i told him to stop calling me and stop wasting my time. dont know if that was right I dont understand. Sounds more like you broke his heart. right, and possibly his pastor was advising him not to put up with that type of treatment on the phone??? Sounds like u need to get the pastor out of it and just the 2 of you talk. But really Joy, why would you say that to him if you want to continue with him? |
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IDK klc I think someone who is a complete stranger that asks a lot of personal questions is totally suspect. I usually delete them Even if its "are you currently seeing someone?" "Can you meet me at a moments notice for coffee?" "What was the last meal you made for yourself?" "What do you enjoy doing with your children?" "How many people do you feel comfortable dating at once?" "How many people are you interested in currently" "Do the other women you date know they are 1 of 4?" etc. If someone is not willing to answer my questions, Im fine if they delete me. yes generally these things come up in the first few conversations, but if I got them as a bulleted list....nah those are good questions tho - it is just not like me to ask them all at once Theyre just examples. Not recommending a bulleted list.
oh OK I thought maybe you had a preformed template with a space for multiple choice answers
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