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Thats funny you bring this up.... I just got an email, from a georgous "23" year old man. When I told him I was "flattered", and "thank you" but he was too young for me..im 48, he sent me an email saying that "people that are older, judge younger people, by their age, and not their personality". I wrote back and told him I "was just telling the truth". I think he got his feelings hurt, but my gosh, hes like half my age. What's your secret? I'd give anything to be contacted by some people half my age....! 
Now you wouldnt. (No disrespect intended)... but the minute they start to talk... the fantasy ends. Aww So the fantasy ended when I started talking huh. 
Now how could you take that personally? Your 30....not 19. I just meant to say that people that are that much younger than me, we dont have enough in common to have alot of conversation... and it had NOTHING to do with you babe. Silly! I know just being facetious.
Ummmmmmmm... can someone tell me what "facetious" means?? 
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Thats funny you bring this up.... I just got an email, from a georgous "23" year old man. When I told him I was "flattered", and "thank you" but he was too young for me..im 48, he sent me an email saying that "people that are older, judge younger people, by their age, and not their personality". I wrote back and told him I "was just telling the truth". I think he got his feelings hurt, but my gosh, hes like half my age. What's your secret? I'd give anything to be contacted by some people half my age....!
Now you wouldnt. (No disrespect intended)... but the minute they start to talk... the fantasy ends. Aww So the fantasy ended when I started talking huh.
Now how could you take that personally? Your 30....not 19. I just meant to say that people that are that much younger than me, we dont have enough in common to have alot of conversation... and it had NOTHING to do with you babe. Silly! I know just being facetious.
Ummmmmmmm... can someone tell me what "facetious" means??
Here you go.http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/facetious |
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Thats funny you bring this up.... I just got an email, from a georgous "23" year old man. When I told him I was "flattered", and "thank you" but he was too young for me..im 48, he sent me an email saying that "people that are older, judge younger people, by their age, and not their personality". I wrote back and told him I "was just telling the truth". I think he got his feelings hurt, but my gosh, hes like half my age. What's your secret? I'd give anything to be contacted by some people half my age....!
Now you wouldnt. (No disrespect intended)... but the minute they start to talk... the fantasy ends. Aww So the fantasy ended when I started talking huh.
Now how could you take that personally? Your 30....not 19. I just meant to say that people that are that much younger than me, we dont have enough in common to have alot of conversation... and it had NOTHING to do with you babe. Silly! I know just being facetious.
Ummmmmmmm... can someone tell me what "facetious" means??
Here you go.http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/facetious Thanks teach... is it lunch time yet? |
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Alright you two.
Step AWAY from the Quote buttons !!! |
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Alright you two. Step AWAY from the Quote buttons !!! Yeah... Can we move this to a Motel 6??
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Thats funny you bring this up.... I just got an email, from a georgous "23" year old man. When I told him I was "flattered", and "thank you" but he was too young for me..im 48, he sent me an email saying that "people that are older, judge younger people, by their age, and not their personality". I wrote back and told him I "was just telling the truth". I think he got his feelings hurt, but my gosh, hes like half my age. 48 is a good age. 
You know what is important and what you want and still young enough to do something about it. 
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Thats funny you bring this up.... I just got an email, from a georgous "23" year old man. When I told him I was "flattered", and "thank you" but he was too young for me..im 48, he sent me an email saying that "people that are older, judge younger people, by their age, and not their personality". I wrote back and told him I "was just telling the truth". I think he got his feelings hurt, but my gosh, hes like half my age. What's your secret? I'd give anything to be contacted by some people half my age....!
Now you wouldnt. (No disrespect intended)... but the minute they start to talk... the fantasy ends. I'm way past the stage where "fantasy" even enters into it.... |
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Humm actually I'm a pretty forward person and all for meeting quickly. I mean hell set it up for during the day if needed. I always take my car to meet them in a public place. But if they are being azzholes or just rude then I blow them off I have no time for that nor will I put up with it....  
I have lived alone too many years it is either my way or the highway.......... 
How quickly is quickly? Same day? A couple days? A week? I don't mind meeting within a week or two, but I like to chat a bit first, so a day or two is too quick. |
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Thanks teach... is it lunch time yet? Young teacher the subject of school girl fantasy....
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Edited by
Troublebug
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Sat 05/28/11 07:15 PM
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What do you do ladies with the men who react badly when you are trying to be careful when first meeting or dating them? Personally, I let it go. I figure if he cannot understand that it isn't personal when I am careful in the beginning then that signifies later problems. What do you do? I just explain to him thats the way it has to be. Too many scammers out nowadays and crazies. My first clue is when I tell them what I do, If they have that long pause, There goes a red flag (I'm a corporal for the Sheriffs office). I just explain I have a small child and I know what kind of crazy things can happen, I have to be sure for my safety, and that of my son. If they keep insisting, Then I tell them maybe goodbye is best. |
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What do you do ladies with the men who react badly when you are trying to be careful when first meeting or dating them? Personally, I let it go. I figure if he cannot understand that it isn't personal when I am careful in the beginning then that signifies later problems. What do you do? not sure I understand...actually my fav dude on here was the one to be careful after we did some talking - guess he saw a side of me that I did not and it's because it is personal but what do u mean by react badly? like being perverts - I block & delete them if they come on too strong sexually right away I just reread that I meant wait a little while as far as all things intimate NOT be careful because of anything weird....
like being an arsonist (adds other foot to mouth and gives up) I like women who give up. There is something etherially and effervescently feminine about giving up. |
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Edited by
wux
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Sat 05/28/11 07:23 PM
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Humm actually I'm a pretty forward person and all for meeting quickly. I mean hell set it up for during the day if needed. I always take my car to meet them in a public place. This is why I more often than not I set up the first meeting in the city morgue, or, weather permitting, in a cemetery. These places are public; offer lots of space to be private yet be protected by way of being visible (from afar); are usually quiet that allows good conversation; cheap (no expensive drinks with umberellas and flying monkeys serving them); and we can choose, according to taste, a secular one, or a spiritual one in the available choices of denominations offered in the city. I will NOT go to one where the entrance has big, wrought-iron lettering above the gate, "PET SEMETARY". |
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Thats funny you bring this up.... I just got an email, from a georgous "23" year old man. When I told him I was "flattered", and "thank you" but he was too young for me..im 48, he sent me an email saying that "people that are older, judge younger people, by their age, and not their personality". I wrote back and told him I "was just telling the truth". I think he got his feelings hurt, but my gosh, hes like half my age. What's your secret? I'd give anything to be contacted by some people half my age....!
Now you wouldnt. (No disrespect intended)... but the minute they start to talk...  the fantasy ends.
Or the fact that they are younger than your children 
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Thats funny you bring this up.... I just got an email, from a georgous "23" year old man. When I told him I was "flattered", and "thank you" but he was too young for me..im 48, he sent me an email saying that "people that are older, judge younger people, by their age, and not their personality". I wrote back and told him I "was just telling the truth". I think he got his feelings hurt, but my gosh, hes like half my age. What's your secret? I'd give anything to be contacted by some people half my age....!
Now you wouldnt. (No disrespect intended)... but the minute they start to talk... the fantasy ends.
Or the fact that they are younger than your children
Well in my case, that would just be creepy! He is only 12 right now.
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Thats funny you bring this up.... I just got an email, from a georgous "23" year old man. When I told him I was "flattered", and "thank you" but he was too young for me..im 48, he sent me an email saying that "people that are older, judge younger people, by their age, and not their personality". I wrote back and told him I "was just telling the truth". I think he got his feelings hurt, but my gosh, hes like half my age. What's your secret? I'd give anything to be contacted by some people half my age....!
Now you wouldnt. (No disrespect intended)... but the minute they start to talk... the fantasy ends.
Or the fact that they are younger than your children
Well in my case, that would just be creepy! He is only 12 right now.
Oh for sure,
But it is wierd I get so many 20 year olds mesaging me, saying they like older women.. what are they just trying to remind me that I am older, or do they seriously think I am interested.. Do i have desperate written across my forehead//
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What's your secret? I'd give anything to be contacted by some people half my age....! Or the fact that they are younger than your children
Now, now. In my days I dated women and I was younger than their grandchildren. I am these days setting my sights on a great-grandmother. Anyone here have a well-preserved, lady-like, erudite lady in her nineties, who would enjoy the companionship of a young and debonair, albeit grotesque-looking and short gentleman? |
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Thats funny you bring this up.... I just got an email, from a georgous "23" year old man. When I told him I was "flattered", and "thank you" but he was too young for me..im 48, he sent me an email saying that "people that are older, judge younger people, by their age, and not their personality". I wrote back and told him I "was just telling the truth". I think he got his feelings hurt, but my gosh, hes like half my age. What's your secret? I'd give anything to be contacted by some people half my age....!
Now you wouldnt. (No disrespect intended)... but the minute they start to talk... the fantasy ends.
Or the fact that they are younger than your children
Well in my case, that would just be creepy! He is only 12 right now.
Oh for sure,
But it is wierd I get so many 20 year olds mesaging me, saying they like older women.. what are they just trying to remind me that I am older, or do they seriously think I am interested.. Do i have desperate written across my forehead//
at that age most are clueless and just looking for someone to be nice to them and a lot are also just looking to talk dirty and have bought into this "older, more expereinced woman" mythology as tho all we do is sit around waiting to talk dirty to 20 yo guys. uh, ya right
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Edited by
luv2roknroll
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Sun 05/29/11 02:12 PM
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Thats funny you bring this up.... I just got an email, from a georgous "23" year old man. When I told him I was "flattered", and "thank you" but he was too young for me..im 48, he sent me an email saying that "people that are older, judge younger people, by their age, and not their personality". I wrote back and told him I "was just telling the truth". I think he got his feelings hurt, but my gosh, hes like half my age. What's your secret? I'd give anything to be contacted by some people half my age....!
Now you wouldnt. (No disrespect intended)... but the minute they start to talk... the fantasy ends.
Or the fact that they are younger than your children
Well in my case, that would just be creepy! He is only 12 right now.
Oh for sure,
But it is wierd I get so many 20 year olds mesaging me, saying they like older women.. what are they just trying to remind me that I am older, or do they seriously think I am interested.. Do i have desperate written across my forehead//
at that age most are clueless and just looking for someone to be nice to them and a lot are also just looking to talk dirty and have bought into this "older, more expereinced woman" mythology as tho all we do is sit around waiting to talk dirty to 20 yo guys. uh, ya right
And then when you do date someone younger.... you get called a "M.I.L.F" or a "Cougar".... or told your "robbing the cradle". Go figure. |
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Thats funny you bring this up.... I just got an email, from a georgous "23" year old man. When I told him I was "flattered", and "thank you" but he was too young for me..im 48, he sent me an email saying that "people that are older, judge younger people, by their age, and not their personality". I wrote back and told him I "was just telling the truth". I think he got his feelings hurt, but my gosh, hes like half my age. What's your secret? I'd give anything to be contacted by some people half my age....!
Now you wouldnt. (No disrespect intended)... but the minute they start to talk... the fantasy ends.
Or the fact that they are younger than your children
Well in my case, that would just be creepy! He is only 12 right now.
Oh for sure,
But it is wierd I get so many 20 year olds mesaging me, saying they like older women.. what are they just trying to remind me that I am older, or do they seriously think I am interested.. Do i have desperate written across my forehead//
at that age most are clueless and just looking for someone to be nice to them and a lot are also just looking to talk dirty and have bought into this "older, more expereinced woman" mythology as tho all we do is sit around waiting to talk dirty to 20 yo guys. uh, ya right
And then when you do date someone younger.... you get called a "M.I.L.F" or a "Cougar".... or told your "robbing the cradle". Go figure. |
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Thats funny you bring this up.... I just got an email, from a georgous "23" year old man. When I told him I was "flattered", and "thank you" but he was too young for me..im 48, he sent me an email saying that "people that are older, judge younger people, by their age, and not their personality". I wrote back and told him I "was just telling the truth". I think he got his feelings hurt, but my gosh, hes like half my age. What's your secret? I'd give anything to be contacted by some people half my age....!
Now you wouldnt. (No disrespect intended)... but the minute they start to talk... the fantasy ends.
Or the fact that they are younger than your children
Well in my case, that would just be creepy! He is only 12 right now.
Oh for sure,
But it is wierd I get so many 20 year olds mesaging me, saying they like older women.. what are they just trying to remind me that I am older, or do they seriously think I am interested.. Do i have desperate written across my forehead//
at that age most are clueless and just looking for someone to be nice to them and a lot are also just looking to talk dirty and have bought into this "older, more expereinced woman" mythology as tho all we do is sit around waiting to talk dirty to 20 yo guys. uh, ya right
And then when you do date someone younger.... you get called a "M.I.L.F" or a "Cougar".... or told your "robbing the cradle". Go figure.
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