I have very little patience with people who are not courageous to engage in a friendly debate. In many things, somebody has to be right and somebody has to be wrong. I wouldn't be putting forth my opinions if I didn't think I was right. I don't know why you would care about what I think if you didn't have an honest opinion on it. You seem to care a great deal. You asked me your questions. I answered. What's your rebuttal?

OK, I'll give you one more point on what I'm looking for. Somebody that I can have honest disagreements with without tender sensitivities driving either of us into insulting adjectives like "arrogant". I don't see any arrogance in my responses. You asked me to give my answer to the big question. I responded by telling you that it is not my place to answer that question. It is your place to ask your man. if you find that too difficult, then that is not my problem.

You presume all men are like you, being very physical, when some havent been as good at describing or going as in depth as you like you call them shallow or say that they don't want to say their preference.


Further more I have not asked you anything. So I am slightly confused as to what you are talking about in that part.


Arrogant is not a insult, it is a state of being, your responses have a very arrogant feel.

For exp.

"Wait! I think I get it. Some women may like for their men to be a flexible mystery. A blank page that they can draw in a facsimile of their own likeness. They don't WANT to know what their man really likes. They want their man to be something that they can "fix" so that they can slip right into the template and be the ideal that they hope he will want. Just a theory."

"Men are very shallow when they approach a woman. Frankly, a nice set of boobs is often enough to do the job. (I don't exempt myself from this). Do you get my point?"

"Well, I'll get it started here. We know, so far, that, unlike many women, men don't "want it all". Sense of humor, open-ness, honesty. That's a good start, but it doesn't cover much territory. "

You tend to generalize everyone into an either A category or B category.


People are many shades of color and black and white, each is their own person. To generalize anyone is to generalize everyone. Furthermore that is an insult to the person themselves.

Well Sweet and I didn't bring up the size "you" did.. We just thought we'd be supportive of your post....

(sorry I didn't see your post last night - was over on the music threads most of the latter half of the night)

No prob. I got to have my say, You got to show us all what you don't like. Everybody's good.

Well to be perfectly honest I like women that can at least appreciate my work and things I come up with. Which is kind of difficult right this second because I am beginning programmer and topping out on the level of DOS looking software LoL. And can easily ( or at least somewhat understand) what most people consider to be computer talk. Not that I am a computer nerd at heart(my past is quite the opposite in fact) I have spent long hours studying for my degree and has occupied almost all my time over the past few months and am completely in love with it and beginning to take up even more of my time. Pay is good I was propositioned from a company that paid 40 dollars per hour for a similar position. True my qualifications fell a little short but the requirements were dead on the direction I am heading. Not that this is hugely important it has just been the topic lately.

too lazy to read just yet...and sure someone already said, "boobs"

umm tx but I was resposnding to prncs

correct - and penis

Finally asked lesbian friend, "do you just not like penises?"

She said, "I never said THAT!! I just don't like them on MEN!"

programming is challenging work with a lot of directions u can take - good luck!

I'm more an OS & hardware type - pretty much a beginner - I like the net too, but if pressed to choose - I'd rather work with the "equipment" the program

srsly tho -I like multi media stuff - with little formal training I'm more of a "power user" than a pro.

I'm holding out for a chick with a bass boat.............