So I have to come clean I really am attracted to black women.. but not alot of them respond to me.. whats a guy to do?

Nothing wrong with that, we're all just "people", not colors.


As with anyone or anything, it's a waiting game. Some will respond, some won't. Some will work out, some won't.


Ok...I guess all that doesn't help much...sorry.


Just keep trying, meanwhile, keep playing in the forums. I don't come on much anymore, but there are a lot of good people here.


Welcome and good luck.

Well, it's a great opportunity to tell them
here why you do.

Take any woman, any colour, who is responsive, and then carry with you at all times a few condoms and a can of black paint.

My uncle Fred had a harder time, he was attracted to apparitions, but only to green women with purple polka dots. Now, try to paint that on a ghost, while being in the heat of the passion.

And then cousin Justin-Julia was born... with green skin and purple polka dots. She was made fun of by the cruel bad boys in her entire schooling, from kindergarten through grade school, all the way to her post-doctorate theses. There is a glass ceiling very definitely in academia for people with green skin and purple polka dots.

can i please have whatever it is your smoking?

IDK, but something about that post indicates a possible reason.

Hmmm or they could be like my daughter who has said she wont date anyone but an African or African American man as she doesnt find white boys attractive, well at the moment anyway.

And what is the big deal about coming clean, what is there to come clean about..

If someone came clean about being attracted to white women, I wouldnt want to go out with him as I may embarrass him,

its not embarrassing, its the fact that the only thing that is hitting me up on mingle is older white women and i haven't responded to them

Hmm. You're bothered that people you want to talk to aren't responding to you and yet you're doing the same to others?

im not looking for cougars... thats all im saying. And thats alot im getting

then tell them you're not interested, it's a dick move to just plain not respond to someone. of course, it's the exact thing you're complaining about...

Well, in all fairness I'm guessing the name Animedude isn't the best for attracting women.....

Oh bummer is that why you havent responded to my last 20 messages..

You don't call, you don't write! You don't answer my tweets!

"Am open to new experiences and want to have fun."

No wonder cougars are hitting you up! You could explain in your profile that you only want to date black women and save yourself some trouble

If he finds a black woman he had better walk the strait and narrow. If she finds him cheating she will bust his balls.

Just kidding...

she'll pop a cap in his a.....ss