ok girls, i gotta say a couple things, maybe it will help you and us out alittle...whats up with the tiltin of the head and these sideways pics? im gettin a kink in my neck,cut that out!(now, that might be just me on that one) and these pics of u blowing a kiss,whats that? someone tell me.not all,some do look good. but some of u look like a blowfish,(check with best male friend b4 posting) these pics with more then one woman in it , how are we to know who u are?thats just messed up girls.atleast tell us in ur profile,and can some of u clean ur house before takin ur pics?,that might be a turn on to some, but other dont care what u look like and pass u by. pics of ur car and no u,what the hell ladies? we aint gonna fall for ur car,and if a guy did fall for u over ur car, think about it, that the kinda guy u really want?,pics with just ur kids, kids are great. yes, but that dont tell us what u look like and its alittle creepy(unless ur a cop, then good for u , get'em all)the pics where ur so far back ur a blur, that helps us out alot,NOT!the pushing up of the boobs,u really think we are looking at u? no ladies we're looking at ur boobs. and so we click "yes" without thinking and u want a real guy huh?. try being real... and to all the haters i have over this ... kiss my :-) lol jk. live with it!if you no a site where this may be helpful, feel free to post it haha (

OMG don't get kc started on the "duck lips"

Much of what you described can go for men and women. If you have a question about someone's pictures, ask them about it. The rest of us cannot read their minds to tell you why they chose the pictures they chose.

As for the "duck lips" pictures, I've actually seen more men recently doing that than women. Either way, it's unattractive.

Male PMS moment?

I really don't see a problem with this

Seems like it.

Some women do the "duck lips" thing because they don't like their smiles, maybe they think their cheeks are a little chubby. I know one girl who thinks this way.

As for tilting the head, some photographers actually recommend that, however one of my fb friends takes it to the next level and her head is always almost perpendicular with her shoulders.

Now regarding pushing up boobs, I don't think there's ever an instance where this should be frowned upon

I mean really, what kind of man complains about boobs?

i can think of one type...

Are you saying he's gay?

is that what i wrote?

lol. That's the first thing I thought of when I read what you wrote. Please do explain the kind of men who complain about boobs.

men that don't like boobs...mainly, IMO, just a way to get attention from the ladies, saying that kind of stuff to make it seem like they are more caring than they really are. seems like women would see through this kind of stuff, but i guess not. when i hear a man say these things, i automatically think BS.

I like boobs, any picture that shows more boobs is ok with me, and legs too. Mainly legs, thats my thing anyway... if we are going by looks, being beautiful is more than just the face, it's the whole package. since these sites don't mean alot about personality, i see no problem about showing some cleavage. if it was more about personality, the pictures would never matter anyway.

I have never met one of these men who don't like boobs that you speak of.

however u guys see it, women are born to be posers that however u describe it as long as we look good in the pic...then its good 4 us already...lol...

and you pose very well!!

ive got alot more comlements then haters, (all women) seems the haters are miss the point. BE REAL!thats all im saying, if u were looking for someone ,isnt that what ur looking for?be real of what u put out there on a dating site, yes i agree and the men too i guess, i dont look at mens pics so thats for a woman to write about, and please have at it, im sure some guys dont know how crazy the pics they put up are.and about the boobs., yes like as much as the next guy, but come on, look at some of these. a "b" cup pushes her boobs up trys to make them look like dd's or something.lol and when u start gettin to know them, then the real pic come out.im just sayin to (men) and women , just be real with the pics, then when someone looks at u,then they can decide to go for it or not, think about it, it would save alot of hurt feelings.i didnt intend for this to be a bad thing, just thought some needed to no some of these things, God knows i didnt see the "fag" thing commin lol.dont get me wrong i like alot of the pics i talked about, im just sayin to put some real u pics up too. and if u really want to no if i guy likes u , try puttin up a morning pic lol then if he goes for u , u no its true love lmao jk. and please forgive me for any typos haha

and you pose very well!!



lol..geez...thanx....

That was kind of hard to read.

This is interesting, but I can't see how this would work for you knowing you posted this on the forum. You might wont to send every women on this site an email so it get across