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| Topic: Guys Turn. What are Men Looking For? | |
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Boy, this is like pulling teeth. There must be something strategic going on here. Men don't seem to want to tell us what their preferences are. Methinks there may be a clue here as to why people have so much trouble making good connections, and I don't think it's the women. when they do tell you, you don't believe them.. Just b/c you have specific preferences doesn't mean everyone does... A lot of people do but not every single person... Me thinks you need to take people for their word and stop telling them they're full of it then they just may want to contribute... |
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 Well, There we go, then. Is there any hope?
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Edited by
artlo
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when they do tell you, you don't believe them.. Just b/c you have specific preferences doesn't mean everyone does... A lot of people do but not every single person... Me thinks you need to take people for their word and stop telling them they're full of it then they just may want to contribute..
Sound a little hostile to me. Ya gotta problem? This isn't the politics forum. Wait! I think I get it. Some women may like for their men to be a flexible mystery. A blank page that they can draw in a facsimile of their own likeness. They don't WANT to know what their man really likes. They want their man to be something that they can "fix" so that they can slip right into the template and be the ideal that they hope he will want. Just a theory. |
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Honesty, humor, etc. are all important but i think that being open is one of the most at first. I have dated a few girls who clam up and its so annoying because you wish you could say that she is giving you a fair chance but you cant. I can remember being about your age and how great it was to find someone who u can really talk with - the conversation just flows it's still what I STILL look for even now - after all these years ur right - kiddo - that's what makes for good times and u will find that girl and she won't be "every" girl - no - she'll be special - stand apart from the crowd  
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when they do tell you, you don't believe them.. Just b/c you have specific preferences doesn't mean everyone does... A lot of people do but not every single person... Me thinks you need to take people for their word and stop telling them they're full of it then they just may want to contribute..
Sound a little hostile to me. Ya gotta problem? This isn't the politics forum. Wait! I think I get it. Some women may like for their men to be a flexible mystery. A blank page that they can draw in a facsimile of their own likeness. They don't WANT to know what their man really likes. They want their man to be something that they can "fix" so that they can slip right into the template and be the ideal that they hope he will want. Just a theory. I'm not hostile at all.. I was telling you the truth as I see it like you've been telling everyone that posts... Perhaps some women do... I'm sure some men do as well.. |
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Honesty, humor, etc. are all important but i think that being open is one of the most at first. Hey women, do you REALLY think that this is all it's going to take to attract the man you want?
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when they do tell you, you don't believe them.. Just b/c you have specific preferences doesn't mean everyone does... A lot of people do but not every single person... Me thinks you need to take people for their word and stop telling them they're full of it then they just may want to contribute..
Sound a little hostile to me. Ya gotta problem? This isn't the politics forum. Wait! I think I get it. Some women may like for their men to be a flexible mystery. A blank page that they can draw in a facsimile of their own likeness. They don't WANT to know what their man really likes. They want their man to be something that they can "fix" so that they can slip right into the template and be the ideal that they hope he will want. Just a theory. that's the last thing I want but I guess there are people who do that - don't look deep enough - see what they wanna see, hear what they wanna hear - try to make a man (or a woman) into what they want him/her to be - in scared immature grasp at having that dream of someone to love ya sometimes we get it wrong and if u don't like my comment, well, u don't but I do - I think it's a pretty good comment |
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Hey artlo. How about you tell us what you want? Or would you rather have your right hand be your best friend? Not a bad thing cause, hey....you know what you like right?
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Edited by
artlo
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that's the last thing I want but I guess there are people who do that - don't look deep enough - see what they wanna see, hear what they wanna hear - try to make a man (or a woman) into what they want him/her to be - in scared immature grasp at having that dream of someone to love ya sometimes we get it wrong and if u don't like my comment, well, u don't but I do - I think it's a pretty good comment I like it a lot! My thesis here is that women are given little to go on when they are looking at the package that is confronting them. They are presented with a pretty-boy face, a swaggering posture, a big penis, maybe a stunning wit, and they haven't a clue as to to deeper criterion of what their man really wants. They settle for what they see. They don't ask these questions. Men are very shallow when they approach a woman. Frankly, a nice set of boobs is often enough to do the job. (I don't exempt myself from this). Do you get my point? |
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that's the last thing I want but I guess there are people who do that - don't look deep enough - see what they wanna see, hear what they wanna hear - try to make a man (or a woman) into what they want him/her to be - in scared immature grasp at having that dream of someone to love ya sometimes we get it wrong and if u don't like my comment, well, u don't but I do - I think it's a pretty good comment I like it a lot! My thesis here is that women are given little to go on when they are looking at the package that is confronting them. They are presented with a pretty-boy face, a swaggering posture, a big penis, maybe a stunning wit, and they haven't a clue as to to deeper criterion of what their man really wants. They settle for what they see. They don't ask these questions. Men are very shallow when they approach a woman. Frankly, a nice set of boobs is often enough to do the job. (I don't exempt myself from this). Do you get my point i don't think you have a point here at all. each person should pursue what they like. what difference would it make to a woman if she knew what i was looking for? (upon first meeting) would it change the way she acts? would she try to be these things?...i personally would like for her to be her own person, not someone of my design. |
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Yes, looks matter. They're not everything, but they do matter.
I'd like to find someone who looks like Billie Piper, has a 160 IQ, is involved in some sort of creative endeavors, who doesn't use drugs or alcohol and who doesn't have kids or want kids. I'm perfectly OK with being seen as shallow and selective. Reality must prevail. And, yes, I know there is no one out there who fits that description....! |
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each person should pursue what they like. what difference would it make to a woman if she knew what i was looking for?
That's an attitude that reveals a lot. |
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each person should pursue what they like. what difference would it make to a woman if she knew what i was looking for?
That's an attitude that reveals a lot. a lot of good stuff right? I love that he knows the difference... |
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Yes, looks matter. They're not everything, but they do matter.
Just with this statement, you have shown that you are not shallow.
I'd like to find someone who looks like Billie Piper, has a 160 IQ, is involved in some sort of creative endeavors, who doesn't use drugs or alcohol and who doesn't have kids or want kids. I'm perfectly OK with being seen as shallow and selective. Reality must prevail. And, yes, I know there is no one out there who fits that description....! |
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that's the last thing I want but I guess there are people who do that - don't look deep enough - see what they wanna see, hear what they wanna hear - try to make a man (or a woman) into what they want him/her to be - in scared immature grasp at having that dream of someone to love ya sometimes we get it wrong and if u don't like my comment, well, u don't but I do - I think it's a pretty good comment I like it a lot! My thesis here is that women are given little to go on when they are looking at the package that is confronting them. They are presented with a pretty-boy face, a swaggering posture, a big penis, maybe a stunning wit, and they haven't a clue as to to deeper criterion of what their man really wants. They settle for what they see. They don't ask these questions. Men are very shallow when they approach a woman. Frankly, a nice set of boobs is often enough to do the job. (I don't exempt myself from this). Do you get my point? well if it's the package we're talkin' about - I like those delivered between 6-10 
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that's the last thing I want but I guess there are people who do that - don't look deep enough - see what they wanna see, hear what they wanna hear - try to make a man (or a woman) into what they want him/her to be - in scared immature grasp at having that dream of someone to love ya sometimes we get it wrong and if u don't like my comment, well, u don't but I do - I think it's a pretty good comment I like it a lot! My thesis here is that women are given little to go on when they are looking at the package that is confronting them. They are presented with a pretty-boy face, a swaggering posture, a big penis, maybe a stunning wit, and they haven't a clue as to to deeper criterion of what their man really wants. They settle for what they see. They don't ask these questions. Men are very shallow when they approach a woman. Frankly, a nice set of boobs is often enough to do the job. (I don't exempt myself from this). Do you get my point? well if it's the package we're talkin' about - I like those delivered between 6-10
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each person should pursue what they like. what difference would it make to a woman if she knew what i was looking for?
That's an attitude that reveals a lot. meaning? |
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that's the last thing I want but I guess there are people who do that - don't look deep enough - see what they wanna see, hear what they wanna hear - try to make a man (or a woman) into what they want him/her to be - in scared immature grasp at having that dream of someone to love ya sometimes we get it wrong and if u don't like my comment, well, u don't but I do - I think it's a pretty good comment I like it a lot! My thesis here is that women are given little to go on when they are looking at the package that is confronting them. They are presented with a pretty-boy face, a swaggering posture, a big penis, maybe a stunning wit, and they haven't a clue as to to deeper criterion of what their man really wants. They settle for what they see. They don't ask these questions. Men are very shallow when they approach a woman. Frankly, a nice set of boobs is often enough to do the job. (I don't exempt myself from this). Do you get my point? well if it's the package we're talkin' about - I like those delivered between 6-10
howdy prncs!  well -we girls know what a package is now don't we
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Edited by
kc0003
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well if it's the package we're talkin' about - I like those delivered between 6-10
that's funny!!!!! |
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that's the last thing I want but I guess there are people who do that - don't look deep enough - see what they wanna see, hear what they wanna hear - try to make a man (or a woman) into what they want him/her to be - in scared immature grasp at having that dream of someone to love ya sometimes we get it wrong and if u don't like my comment, well, u don't but I do - I think it's a pretty good comment I like it a lot! My thesis here is that women are given little to go on when they are looking at the package that is confronting them. They are presented with a pretty-boy face, a swaggering posture, a big penis, maybe a stunning wit, and they haven't a clue as to to deeper criterion of what their man really wants. They settle for what they see. They don't ask these questions. Men are very shallow when they approach a woman. Frankly, a nice set of boobs is often enough to do the job. (I don't exempt myself from this). Do you get my point? well if it's the package we're talkin' about - I like those delivered between 6-10
howdy prncs! well -we girls know what a package is now don't we
Howdy darlin'.. Yes we do and I'm sure the fact that a man can make that statement is the indicator that he has no clue.. BTW I tried to email you a while ago but it wouldn't go through.. Email me please.... |
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