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sorry didnt understand what you meant princess could you reiterate?
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sorry didnt understand what you meant princess could you reiterate? You're honest but not in a mean way... That's a good thing.... |
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makes sense now. haha, sorry bit off atm.
thanks lass |
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you are coming across as very arrogant and honestly a typical male tool throughout your replies in this topic.
I have very little patience with people who are not courageous to engage in a friendly debate. In many things, somebody has to be right and somebody has to be wrong. I wouldn't be putting forth my opinions if I didn't think I was right. I don't know why you would care about what I think if you didn't have an honest opinion on it. You seem to care a great deal. You asked me your questions. I answered. What's your rebuttal?
Especially with your 'Im right you're wrong mentality' OK, I'll give you one more point on what I'm looking for. Somebody that I can have honest disagreements with without tender sensitivities driving either of us into insulting adjectives like "arrogant". I don't see any arrogance in my responses. You asked me to give my answer to the big question. I responded by telling you that it is not my place to answer that question. It is your place to ask your man. if you find that too difficult, then that is not my problem. |
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you are coming across as very arrogant and honestly a typical male tool throughout your replies in this topic.
I have very little patience with people who are not courageous to engage in a friendly debate. In many things, somebody has to be right and somebody has to be wrong. I wouldn't be putting forth my opinions if I didn't think I was right. I don't know why you would care about what I think if you didn't have an honest opinion on it. You seem to care a great deal. You asked me your questions. I answered. What's your rebuttal?
Especially with your 'Im right you're wrong mentality' OK, I'll give you one more point on what I'm looking for. Somebody that I can have honest disagreements with without tender sensitivities driving either of us into insulting adjectives like "arrogant". I don't see any arrogance in my responses. You asked me to give my answer to the big question. I responded by telling you that it is not my place to answer that question. It is your place to ask your man. if you find that too difficult, then that is not my problem. Hopefully everyone's comments, idea's, and opinions have been in good fun and no harm no foul. I know mine have. They are all honest but are not meant to be hurtful. |
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makes sense now. haha, sorry bit off atm. thanks lass You're welcome darlin'.. |
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you are coming across as very arrogant and honestly a typical male tool throughout your replies in this topic.
I have very little patience with people who are not courageous to engage in a friendly debate. In many things, somebody has to be right and somebody has to be wrong. I wouldn't be putting forth my opinions if I didn't think I was right. I don't know why you would care about what I think if you didn't have an honest opinion on it. You seem to care a great deal. You asked me your questions. I answered. What's your rebuttal?
Especially with your 'Im right you're wrong mentality' OK, I'll give you one more point on what I'm looking for. Somebody that I can have honest disagreements with without tender sensitivities driving either of us into insulting adjectives like "arrogant". I don't see any arrogance in my responses. You asked me to give my answer to the big question. I responded by telling you that it is not my place to answer that question. It is your place to ask your man. if you find that too difficult, then that is not my problem. Let me get this straight, you are offended by someone telling you that you are coming across as arrogant, but somehow you are fine with falsely tossing about slanderous accusations towards other peoples sexual preferences? You are some piece of work… |
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but somehow you are fine with falsely tossing about slanderous accusations towards other peoples sexual preferences? Explain this please. I don't know what you're talking about.
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you are coming across as very arrogant and honestly a typical male tool throughout your replies in this topic.
I have very little patience with people who are not courageous to engage in a friendly debate. In many things, somebody has to be right and somebody has to be wrong. I wouldn't be putting forth my opinions if I didn't think I was right. I don't know why you would care about what I think if you didn't have an honest opinion on it. You seem to care a great deal. You asked me your questions. I answered. What's your rebuttal?
Especially with your 'Im right you're wrong mentality' OK, I'll give you one more point on what I'm looking for. Somebody that I can have honest disagreements with without tender sensitivities driving either of us into insulting adjectives like "arrogant". I don't see any arrogance in my responses. You asked me to give my answer to the big question. I responded by telling you that it is not my place to answer that question. It is your place to ask your man. if you find that too difficult, then that is not my problem. You presume all men are like you, being very physical, when some havent been as good at describing or going as in depth as you like you call them shallow or say that they don't want to say their preference. Further more I have not asked you anything. So I am slightly confused as to what you are talking about in that part. Arrogant is not a insult, it is a state of being, your responses have a very arrogant feel. For exp. "Wait! I think I get it. Some women may like for their men to be a flexible mystery. A blank page that they can draw in a facsimile of their own likeness. They don't WANT to know what their man really likes. They want their man to be something that they can "fix" so that they can slip right into the template and be the ideal that they hope he will want. Just a theory." "Men are very shallow when they approach a woman. Frankly, a nice set of boobs is often enough to do the job. (I don't exempt myself from this). Do you get my point?" "Well, I'll get it started here. We know, so far, that, unlike many women, men don't "want it all". Sense of humor, open-ness, honesty. That's a good start, but it doesn't cover much territory. " You tend to generalize everyone into an either A category or B category. People are many shades of color and black and white, each is their own person. To generalize anyone is to generalize everyone. Furthermore that is an insult to the person themselves. |
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but somehow you are fine with falsely tossing about slanderous accusations towards other peoples sexual preferences? Explain this please. I don't know what you're talking about.
did i read this wrong? so what it boils down to here is....you are the "he" you keep referring to, right? Why would you think that? I have two Masters degrees. I would rather cuddle with my honey in front of the TV than anything. I don't play pool. I'm retired from the job I held for 23 years. I like boobs, but they don't have to be big. What do you think that the "sooooooo much" is that my post says? I think you will be satisfied with the size of his penis.
or was that last part not directed at me? |
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Yes, looks matter. They're not everything, but they do matter.
Just with this statement, you have shown that you are not shallow.
I'd like to find someone who looks like Billie Piper, has a 160 IQ, is involved in some sort of creative endeavors, who doesn't use drugs or alcohol and who doesn't have kids or want kids. I'm perfectly OK with being seen as shallow and selective. Reality must prevail. And, yes, I know there is no one out there who fits that description....! Thanks, I really don't think of myself as shallow, either. It's a full-time job just being intimidating and complicated. |
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but somehow you are fine with falsely tossing about slanderous accusations towards other peoples sexual preferences? Explain this please. I don't know what you're talking about.
did i read this wrong? so what it boils down to here is....you are the "he" you keep referring to, right? Why would you think that? I have two Masters degrees. I would rather cuddle with my honey in front of the TV than anything. I don't play pool. I'm retired from the job I held for 23 years. I like boobs, but they don't have to be big. What do you think that the "sooooooo much" is that my post says? I think you will be satisfied with the size of his penis.
or was that last part not directed at me? I'm curious as well.. I am awaiting the response to Poets post as well.. Of course the replies are sporadic at best... |
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did i read this wrong?
Yes. I was referring to Princess, about three pages back. You presume all men are like you, being very physical, when some havent been as good at describing or going as in depth as you like you call them shallow or say that they don't want to say their preference.
No, I think that a lot of men think that they will be happy with a good sense of humor, or just good communication skills. I don't think that this is the rule. I wonder if they may be intimidated from being willing to admit that they have attraction preferences that are less lofty than these higher principals and more mundane.Many of us want to project that we are only interested in the most lofty qualities. It is MY OPINION that they are largely naive. (I do believe that I am entitled to my opinion). I have known a couple of men in my life that nobody could figure out how they clicked with their mate, It had to be this simple criterion. In my experience, this is quire rare. On the other hand, we have at least one woman tell us that the size of her man's penis is good enough for her. It takes all kinds. |
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did i read this wrong?
Yes. I was referring to Princess, about three pages back. You presume all men are like you, being very physical, when some havent been as good at describing or going as in depth as you like you call them shallow or say that they don't want to say their preference.
No, I think that a lot of men think that they will be happy with a good sense of humor, or just good communication skills. I don't think that this is the rule. I wonder if they may be intimidated from being willing to admit that they have attraction preferences that are less lofty than these higher principals and more mundane.Many of us want to project that we are only interested in the most lofty qualities. It is MY OPINION that they are largely naive. (I do believe that I am entitled to my opinion). I have known a couple of men in my life that nobody could figure out how they clicked with their mate, It had to be this simple criterion. In my experience, this is quire rare. On the other hand, we have at least one woman tell us that the size of her man's penis is good enough for her. It takes all kinds. Well that doesn't make sense.. Why would you refer to a post I made without quoting me or at least coping and pasting what I said that you were referring to?????????? |
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Why would you refer to a post I made without quoting me or at least coping and pasting what I said that you were referring to??????????. Oh, was that you? I didn't remember who it was that was satisfied just with the size of her man's penis.
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Why would you refer to a post I made without quoting me or at least coping and pasting what I said that you were referring to??????????. Oh, was that you? I didn't remember who it was that was satisfied just with the size of her man's penis.
Well Sweet and I didn't bring up the size "you" did.. We just thought we'd be supportive of your post.... |
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Thanks for the support. That must have been courageous to be so honest.
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Thanks for the support. That must have been courageous to be so honest. Oh I wouldn't go that far.. some of us are more modest than others... |
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Seems to me he made this thread to troll in. He mentions wanting to argue and being right or wrong but there is no right or wrong for preferences. He is not a girl or gay thus gets no benefit from this topic. This is just my opinion from reading it.
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Edited by
artlo
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Sun 02/27/11 03:03 AM
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Hey artlo. How about you tell us what you want? Or would you rather have your right hand be your best friend? Not a bad thing cause, hey....you know what you like right? Must have skipped right over this. Thanks for asking.
All other things being equal, I will choose the pretty girl over the unattractive girl. All other things being equal, I will choose the girl who is smarter over the girl who is not so smart All other things being equal, I will choose the girl who has a darker skin tone All other things being equal, I will choose the girl who gets my humor and who makes me laugh All other things being equal, I will choose the girl who will not feel personally incensed when I call her on her crap All other things being equal, I will choose the girl who is interested in the same things that I am All other things being equal, I will choose the girl who has fairly good teeth All other things being equal, I will choose the girl who will call me on my crap without being mean. All other things being equal, I will choose the girl who is a little shorter than me All other things being equal, I will choose the girl who does not get overwhelmed by troublesome situations. All other things being equal, I will choose the girl who shaves her armpits All other things being equal, I will choose the girl who always prefers to dress casually. All other things being equal, I will choose the girl who will not feel personally insulted just because I don't agree with her. All other things being equal, I will choose the girl who is not too heavy. (This is very subjective and case-by-case. I am fine with a little extra weight) All other things being equal, I will choose the girl who appreciates the good things about me and is tolerant about the bad things All other things being equal, I will choose the girl who has a good nature and does not have a mean spirit All other things being equal, I will choose the girl who is interested in politics (I am rather passionate about my politics. My worst choice would be someone who has no politics. I prefer people that I have common interests with so we can have things to talk about. I'm not sure whether our politics need to be the same. Recently, I found myself pathologically attracted to a girl of the opposite persuasion. If we HAD gotten together, we would either have driven eachother nuts, had a ton-o-fun or both. we'll never know). All other things being equal, I will choose the girl who is not deeply religious. All other things being equal, I will choose the girl who is at about the same socio-economic level as me. All other things being equal, I will choose the girl who takes the trouble to understand what I am saying instead of adding material that isn't there. All other things being equal, I will choose the girl who who has lots of time for me All other things being equal, I will choose the girl who would rather be at home with me than out shopping All other things being equal, I will choose the brunette over the blond All other things being equal, I will choose the girl wholikes the same kind of food as me All other things being equal, I will choose the girl who makes it clear to me what will make her happy All other things being equal, I will choose the girl who likes the same movies as me All other things being equal, I will choose the girl who likes the car at the same temperature as me. All other things being equal, I will choose the girl who has a voice that is pleasant to listen to. All other things being equal, I will choose the girl who wants me to be happy All other things being equal, I will choose the girl who loves animals as much as I do. This list could go on and on. How much weight and proportion I give to these factors is impossible to pre-determine. That's the fun and the frustration of making a good match. Or would you rather have your right hand be your best friend?
I can't speak for you,my friend, but my right hand does not meet any of these criteria. |
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