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How do u break up with someone? Im 30 years old n i have never broken it off with a guy before except 1 but that was a totally different situation coz he was stabbing me n trying to kill me. So anyway sidetrack here how do u break it off? Hit him in the Nutz with a stun gun. lol, Make the experience physical so he doesn't think much about the emotional pain, huh....I like it. I may buy a taser. |
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Tell him straight up, dont lead him around the bush, if you think its over then tell him its over. alot of girls do the i wanna have a break thing and that just pisses us guys off. Gives us hope that we cling too and then rips the heart out again. just be honest with him will be for the best
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Tell him straight up, dont lead him around the bush, if you think its over then tell him its over. alot of girls do the i wanna have a break thing and that just pisses us guys off. Gives us hope that we cling too and then rips the heart out again. just be honest with him will be for the best
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well heres a little of the situation. I started dating a 25yo who ill call beng. Nice guy but very young and i knew it was something that wouldnt go far at all. Guess thats why i started dating him coz i know its gonna go no where n i can kinda control it so i dont get hurt. Enter a 31yo who ill call lovecraft who i have known for a long time who wants to be with me n has always wanted too. I was open n honest with lovecraft n told him that i was with beng but lovecraft told me he dont care, he has waited too long n that he wants to be with me regardless. After months of thinking i have decided that my heart is with lovecraft n not beng. Now how do i say that to beng.........sorry i dont want to be with u because my heart is elsewhere???? sorry beng i dont think we would work out coz i dont see a future there n ur very young n immature i have 2 kids of my own i dont want another????? I want to be truthfull but i dont want to fully devastate the guy either. you sound needy and co-dependent. Break it off with both of them, be alone for a while and learn who you are and what you want. Seems you only go for guys that want you - and that is sad. Work on your self esteem issues you might be a happier person. $.02 
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I'm extremely attracted to your Uncle!
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Tell him the Truth...
 
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It depends on WHO and WHY it had to come to an end---
A couple weeks ago I had to tell someone, Get the F outta my car, i never really liked you anyways.....(even though I did like him) but he was an offensive person who did not have a way with words----he was also very needy though so would try and backtrack all his conversations....so I gave him a taste of his own medicine. I was over it anyways. |
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you sound needy and co-dependent. Break it off with both of them, be alone for a while and learn who you are and what you want. Seems you only go for guys that want you - and that is sad. Work on your self esteem issues you might be a happier person. $.02
Rude much? You may have a point, but you also sound like a bitter *ssh*le. |
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well heres a little of the situation. I started dating a 25yo who ill call beng. Nice guy but very young and i knew it was something that wouldnt go far at all. Guess thats why i started dating him coz i know its gonna go no where n i can kinda control it so i dont get hurt. Enter a 31yo who ill call lovecraft who i have known for a long time who wants to be with me n has always wanted too. I was open n honest with lovecraft n told him that i was with beng but lovecraft told me he dont care, he has waited too long n that he wants to be with me regardless. After months of thinking i have decided that my heart is with lovecraft n not beng. Now how do i say that to beng.........sorry i dont want to be with u because my heart is elsewhere???? sorry beng i dont think we would work out coz i dont see a future there n ur very young n immature i have 2 kids of my own i dont want another????? I want to be truthfull but i dont want to fully devastate the guy either. you sound needy and co-dependent. Break it off with both of them, be alone for a while and learn who you are and what you want. Seems you only go for guys that want you - and that is sad. Work on your self esteem issues you might be a happier person. $.02
that is ur opinion n ur entitled to that n i respect that. As far as being Needy n co dependant with low self esteem issues that's ur opinion though i will say u don't know me at all. I am me n i am happy being me n if people don't like that i don't need them in my life. 'go for guys who want me' ummmm duh i don't want a guy who wants nothing to do with me. That's a ridiculous thing to say. I know who i am n what i want n this has nothing to do with the question i asked - i asked how do u break up? |
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I always believe being truthful is the best. I don't know the circumstances but if you just aren't feeling it, then tell him that. You don't have to be mean, just be direct and truthful. I know I would appreciate that (whether I like it or not)...I can deal with the truth yep she is right.. ill add this.. why waste your time if you are not happy? and also........ why waste his? especially if he has different hopes of where the relationship will land than you do?.. best of luck!! just do it!
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Just start singing Michael Jackson songs and she (or he) will leave instantly.
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Just start singing Michael Jackson songs and she (or he) will leave instantly. 
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Just start singing Michael Jackson songs and she (or he) will leave instantly. sings..."Heal my curl. Make me a better spray...for you, and for me, and the jerry curls today..." |
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Edited by
Lili_M
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Sat 03/05/11 05:42 PM
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lets see...6 years ago I said something like
Take your F$##ing hand off my arm then I escorted him to the door when he refused I called out for my 6'2" tall son and my scrappy little daughters and we opened the door...inserted feet (we like doing things as a family )
and slammed the door behind him MISSION ACCOMPLISHED 
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They usually just leave me.
That's all......
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