Topic: So minglers, what turns you off? :)
motowndowntown's photo
Sat 06/25/11 07:17 PM
Okay,,,,, it was only one of them.

But he put up quite a fuss about it.

krupa's photo
Sat 06/25/11 07:45 PM
Oooooohhh....Mingle Turnoffs.....

Not actually being what they represent here is THE big one....and make no mistake...there are fakes around here. I don't mind when we have flaws but to straight up lie about it....Homey don't play dat.

Zero tolerance for actual love.....When die hard Minglers only focus on why they won't hook up and just ain't gonna give anyone a fair chance....to each thier own but, I dont get it.

Ownership.......there are guys and dolls here that hook up then get stupid with control issues. I have seen it more than once....everyone is friends and enjoying themselves then,,,when the love bug hits it becomes "Don't talk to my man/woman"....stop doing that schitt. it is embarassing. We all had a fair shot at your man/woman...now, we are simply friends....so when you come down as jealous and defensive against a fellow Mingler..you are the one who looks like the idiot.

I can run this list for pages .....but, I am in the love frame of mind. I focus on the things that make me feel good and complete.

Actually.....I probably shouldn't even be in here.....I have been turned on since the 18th of June.

josie68's photo
Sat 06/25/11 08:29 PM

Oooooohhh....Mingle Turnoffs.....

Not actually being what they represent here is THE big one....and make no mistake...there are fakes around here. I don't mind when we have flaws but to straight up lie about it....Homey don't play dat.

Zero tolerance for actual love.....When die hard Minglers only focus on why they won't hook up and just ain't gonna give anyone a fair chance....to each thier own but, I dont get it.

Ownership.......there are guys and dolls here that hook up then get stupid with control issues. I have seen it more than once....everyone is friends and enjoying themselves then,,,when the love bug hits it becomes "Don't talk to my man/woman"....stop doing that schitt. it is embarassing. We all had a fair shot at your man/woman...now, we are simply friends....so when you come down as jealous and defensive against a fellow Mingler..you are the one who looks like the idiot.

I can run this list for pages .....but, I am in the love frame of mind. I focus on the things that make me feel good and complete.

Actually.....I probably shouldn't even be in here.....I have been turned on since the 18th of June.


No wonder i love you krupatongue2

Turn offs.
Liars,
angry people,
people who cannot just be happy with their lives and find something good in it.

control Freaks
Trouble makers.
Gossips
jealousy

LadyT84's photo
Sat 06/25/11 08:58 PM
I guy who doesn't have money to pay the bill at dinner or any date.

fireflysgirl's photo
Sat 06/25/11 09:11 PM


Oooooohhh....Mingle Turnoffs.....

Not actually being what they represent here is THE big one....and make no mistake...there are fakes around here. I don't mind when we have flaws but to straight up lie about it....Homey don't play dat.

Zero tolerance for actual love.....When die hard Minglers only focus on why they won't hook up and just ain't gonna give anyone a fair chance....to each thier own but, I dont get it.

Ownership.......there are guys and dolls here that hook up then get stupid with control issues. I have seen it more than once....everyone is friends and enjoying themselves then,,,when the love bug hits it becomes "Don't talk to my man/woman"....stop doing that schitt. it is embarassing. We all had a fair shot at your man/woman...now, we are simply friends....so when you come down as jealous and defensive against a fellow Mingler..you are the one who looks like the idiot.

I can run this list for pages .....but, I am in the love frame of mind. I focus on the things that make me feel good and complete.

Actually.....I probably shouldn't even be in here.....I have been turned on since the 18th of June.


No wonder i love you krupatongue2

Turn offs.
Liars,
angry people,
people who cannot just be happy with their lives and find something good in it.

control Freaks
Trouble makers.
Gossips
jealousy


agreed with all josie flowerforyou

DTHRomeo's photo
Sat 06/25/11 09:19 PM
Backstabbers and two faced people

josie68's photo
Sat 06/25/11 09:40 PM

Backstabbers and two faced people


Yep those as well, just be honest and show people who you are..

tongue2 tongue2 tongue2 tongue2 then we can just not like you from the beggining. That way we just dodge you and dont want to kick your behind when we meet you

DTHRomeo's photo
Sat 06/25/11 09:45 PM


Backstabbers and two faced people


Yep those as well, just be honest and show people who you are..

tongue2 tongue2 tongue2 tongue2 then we can just not like you from the beggining. That way we just dodge you and dont want to kick your behind when we meet you


:thumbsup: flowerforyou

Dragoness's photo
Sat 06/25/11 10:38 PM
People who jump to judgment of others without having walked in their shoes. They want to call others lazy, criminal, etc... without having lived their lives and/or people who have made a general judgement of ALL people of a certain type because of some unfounded prejudgment made about them. Manipulators. Or a combo of all above.

Oh and litter bugs are the worst!!!!

Totage's photo
Sat 06/25/11 10:39 PM

I find total disagreement, ridicule, secrets, and lies, a really big turn off.

How about you? :)


Ignorance and arrogance

Simonedemidova's photo
Sat 06/25/11 11:16 PM
Liars and procrastinators....

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Sun 06/26/11 12:24 AM

Liars and procrastinators....


I swear, I took care of that last week, honest.

4Haru's photo
Sun 06/26/11 05:46 AM
Body odor, lies, bad manner

no photo
Sun 06/26/11 06:03 AM
lying, cheating, no sense of humor, treating others rudely or with indifference

prashant01's photo
Sun 06/26/11 06:23 AM
I am honest, I already have a boyfriend who lives on the other side of the country...why would I need another one???noway

May be for having one STANDBY at your side of country :wink: laugh laugh

(JK)

prashant01's photo
Sun 06/26/11 06:34 AM
Turn offs of others due to me or someone else turns me off

InvictusV's photo
Sun 06/26/11 07:52 AM
Irrational Malcontents.


prashant01's photo
Sun 06/26/11 08:03 AM
undue,irrational & irritating criticism


no photo
Sun 06/26/11 08:49 AM
Watching bugs bunny makes me a sicko!

xoxojasonxoxo's photo
Sun 06/26/11 08:53 AM
Shallow People who can't give see the good inside a person, but can only and is only attracted to looks....