Well, after a serious azz chewing from my sister last night about my supposed "ongoing pity party" and "bad attitude" about a prospective love life, I have decided to try and put myself out there again seriously.

So, everyone but Soufie, please take a look at the profile and tell me if I come across as a major ***** or just a minor one. Thanks.

I don't think you are a major asterisk.

minor

looks fantastic

I wish only the best for you my friend.*hugs*

Just a minor b!tch.............

Just minor! I think it's great!! I like the 3rd pic best for your profile tho!!!

I like it Ruth.
Having standards does not make you a b!tch.
You rule.

I've Never seen bad attitude or pity coming from you Ruth...

I think you could put on a clinic of hotness and niceness on mingle

Thank you for taking the time to read it, everyone.

Its so hard to know how people are perceiving you by what you write in your profile. Anyway, it must be working because I already got an email from a man in Mumbai who says he loves me.

Thanks again.

Double post

told ya if ya wanna turn gay im right there with ya lol (((((((((((((((RUTH))))))))))))))))))) ur the best

The quote from Waldo at the end is a bit of a downer. Leave it in if it is truly you. It is for a person who has no future, none to plan for, anyway-- a person who has to give up on learning from the past, since all she can reasonably plan for is one 12-hour period in her immediate future. I am not saying it's bad or good, but if it's not you, I'd take that part out.

On a lighter note...

Tomorrow is a new day;
begin it well and serenely
and with too high a spirit
to be cumbered with
your old nonsense.


"cumber" is not an English word. Does it stand for "encumber" or for "cucumber"?

Both ways the verse make sense, but different senses, that's why I'm asking.

Straight to me, no Azz factor!

Ruth, if you want to have a gender-transfer operation, and then turn gay, I'll marry you.

But first you must turn back to a woman again, do a confessional to a priest, and get a communion, or else shave your head.

No promises, though.

I agree, you are the best!!!

(Or... maybe even better than that. I did not mean to insult you.)

That Mumbai guy does not realize how lucky he is if he plays his cards right.

(I was going to write, "... how lucky he is going to get", but I abandoned that wording... you know, what with the connotation of "get lucky with her".)

Well, I checked and "cumbered" is the word Emerson used. So, you'll have to take that up with him. Perhaps hold a seance?

I disagree with your interpretation of the poem. I don't see it as negative. But, thanks for reading my profile.

I you, Wux.

The Mumbai guy and are planning our wedding now. I have already sent him the money he needs to come to America and a little extra for his mother's surgery she so desperately needs.

you look marvelous darlin, just marvelous!!

Thanks Lori and everyone. YOU all are the ones that rule!

What'd I do?

Nothing. You know I love you and would marry you if I could.

I just always have to be a smart azz.

You have a great sense of humor!