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Topic: Let's say...
Totage's photo
Sat 03/26/11 12:58 PM
You're at the beach, park, or other public place and notice someone attractive. How do you approach them appropiately?

no photo
Sat 03/26/11 01:11 PM
go smack their ***.

scttggry81's photo
Sat 03/26/11 02:01 PM
Walk up to them, say that you noticed that they were the most attractive person you'd ever seen and you couldn't continue on with your life without letting them know. Then ask if they would like to go get something to eat...

Of course, I'd never get up the nerve to actually do it, so take it with a grain of salt...

mightymoe's photo
Sat 03/26/11 02:03 PM
start throwing stuff at her...

stefy's photo
Sat 03/26/11 02:15 PM

start throwing stuff at her...

Yep that would work fine laugh

soufiehere's photo
Sat 03/26/11 02:19 PM

You're at the beach, park, or other public
place and notice someone attractive.
How do you approach them appropiately?

I wouldn't.
I would do something to make them come
to me and think it was all their idea.

no photo
Sat 03/26/11 02:27 PM
usually i just spill my beer on her and then make her buy me another one

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 03/26/11 02:39 PM
I don't.

TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 03/26/11 03:29 PM
Shshsh I would most likely just gawk at them till they walked away...........slaphead :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

chickayoshi's photo
Sat 03/26/11 03:37 PM
I'd walk pass the person, drop something as if by accident (and hope they notice it), and he would pick it up and return it to me. If I walk fast enough, maybe he'll chase me down. Nice. bigsmile If only I was brave to do something like that. ohwell

mightymoe's photo
Sat 03/26/11 03:39 PM

I'd walk pass the person, drop something as if by accident (and hope they notice it), and he would pick it up and return it to me. If I walk fast enough, maybe he'll chase me down. Nice. bigsmile If only I was brave to do something like that. ohwell


if they don't pick it up, just bend over without using your knees to pick it up...that should at the very least get their attention...

thewaterbearer's photo
Sat 03/26/11 03:42 PM
Pretend to trip over something and say I was just falling for youlaugh slaphead slaphead

seamac's photo
Sat 03/26/11 04:32 PM
I talk to strangers so easily, in line at the check out, or where ever I happen to be. Try admiring their baby or dog or tat or ring, earrings...anything that is true about the person that isn't to personal, everyone loves to receive a compliment. Your initial comment might be met with a smile and a thanks and nothing more but that is ok because you maybe brightened their day. If it leads to a short conversation, enjoy it. If they are interested too, hopefully the conversation will lead to another meeting for coffee or lunch.

Just be honest with you opening remark and see what happens. Remember practice helps if you are the shy type who finds it hard to talk to strangers. Keep it honest, simple and be ready to move on as if paying them a compliment was spur of the moment. No awkward standing around expecting a stranger to engage in a conversation.

If you do have a conversation that leads to a coffee date don't push for a phone number, just be at the appointed place on time and hope for the best.

Good luck to you totage.

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 03/26/11 04:40 PM
i usually just flash em my boobs....

chickayoshi's photo
Sat 03/26/11 06:04 PM


I'd walk pass the person, drop something as if by accident (and hope they notice it), and he would pick it up and return it to me. If I walk fast enough, maybe he'll chase me down. Nice. bigsmile If only I was brave to do something like that. ohwell


if they don't pick it up, just bend over without using your knees to pick it up...that should at the very least get their attention...


Yeah, that'll work too. glasses

stefy's photo
Sat 03/26/11 06:11 PM

i usually just flash em my boobs....

good idealaugh

Totage's photo
Sat 03/26/11 06:41 PM

I talk to strangers so easily, in line at the check out, or where ever I happen to be. Try admiring their baby or dog or tat or ring, earrings...anything that is true about the person that isn't to personal, everyone loves to receive a compliment. Your initial comment might be met with a smile and a thanks and nothing more but that is ok because you maybe brightened their day. If it leads to a short conversation, enjoy it. If they are interested too, hopefully the conversation will lead to another meeting for coffee or lunch.

Just be honest with you opening remark and see what happens. Remember practice helps if you are the shy type who finds it hard to talk to strangers. Keep it honest, simple and be ready to move on as if paying them a compliment was spur of the moment. No awkward standing around expecting a stranger to engage in a conversation.

If you do have a conversation that leads to a coffee date don't push for a phone number, just be at the appointed place on time and hope for the best.

Good luck to you totage.


Thanks, I was just curious about the responses is all.

no photo
Sat 03/26/11 06:44 PM

i usually just flash em my boobs....


that is pre- emptively effective I have found, also

rlynne's photo
Sat 03/26/11 06:50 PM
................................I had a reason for walking all the way over here, but
...............I seem to have forgotten why......hows your day?

no photo
Sat 03/26/11 06:53 PM

Shshsh I would most likely just gawk at them till they walked away...........slaphead :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:



laughlaugh laugh
thats what would happen to me.:laughing:

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