Topic: I am confused
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Tue 01/25/11 06:00 PM

Ok, this isn't the attention whore thread guys :tongue:


my bad, i must have taken a wrong turn in albuquerque

Nyteflame's photo
Tue 01/25/11 08:31 PM
Maslow's Hierarchy places "Belonging" as the 3rd greatest need (safety, and physiological needs like food and water come first). Perhaps this is those people's way of re-assuring themselves that this need is met.

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Tue 01/25/11 09:46 PM

Why do people feel they have to be validated to fit in?
"Am I hot", "Am I Pretty", and "Do Men Like A Little Meat On The Bones" etc.....

I read these threads and wonder, why does no one tell them there is no need to be validated other than me?

Isn't the number one rule for a successful life and relationship "to love thy self"?







love thy self didn't work too well for pee wee herman

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=du2yf4mFWDY

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Wed 01/26/11 10:27 AM

Ok, this isn't the attention whore thread guys :tongue:


Ese you are sexy bigsmile

Krupa, love the wind blown hair and the self grabbing there love
but the shoes have got to go..laugh

krupa's photo
Wed 01/26/11 10:42 AM


Ok, this isn't the attention whore thread guys :tongue:


Ese you are sexy bigsmile

Krupa, love the wind blown hair and the self grabbing there love
but the shoes have got to go..laugh


Tsk Tsk Tsk ManO.....I realize that you are trying to bring back bobby sox with saddle shoes and YES they go great with your poodle skirt but, I am gonna stick with my silk slacks and hi tops.....Don't hate me cause I am beautiful

:)

kissablekiss's photo
Wed 01/26/11 10:48 AM
guess they love the spotlight...
attention probz this came become nerve racking
they ask 'am I hot'
if you ever say NO
they get all mad ...
some folks right stuff just for the sake of writing...

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Wed 01/26/11 10:52 AM



Ok, this isn't the attention whore thread guys :tongue:


Ese you are sexy bigsmile

Krupa, love the wind blown hair and the self grabbing there love
but the shoes have got to go..laugh


Tsk Tsk Tsk ManO.....I realize that you are trying to bring back bobby sox with saddle shoes and YES they go great with your poodle skirt but, I am gonna stick with my silk slacks and hi tops.....Don't hate me cause I am beautiful

:)
yeah I thought you looked real cool till I got to the shoes laugh

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 01/26/11 10:55 AM
I had an opinion but I set it down for just a minute and now I can't find it. sad

fireflysgirl's photo
Wed 01/26/11 11:01 AM
The "do men like BBWs & meaty women" threads are like war zones!UCK!

I have always been overweight & have never had it be an issue with finding friends/dates/lovers etc! Mebbe cuz I accept it as part of who I am & realize that striving to be healthy is more important than my actual weight? IDK, but it doesn't bother me if a man doesn't like me due to that factor...there are plenty of men around that don't care.

I think they want approval to be the way they are instead of letting folks accept them for what they are!

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Wed 01/26/11 11:18 AM
Edited by soufiehere on Wed 01/26/11 11:18 AM


Tsk Tsk Tsk ManO.....I realize that you
are trying to bring back bobby sox with
saddle shoes and YES they go great with
your poodle skirt but, I am gonna stick
with my silk slacks and hi tops.....
Don't hate me cause I am beautiful
:)
yeah I thought you looked
real cool till I got to the shoes laugh

There is the problem ewwie.
You focus on shoes.

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Wed 01/26/11 11:31 AM

Why do people feel they have to be validated to fit in?
"Am I hot", "Am I Pretty", and "Do Men Like A Little Meat On The Bones" etc.....

I read these threads and wonder, why does no one tell them there is no need to be validated other than me?

Isn't the number one rule for a successful life and relationship "to love thy self"?




DONT WORRY IM A MISFIT SO IM CONFUSED ALL OF THE TIME............:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

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Wed 01/26/11 01:19 PM

I had an opinion but I set it down for just a minute and now I can't find it. sad

DOH slaphead

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Wed 01/26/11 01:19 PM



Tsk Tsk Tsk ManO.....I realize that you
are trying to bring back bobby sox with
saddle shoes and YES they go great with
your poodle skirt but, I am gonna stick
with my silk slacks and hi tops.....
Don't hate me cause I am beautiful
:)
yeah I thought you looked
real cool till I got to the shoes laugh

There is the problem ewwie.
You focus on shoes.
eeww nO it babe :wink:

soufiehere's photo
Wed 01/26/11 01:32 PM


There is the problem ewwie.
You focus on shoes.

eeww nO it babe :wink:

This is why you get Wicked Witches
in your life.

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Wed 01/26/11 01:36 PM



There is the problem ewwie.
You focus on shoes.

eeww nO it babe :wink:

This is why you get Wicked Witches
in your life.
I see you've met all my x's ohwell

soufiehere's photo
Wed 01/26/11 01:39 PM

I see you've met all my x's ohwell

Is that how you signed the paperwork?

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Wed 01/26/11 01:40 PM


I see you've met all my x's ohwell

Is that how you signed the paperwork?
I wish grumble

soufiehere's photo
Wed 01/26/11 02:39 PM



I see you've met all my x's ohwell

Is that how you signed the paperwork?

I wish grumble

I always sign my papers 'Minnie Mouse'
to see if they are paying attention.

What Nyteflame said sounds right:

Maslow's Hierarchy places "Belonging" as
the 3rd greatest need (safety, and
physiological needs like food and water
come first). Perhaps this is those people's
way of re-assuring themselves that
this need is met.

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Wed 01/26/11 03:20 PM


I see you've met all my x's ohwell

Is that how you signed the paperwork?
laugh

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Wed 01/26/11 03:22 PM


Why do people feel they have to be validated to fit in?
"Am I hot", "Am I Pretty", and "Do Men Like A Little Meat On The Bones" etc.....

I read these threads and wonder, why does no one tell them there is no need to be validated other than me?

Isn't the number one rule for a successful life and relationship "to love thy self"?







love thy self didn't work too well for pee wee herman

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=du2yf4mFWDY



why - he worked it too much?rofl rofl rofl