How much of your heart do you hold back? How far in before you let it speak? If we all seek honest, and sincere people to love us for ourselves, then why does the world feel so lonely with out you?

Yeah sometimes the questions are just that, Too much to contemplate and not enough of a feeling from your heart.

I just want lunch.

and of course a lunch for you :p

well for now all of it but till i find the right person then they get 100% of it.

an if ruth is getting lunch i want dinner lol

Hopefully some day soon you can be with him to share it.


o0(And they say the way to a man's heart is through food...)

Laughs, come on down to Dallas and i will gladly cover that dinner !

its too hot for me in texas ol

then again ya can always come here lol

I like to keep myself to myself :D

I hold back a LOT.
But, my rule of thumb is, I give what I get.
If I am with someone who is not emotionally
available, I would probably hold out forever.
When my partner opens to me, however, I give
back equally.

Equality is everything.

The great thing about hookers is that you only need to let your heart speak for about 33 minutes. Not that I know anything about that.

I tend to hold back a bit until I feel safe.

Thanks everyone for being open and honest. I guess for me i put too much of myself out there without thinking, i just go with my heart. I feel like if i hold back who i am then how can i ever be sure i am being loved for me.

well the only way to know that is u will know when the time comes its hard to find someone to love you for you believe me im still looking but when ya know it u will know it

I agree with you.

And i have also found hiding who you are does not allow someone to understand you much less love you. Whether you hide behind a closed door locking yourself a way from the world, or you use humor to act as if nothing affects you. You will never truly be free or happy to fully love until you remove your wall's and allow others to see you for who you are. And as with everything in life, not everyone will like you, not everyone will accept you, but hopefully they have the capacity to respect that this is who you are.

ya know its scarey when someone agrees with ya ya better stop that or they may start talking lol im still trying to figure out how to get me a texan that agrees with me? lol

I'm myself from the beginning. I don't hide parts of me from the beginning.

me too...

em i agree with ya i don't need to hide anything bout me im up front an honest from the start if they can't take me for the inside then its time to find someone that can