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Topic: Feeling low
joy4gud's photo
Mon 08/22/11 07:01 AM
The pastor said b'cos he is a church walker he should look for a women in the church, that makes me feel so worldly, so he should stop calling me!

joy4gud's photo
Mon 08/22/11 07:05 AM




i told him to stop calling me and stop wasting my time.


I dont understand. Sounds more like you broke his heart.

what! broke his heart? Noooo


Ah, yeeeeees. You dont tell people to stop calling and wasting your time if you care for them....generally.

but when he told me about marriage he did not tell me his pastor will decide for him!

joy4gud's photo
Mon 08/22/11 07:06 AM




i told him to stop calling me and stop wasting my time.


I dont understand. Sounds more like you broke his heart.

what! broke his heart? Noooo


Ah, yeeeeees. You dont tell people to stop calling and wasting your time if you care for them....generally.

but when he told me about marriage he did not tell me his pastor will decide for him!

joy4gud's photo
Mon 08/22/11 07:13 AM

What, what?
He vanish?
Get married?
Show up on America's Most Wanted?
Oh mon, he didn't become a Mod did he?

he did became a Mod! laugh

joy4gud's photo
Mon 08/22/11 07:22 AM


The pastor said b'cos he is a church walker he should look for a women in the church, that makes me feel so worldly, so he should stop calling me!



but when he told me about marriage he did not tell me his pastor will decide for him!


Wait, now, I keep hearing more bits and pieces here.

So he doesnt want you to join this church? Is that was he's suggesting?
His church is obviously a deal breaker. Are you willing to be a part of that?

personally i dont have anything against his church but we never discuess anything about church either, so i dont understand.

soufiehere's photo
Mon 08/22/11 08:16 AM


What, what?
He vanish?
Get married?
Show up on America's Most Wanted?
Oh mon, he didn't become a Mod did he?

he did became a Mod! laugh

Ah, so sad.
Lost to the real world now :-(

joy4gud's photo
Mon 08/22/11 08:56 AM



What, what?
He vanish?
Get married?
Show up on America's Most Wanted?
Oh mon, he didn't become a Mod did he?

he did became a Mod! laugh

Ah, so sad.
Lost to the real world now :-(

no not to the real world, lost to me only

ybcat1's photo
Mon 08/22/11 10:18 AM

....when he sent me a mail. sorry i can no longer continue with you b'cos i tol my pastor about it and he said no that online dating is dangerous, no responsible person will with to involve in it, and the pastor order him to deactivate his account which he did. i felt so bad and i felt so low.


That's too bad. I used to belong to a church were the pastor would tell the women, any guys who wants to date you you bring him to me first. Well wait a minute, am I not an adult here? Able to make my own decisions about who I should date and marry? My ex husband went to his friends pastor who told him that he should leave me because I wasn't a member of his church, neither was my ex. laugh Who is on his third marriage and still cheating. Anyway, I'm sorry to hear that he felt he had to do that. More pastors should teach the Word of God rather than dictate their own beliefs. Be encourged, things will get better.

navygirl's photo
Wed 08/24/11 02:42 PM

....when he sent me a mail. sorry i can no longer continue with you b'cos i tol my pastor about it and he said no that online dating is dangerous, no responsible person will with to involve in it, and the pastor order him to deactivate his account which he did. i felt so bad and i felt so low.


Sounds like you dodged a bullet. Why would you want to be with a guy that can't think for himeself?

joy4gud's photo
Thu 08/25/11 09:07 AM


....when he sent me a mail. sorry i can no longer continue with you b'cos i tol my pastor about it and he said no that online dating is dangerous, no responsible person will with to involve in it, and the pastor order him to deactivate his account which he did. i felt so bad and i felt so low.


Sounds like you dodged a bullet. Why would you want to be with a guy that can't think for himeself?

did i? shocked that is why i told him to stop calling me.

navygirl's photo
Thu 08/25/11 09:16 PM



....when he sent me a mail. sorry i can no longer continue with you b'cos i tol my pastor about it and he said no that online dating is dangerous, no responsible person will with to involve in it, and the pastor order him to deactivate his account which he did. i felt so bad and i felt so low.


Sounds like you dodged a bullet. Why would you want to be with a guy that can't think for himeself?

did i? shocked that is why i told him to stop calling me.


Yes, you did dodge a bullet. All individuals should be able to think for themselves. No one should tell them who to be with. I don't care if it is your family, your boss, your friends, or your church. If this guy can't make a decision for himself; then you are dealing with a child and not a grown man.

no photo
Fri 08/26/11 10:50 PM
Hi, it's obvious that people don't seriously rely on the internet when it comes to committed relationship cos they believe that there's more to know using the eye than reading letters on screen. Well, that's not the end of the world. Ok?

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Sat 08/27/11 01:33 AM
Im kind of lost at the part where someone known for merely three weeks has the power to break anyones heart,,,,

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