sweety there isnt enough room here in this little message box to tell you

What was wrong about me that needed saving?

Your a godless heathen

But then again I must remember that I've learned from this thread that it's not so important to be prince charming.

Many women needs to come out of the woodwork really.

Stop with the " I want a long term COMMITMENT" and "I am looking for my soulmate" or "I need someone who will only pay attention to me 24/7".

These are scary things for many men.

Sure...20-30 years ago, it was all about getting married and sailing to the Bahamas and having 2-3 kids in a big family house with a dog and making sandwiches to guys who were watching baseball on TV.

This isn't the same age.

We are in a f-kd up society, where things don't work the same way, your "hubby" is checking out your best friend's boob shots on facebook when you aren't looking, or having a giant porn collection downloaded on his computer, where he gets his ideas what to try out on you at night.

Not to mention the economy and unemployment and how women are afraid to get a guy, because he may acts like a parasite or vice versa, so let's drop this sugar coated BS about "meaningful" relationships and your "exclusive one-way ticket" guy you are looking for.

I can almost guarantee, that girls who would say "hey I'm a single girl and I'm looking for guy who is gonna stay with me for a while and makes me sweat at night, but also makes me feel good, but otherwise leave me to be" - would get 1000 times more views than some politically correct " I am looking for a bright shinning knight who will save me from the dragons" -kinda garbage, which only scares men more than women claiming to be mystically empowered ghost hunter fairies.

oh but it is for the girls that count honey it is important to be prince charming

eileena

by a man or do we just like the idea?
50 and long time single myself, I can't imagine
giving up my independence.
I really think we just like the idea that someone
would actually be willing to 'save' and take care'
of us, not really ever do it.

'Waving, not drowning'...




and you have been noticably absent, lovely.. ...holding you close.

....Dragons are COOL!!!! I always wanted one for a pet, so why do I want someone to slay it?????

But then again I must remember that I've learned from this thread that it's not so important to be prince charming.

Many women needs to come out of the woodwork really.

Stop with the " I want a long term COMMITMENT" and "I am looking for my soulmate" or "I need someone who will only pay attention to me 24/7".

These are scary things for many men.

Sure...20-30 years ago, it was all about getting married and sailing to the Bahamas and having 2-3 kids in a big family house with a dog and making sandwiches to guys who were watching baseball on TV.

This isn't the same age.

We are in a f-kd up society, where things don't work the same way, your "hubby" is checking out your best friend's boob shots on facebook when you aren't looking, or having a giant porn collection downloaded on his computer, where he gets his ideas what to try out on you at night.

Not to mention the economy and unemployment and how women are afraid to get a guy, because he may acts like a parasite or vice versa, so let's drop this sugar coated BS about "meaningful" relationships and your "exclusive one-way ticket" guy you are looking for.

I can almost guarantee, that girls who would say "hey I'm a single girl and I'm looking for guy who is gonna stay with me for a while and makes me sweat at night, but also makes me feel good, but otherwise leave me to be" - would get 1000 times more views than some politically correct " I am looking for a bright shinning knight who will save me from the dragons" -kinda garbage, which only scares men more than women claiming to be mystically empowered ghost hunter fairies.

I think it's really funny that most guys I talk to think I am only after one thing because they don't think I am worthy of a real relationship, due to my physical condition.

Contrary to that belief, I am an independent woman who can take care of my own needs perfectly well without their help. Oh well, they will never know what they missed out on.

. Well all of us here must not be too bright when it comes to relationships since we are still single . And firefly, maybe you should change your s/n to firebreathergal or something like that .