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It sounds good in theory, BUT -- in my own case -- if I can't generate any interest even WITH "best foot," I don't see where "worse foot" is going to help matters any! Well you're exceptional Lex!  
I suppose this might explain the "fizzle out phenomenon" better...why some people get a ton of initial contacts that look promising, but then gee, what do ya know, the hot and heavy romance just seems to wane once the other person starts getting to know them better. Swing and a miss, onto the next one. I just think people try too hard to impress other people...I dunno, maybe I'm nuts but I'm more impressed by seeing someone real than by seeing all their assets splayed out before me... 
The problem I've noticed is more along the lines of "Self-assessments aren't worth the paper they're printed on." It's true that people try to present themselves in (what they perceive as) the best possible light, but "I'm unique because I'm bipedal and take in oxygen" is not exactly accurate or useful information. And it's hard for me to get too excited about someone who can't write at something above a third-grade level. As far as dating sites go, the beauty of the forum format is that it really exposes people for who they are, if you give them enough time and 45,000 posts. "....bipedal and take in oxygen..." and is very unique! 
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lol I sure hope this last minute pic off my cell phone I took on my own isn't the best I have .... I'd have to find a small bridge and pretend I care enough to leap !
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lol I sure hope this last minute pic off my cell phone I took on my own isn't the best I have .... I'd have to find a small bridge and pretend I care enough to leap ! Nah...just jump off the curb into a puddle and start yelling you are drowning...then walk away and say "Never mind.....I found a leaf and floated to safety!!" 
(Sorry, pain meds are kicking in and everything seems funny)
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We must be on the same meds! lol I found it hilarious!
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Glad I made you laugh, then!!
 
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yea well... now I want to give that idea a try just for fun!
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Make sure you do it where people are around so you can see who has a sense of humor and who is a stick-in-the-mud!!
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LOl is there any other way!!! ??? Bring on the puddles!
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It sounds good in theory, BUT -- in my own case -- if I can't generate any interest even WITH "best foot," I don't see where "worse foot" is going to help matters any! Well you're exceptional Lex!
I suppose this might explain the "fizzle out phenomenon" better...why some people get a ton of initial contacts that look promising, but then gee, what do ya know, the hot and heavy romance just seems to wane once the other person starts getting to know them better. Swing and a miss, onto the next one. I just think people try too hard to impress other people...I dunno, maybe I'm nuts but I'm more impressed by seeing someone real than by seeing all their assets splayed out before me...
This is why, despite the fact my profile is 1458 pages long, you will never see "Can't drive stick" in it. |
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Hmmm no way am I going to put the crappiest picture of me as my profile picture and nope I am not going to put a morning shot on my page ever. so yep I am vain.
However, i do have in my profile what I am like and who I am, But for me to feel safe, I had to make sure that Anaconda had seen me at my absolute worst before I had met him, we talked on skype at all hours and he saw me in the morning night and noon, so I didnt have to worry about him not liking how I looked. As for my personality it is clear, I am totally unorganised and chaotic, it is always a shock to people how bad I am but they get a good picture from my profile. Anyway I guess when you are getting to know someone its all about being completely honest, then you dont get any shocks, sure put your best foot forwar, but be realistic when you start talking, if you are a crappy person then let them know before hand, that way they are not going to run the first time they see you in a crappy mood. |
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It sounds good in theory, BUT -- in my own case -- if I can't generate any interest even WITH "best foot," I don't see where "worse foot" is going to help matters any! Well you're exceptional Lex!
I suppose this might explain the "fizzle out phenomenon" better...why some people get a ton of initial contacts that look promising, but then gee, what do ya know, the hot and heavy romance just seems to wane once the other person starts getting to know them better. Swing and a miss, onto the next one. I just think people try too hard to impress other people...I dunno, maybe I'm nuts but I'm more impressed by seeing someone real than by seeing all their assets splayed out before me...
This is why, despite the fact my profile is 1458 pages long, you will never see "Can't drive stick" in it. 
What do you mean you can't drive stick!! But, but, but...I taught ya dammit!! You forgot already! Geez man, that's the last time I drive 1000 miles to teach you anything!!
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Don't let him fool you. it's a trick. He's clever, like a llama.
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It sounds good in theory, BUT -- in my own case -- if I can't generate any interest even WITH "best foot," I don't see where "worse foot" is going to help matters any! Well you're exceptional Lex!
I suppose this might explain the "fizzle out phenomenon" better...why some people get a ton of initial contacts that look promising, but then gee, what do ya know, the hot and heavy romance just seems to wane once the other person starts getting to know them better. Swing and a miss, onto the next one. I just think people try too hard to impress other people...I dunno, maybe I'm nuts but I'm more impressed by seeing someone real than by seeing all their assets splayed out before me...
This is why, despite the fact my profile is 1458 pages long, you will never see "Can't drive stick" in it.
What do you mean you can't drive stick!! But, but, but...I taught ya dammit!! You forgot already! Geez man, that's the last time I drive 1000 miles to teach you anything!!
Well, I never got good at it.... 
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Hmmm no way am I going to put the crappiest picture of me as my profile picture and nope I am not going to put a morning shot on my page ever. so yep I am vain. However, i do have in my profile what I am like and who I am, But for me to feel safe, I had to make sure that Anaconda had seen me at my absolute worst before I had met him, we talked on skype at all hours and he saw me in the morning night and noon, so I didnt have to worry about him not liking how I looked. As for my personality it is clear, I am totally unorganised and chaotic, it is always a shock to people how bad I am but they get a good picture from my profile. Anyway I guess when you are getting to know someone its all about being completely honest, then you dont get any shocks, sure put your best foot forwar, but be realistic when you start talking, if you are a crappy person then let them know before hand, that way they are not going to run the first time they see you in a crappy mood. That is why you are beautiful and we all envy Anaconda.... You are a real lady in every sense of the word.... except for the fact that you didn't go for the Polish Anaconda Penis (me).... sigh..... :) |
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It sounds good in theory, BUT -- in my own case -- if I can't generate any interest even WITH "best foot," I don't see where "worse foot" is going to help matters any! Well you're exceptional Lex!
I suppose this might explain the "fizzle out phenomenon" better...why some people get a ton of initial contacts that look promising, but then gee, what do ya know, the hot and heavy romance just seems to wane once the other person starts getting to know them better. Swing and a miss, onto the next one. I just think people try too hard to impress other people...I dunno, maybe I'm nuts but I'm more impressed by seeing someone real than by seeing all their assets splayed out before me...
This is why, despite the fact my profile is 1458 pages long, you will never see "Can't drive stick" in it.
What do you mean you can't drive stick!! But, but, but...I taught ya dammit!! You forgot already! Geez man, that's the last time I drive 1000 miles to teach you anything!!
Well, I never got good at it....
I will teach you Lex, most of mine have been sticks, they are heaps better to drive then the auto's. Well I guess in town the autos are fine, but manual is better out. |
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 Hmmm no way am I going to put the crappiest picture of me as my profile picture and nope I am not going to put a morning shot on my page ever. so yep I am vain. However, i do have in my profile what I am like and who I am, But for me to feel safe, I had to make sure that Anaconda had seen me at my absolute worst before I had met him, we talked on skype at all hours and he saw me in the morning night and noon, so I didnt have to worry about him not liking how I looked. As for my personality it is clear, I am totally unorganised and chaotic, it is always a shock to people how bad I am but they get a good picture from my profile. Anyway I guess when you are getting to know someone its all about being completely honest, then you dont get any shocks, sure put your best foot forwar, but be realistic when you start talking, if you are a crappy person then let them know before hand, that way they are not going to run the first time they see you in a crappy mood. That is why you are beautiful and we all envy Anaconda.... You are a real lady in every sense of the word.... except for the fact that you didn't go for the Polish Anaconda Penis (me).... sigh..... :)  I tried but you where Soufies perfect match..
And my american anaconda is so cool to play with
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It sounds good in theory, BUT -- in my own case -- if I can't generate any interest even WITH "best foot," I don't see where "worse foot" is going to help matters any! Well you're exceptional Lex!
I suppose this might explain the "fizzle out phenomenon" better...why some people get a ton of initial contacts that look promising, but then gee, what do ya know, the hot and heavy romance just seems to wane once the other person starts getting to know them better. Swing and a miss, onto the next one. I just think people try too hard to impress other people...I dunno, maybe I'm nuts but I'm more impressed by seeing someone real than by seeing all their assets splayed out before me...
This is why, despite the fact my profile is 1458 pages long, you will never see "Can't drive stick" in it.
What do you mean you can't drive stick!! But, but, but...I taught ya dammit!! You forgot already! Geez man, that's the last time I drive 1000 miles to teach you anything!!
Well, I never got good at it....
Well then you CAN drive a stick, you're just not good at it; there's a subtle difference there! But the truck did lurch forward over miles so you definitely achieved the ability to drive stick! 
I suppose it's like saying I can't cook. I can actually cook stuff, it just tastes like...well, insert any horrible tasting substance here and you'll likely be accurate! Same story, different characters!
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I see what you mean. While it's sometimes flattering men telling me i'm hot or whatever, i don't take their opinion of my looks that seriously. It's not important whether i look ugly or pretty. I would say having stuff in common is more important. Especially having a similar sense of humor. gotta start somewhere... nobody can say looks aren't important, because whats the first thing we notice? |
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It sounds good in theory, BUT -- in my own case -- if I can't generate any interest even WITH "best foot," I don't see where "worse foot" is going to help matters any! Well you're exceptional Lex!
I suppose this might explain the "fizzle out phenomenon" better...why some people get a ton of initial contacts that look promising, but then gee, what do ya know, the hot and heavy romance just seems to wane once the other person starts getting to know them better. Swing and a miss, onto the next one. I just think people try too hard to impress other people...I dunno, maybe I'm nuts but I'm more impressed by seeing someone real than by seeing all their assets splayed out before me...
This is why, despite the fact my profile is 1458 pages long, you will never see "Can't drive stick" in it.
What do you mean you can't drive stick!! But, but, but...I taught ya dammit!! You forgot already! Geez man, that's the last time I drive 1000 miles to teach you anything!!
Well, I never got good at it....
I will teach you Lex, most of mine have been sticks, they are heaps better to drive then the auto's. Well I guess in town the autos are fine, but manual is better out. Be careful, I may have done some serious damage to MissWright's truck....! (It was still working when I returned it to her, I swear!) |
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It sounds good in theory, BUT -- in my own case -- if I can't generate any interest even WITH "best foot," I don't see where "worse foot" is going to help matters any! Well you're exceptional Lex!
I suppose this might explain the "fizzle out phenomenon" better...why some people get a ton of initial contacts that look promising, but then gee, what do ya know, the hot and heavy romance just seems to wane once the other person starts getting to know them better. Swing and a miss, onto the next one. I just think people try too hard to impress other people...I dunno, maybe I'm nuts but I'm more impressed by seeing someone real than by seeing all their assets splayed out before me...
This is why, despite the fact my profile is 1458 pages long, you will never see "Can't drive stick" in it.
What do you mean you can't drive stick!! But, but, but...I taught ya dammit!! You forgot already! Geez man, that's the last time I drive 1000 miles to teach you anything!!
Well, I never got good at it....
Well then you CAN drive a stick, you're just not good at it; there's a subtle difference there! But the truck did lurch forward over miles so you definitely achieved the ability to drive stick!
I suppose it's like saying I can't cook. I can actually cook stuff, it just tastes like...well, insert any horrible tasting substance here and you'll likely be accurate! Same story, different characters!
Yeah, I guess this is a semantics issue....I can cook, IF you don't mind getting radiation poisoning and/or being incinerated in a 9-alarm fire (and that was just trying to make toast). Cooking something and then having the eating-person survive is another thing entirely.... |
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