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Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Mon 05/09/11 08:44 PM Edited by Cheer_up on Mon 05/09/11 08:50 PM
Just curious are you the type of person who complains a lot each day about little things ?..... or do you just relax and don't let things bother you so much ? example say a person started honking their car horn at you do you start yelling and fighting back? lolll or say a sales person phones you up selling you something do you get mad? loll or if you went to buy something in a flyer and they say their all sold out? lolllll do you complain? .........I Think some dwell to much on little problems and by the time they get home they all frustrated and mad))) so what about you all???????....................................

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Mon 05/09/11 08:50 PM Edited by navygirl on Mon 05/09/11 08:50 PM
Just curious are you the type of person who complains a lot each day about little things ? or do you just relax and don't let things bother you so much ? example say a person started honking their car horn at you do you start yelling and fighting back? lolll or say a sales person phones you up selling you something do you get mad? loll or if you went to buy something in a flyer and they say their all sold out? lolllll do you complain? .........I Think some dwell to much on little problems and by the time they get home they all frustrated and mad))) so what about you all??????? I in general do not complain a lot. When I start to; I catch myself and remind myself that there is nothing worth getting upset about. Recently I was angry about contractors giving me grief about my garage that is being built and then realized how lucky I was to have this problem. Many people out there don't have a roof over their head never mind a garage. So instead of complaining about something so minor; I remind myself just how lucky I am.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45397	Mon 05/09/11 08:55 PM
I don't complain. So I needn't explain.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Mon 05/09/11 09:01 PM
Just curious are you the type of person who complains a lot each day about little things ? No, but I would if I had anyone to complain to.

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Mon 05/09/11 09:02 PM
Just curious are you the type of person who complains a lot each day about little things ? or do you just relax and don't let things bother you so much ? example say a person started honking their car horn at you do you start yelling and fighting back? lolll or say a sales person phones you up selling you something do you get mad? loll or if you went to buy something in a flyer and they say their all sold out? lolllll do you complain? .........I Think some dwell to much on little problems and by the time they get home they all frustrated and mad))) so what about you all??????? I in general do not complain a lot. When I start to; I catch myself and remind myself that there is nothing worth getting upset about. Recently I was angry about contractors giving me grief about my garage that is being built and then realized how lucky I was to have this problem. Many people out there don't have a roof over their head never mind a garage. So instead of complaining about something so minor; I remind myself just how lucky I am. Well thats a good way to look at it but don't let them rip you off:) lol thats not complaining if you paid for the job and its not complete it compromising if you talk back in a nice way but sounds more like them contractors complaining to you lolll i would laugh and say if you having problems doing a job and you can't do right why take it on ? lollllll:))))))))use Reverse psychology on them :))))))

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Mon 05/09/11 09:04 PM
Just curious are you the type of person who complains a lot each day about little things ? No, but I would if I had anyone to complain to. oh so then you would in other words if someone started up on you :)

HasidicEnforcer Joined Thu 12/20/07 Posts: 10235	Mon 05/09/11 09:05 PM
I don't complain in general. But yeah, if nothing but phucked up shyte happened to me all day, I would complain when the day was over, be it to another person or to my ceiling, just to get it off my mind so I could sleep without it bothering me.

Dragoness Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 23320	Mon 05/09/11 09:07 PM
Just curious are you the type of person who complains a lot each day about little things ?..... or do you just relax and don't let things bother you so much ? example say a person started honking their car horn at you do you start yelling and fighting back? lolll or say a sales person phones you up selling you something do you get mad? loll or if you went to buy something in a flyer and they say their all sold out? lolllll do you complain? .........I Think some dwell to much on little problems and by the time they get home they all frustrated and mad))) so what about you all???????.................................... Not a complainer. Prefer not to take my mind there. Whatever I would complain about IT CAN ALWAYS BE WORSE!!

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Mon 05/09/11 09:08 PM
Just curious are you the type of person who complains a lot each day about little things ? or do you just relax and don't let things bother you so much ? example say a person started honking their car horn at you do you start yelling and fighting back? lolll or say a sales person phones you up selling you something do you get mad? loll or if you went to buy something in a flyer and they say their all sold out? lolllll do you complain? .........I Think some dwell to much on little problems and by the time they get home they all frustrated and mad))) so what about you all??????? I in general do not complain a lot. When I start to; I catch myself and remind myself that there is nothing worth getting upset about. Recently I was angry about contractors giving me grief about my garage that is being built and then realized how lucky I was to have this problem. Many people out there don't have a roof over their head never mind a garage. So instead of complaining about something so minor; I remind myself just how lucky I am. Well thats a good way to look at it but don't let them rip you off:) lol thats not complaining if you paid for the job and its not complete it compromising if you talk back in a nice way but sounds more like them contractors complaining to you lolll i would laugh and say if you having problems doing a job and you can't do right why take it on ? lollllll:))))))))use Reverse psychology on them :)))))) Well the problem I am having is contractors telling me how big my garage should be. One guy said I live in pick up country and should make a garage big enough for a pick up truck. I told him I don't own one and don't intend to buy one. He argued that if I sold the house; it would be hard to sell because a person couldn't park a pick up truck. I told him I don't care; its my house; my garage. I had other contractors pointing out obvious things to me like I was stupid. I even said to one guy that I wasn't stupid. I did my homework and no exactly what the bylaws state and even corrected one guy that I can't just have a garage any size due to bylaws. So, no I don't let anyone push me around but I started complaining to my co-workers about these guys and then stopped myself.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Mon 05/09/11 09:11 PM
Just curious are you the type of person who complains a lot each day about little things ? No, but I would if I had anyone to complain to. oh so then you would in other words if someone started up on you :) Yeah, it's all situational. I get the right target, it could go for hours.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Mon 05/09/11 09:11 PM
if someone honks at me and yells i get out of my car and punch their face in,i feel much better although i may complain my hand hurts a little bit

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Mon 05/09/11 09:23 PM
Just curious are you the type of person who complains a lot each day about little things ? or do you just relax and don't let things bother you so much ? example say a person started honking their car horn at you do you start yelling and fighting back? lolll or say a sales person phones you up selling you something do you get mad? loll or if you went to buy something in a flyer and they say their all sold out? lolllll do you complain? .........I Think some dwell to much on little problems and by the time they get home they all frustrated and mad))) so what about you all??????? I in general do not complain a lot. When I start to; I catch myself and remind myself that there is nothing worth getting upset about. Recently I was angry about contractors giving me grief about my garage that is being built and then realized how lucky I was to have this problem. Many people out there don't have a roof over their head never mind a garage. So instead of complaining about something so minor; I remind myself just how lucky I am. Well thats a good way to look at it but don't let them rip you off:) lol thats not complaining if you paid for the job and its not complete it compromising if you talk back in a nice way but sounds more like them contractors complaining to you lolll i would laugh and say if you having problems doing a job and you can't do right why take it on ? lollllll:))))))))use Reverse psychology on them :)))))) Well the problem I am having is contractors telling me how big my garage should be. One guy said I live in pick up country and should make a garage big enough for a pick up truck. I told him I don't own one and don't intend to buy one. He argued that if I sold the house; it would be hard to sell because a person couldn't park a pick up truck. I told him I don't care; its my house; my garage. I had other contractors pointing out obvious things to me like I was stupid. I even said to one guy that I wasn't stupid. I did my homework and no exactly what the bylaws state and even corrected one guy that I can't just have a garage any size due to bylaws. So, no I don't let anyone push me around but I started complaining to my co-workers about these guys and then stopped myself. Well i done Construction in the past and to me they both sound like jerks and money grabbers ,now if i was there i would tell them both to say sorry to you and that they should be happy that you even let them due the job ,they sound like rude ignorant jerks ,if i was their boss or if you never signed a contract yet you can fire them on the spot :)))))) when someone trys to degrade or be nasty to a lady that gets on my nerves wish i was there i sure would make them apologize to you ,hope all works out and remember your their boss you the 1 paying :) hugssssssssssssss if they work for a company they can be fired for slander:) my friend all the best to you cheers

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Mon 05/09/11 09:27 PM
I don't complain in general. But yeah, if nothing but phucked up shyte happened to me all day, I would complain when the day was over, be it to another person or to my ceiling, just to get it off my mind so I could sleep without it bothering me. Well i see how it can build up inside of you if you let the little things bother you but a great way to let them out is a good drink and a walk or a worlkout yelling is good but best is try and laugh at the people that bugs them more then you hahaha:))))))

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Mon 05/09/11 09:38 PM
Just curious are you the type of person who complains a lot each day about little things ? or do you just relax and don't let things bother you so much ? example say a person started honking their car horn at you do you start yelling and fighting back? lolll or say a sales person phones you up selling you something do you get mad? loll or if you went to buy something in a flyer and they say their all sold out? lolllll do you complain? .........I Think some dwell to much on little problems and by the time they get home they all frustrated and mad))) so what about you all??????? I in general do not complain a lot. When I start to; I catch myself and remind myself that there is nothing worth getting upset about. Recently I was angry about contractors giving me grief about my garage that is being built and then realized how lucky I was to have this problem. Many people out there don't have a roof over their head never mind a garage. So instead of complaining about something so minor; I remind myself just how lucky I am. Well thats a good way to look at it but don't let them rip you off:) lol thats not complaining if you paid for the job and its not complete it compromising if you talk back in a nice way but sounds more like them contractors complaining to you lolll i would laugh and say if you having problems doing a job and you can't do right why take it on ? lollllll:))))))))use Reverse psychology on them :)))))) Well the problem I am having is contractors telling me how big my garage should be. One guy said I live in pick up country and should make a garage big enough for a pick up truck. I told him I don't own one and don't intend to buy one. He argued that if I sold the house; it would be hard to sell because a person couldn't park a pick up truck. I told him I don't care; its my house; my garage. I had other contractors pointing out obvious things to me like I was stupid. I even said to one guy that I wasn't stupid. I did my homework and no exactly what the bylaws state and even corrected one guy that I can't just have a garage any size due to bylaws. So, no I don't let anyone push me around but I started complaining to my co-workers about these guys and then stopped myself. Well i done Construction in the past and to me they both sound like jerks and money grabbers ,now if i was there i would tell them both to say sorry to you and that they should be happy that you even let them due the job ,they sound like rude ignorant jerks ,if i was their boss or if you never signed a contract yet you can fire them on the spot :)))))) when someone trys to degrade or be nasty to a lady that gets on my nerves wish i was there i sure would make them apologize to you ,hope all works out and remember your their boss you the 1 paying :) hugssssssssssssss if they work for a company they can be fired for slander:) my friend all the best to you cheers Well; you will be happy to know I didn't hire or pay either of these contractors. Sometimes I do wish I did have a man with me so they wouldn't try to pull the wool over my eyes but fortunately I did do my homework and I did let them know I am the boss. Thanks for caring though; you are very sweet.

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Mon 05/09/11 09:42 PM
if someone honks at me and yells i get out of my car and punch their face in,i feel much better although i may complain my hand hurts a little bit road rage uh thats to funny....but then if they took your plate and charged you? i use to know buddys that fight over nothing and in and out of the can just could not control their temper till they grew up and realize they were more in then out having fun lollllll i had to calm a few down in the past i use to be a bouncer at a bar in the past but not no more was tired of guys who thought they were it when they got drunk:)a lot made me laugh i saw 1 time a midget guy run and hit his head in the stomach of a tall guy my goodness then he jumpped on the big tall guy i had to tell him to get off the guy lollllll funny thing is they both were friends later and we let them stay lolll cheers

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Mon 05/09/11 09:47 PM
Just curious are you the type of person who complains a lot each day about little things ? or do you just relax and don't let things bother you so much ? example say a person started honking their car horn at you do you start yelling and fighting back? lolll or say a sales person phones you up selling you something do you get mad? loll or if you went to buy something in a flyer and they say their all sold out? lolllll do you complain? .........I Think some dwell to much on little problems and by the time they get home they all frustrated and mad))) so what about you all??????? I in general do not complain a lot. When I start to; I catch myself and remind myself that there is nothing worth getting upset about. Recently I was angry about contractors giving me grief about my garage that is being built and then realized how lucky I was to have this problem. Many people out there don't have a roof over their head never mind a garage. So instead of complaining about something so minor; I remind myself just how lucky I am. Well thats a good way to look at it but don't let them rip you off:) lol thats not complaining if you paid for the job and its not complete it compromising if you talk back in a nice way but sounds more like them contractors complaining to you lolll i would laugh and say if you having problems doing a job and you can't do right why take it on ? lollllll:))))))))use Reverse psychology on them :)))))) Well the problem I am having is contractors telling me how big my garage should be. One guy said I live in pick up country and should make a garage big enough for a pick up truck. I told him I don't own one and don't intend to buy one. He argued that if I sold the house; it would be hard to sell because a person couldn't park a pick up truck. I told him I don't care; its my house; my garage. I had other contractors pointing out obvious things to me like I was stupid. I even said to one guy that I wasn't stupid. I did my homework and no exactly what the bylaws state and even corrected one guy that I can't just have a garage any size due to bylaws. So, no I don't let anyone push me around but I started complaining to my co-workers about these guys and then stopped myself. Well i done Construction in the past and to me they both sound like jerks and money grabbers ,now if i was there i would tell them both to say sorry to you and that they should be happy that you even let them due the job ,they sound like rude ignorant jerks ,if i was their boss or if you never signed a contract yet you can fire them on the spot :)))))) when someone trys to degrade or be nasty to a lady that gets on my nerves wish i was there i sure would make them apologize to you ,hope all works out and remember your their boss you the 1 paying :) hugssssssssssssss if they work for a company they can be fired for slander:) my friend all the best to you cheers Well; you will be happy to know I didn't hire or pay either of these contractors. Sometimes I do wish I did have a man with me so they wouldn't try to pull the wool over my eyes but fortunately I did do my homework and I did let them know I am the boss. Thanks for caring though; you are very sweet. your very welcome just tell them i see you knew at this job and learning uh and laugh that will get their goat lolllllllllll:)

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Mon 05/09/11 09:50 PM
Just curious are you the type of person who complains a lot each day about little things ? No, but I would if I had anyone to complain to. oh so then you would in other words if someone started up on you :) Yeah, it's all situational. I get the right target, it could go for hours. i saw to guys do that over soccer games lolll argue none stop

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Mon 05/09/11 09:54 PM
I don't complain. So I needn't explain. Well thats great if you complain about nothing:) if you were shopping and a lady cut in front of you at a store line up and had a full cart what would you do? lolllll

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Mon 05/09/11 10:17 PM
I CAN complain everyday,,,But mostly ONLY IF someone brings up a point thats SAD,,mostly... Like gas prices,,,,wars,,,prejudices,,,,politic's....lol I don't LIKE WHERE WE ARE AS A PEOPLE....HERE and in the World... So does THAT BOTHER NE DAILY?,,,,Hell YES!!!lol But I strongly dislike cronic biiiitchers

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Mon 05/09/11 10:35 PM
I B * Tch and moan, and whinge and whine, grumble, mumble and mutter...as I am hauling barrow loads of yummy earth around, or barrow loads of rocks.....but I love the outcome!!! ...the dog doesn't care, as he follows me around all day and thinks I am kinda cool.