....am wildly curious as to why I am single...( I mean other than I choose to be).

I'm intelligent, confident, can string 3 words together in a mildly coherant manner.

I'm pretty clear in what I say, hard to misconstrue what I am saying...so why does NO-ONE and I mean NO-ONE even ponder learning more about me?

Yes I'm in Australia...yes, I am 46, yes, I have children...


even posting in the forums...my posts sit there with their poor little arses hanging out...and are rarely responded to...except by those who have known me for ever...

What the perkuck is it?

Am I really that scary?

Is everyone really that repulsed by someone who is fairly forthright?

When did 'timid' become the new black???

can I get an "amen" sistah.....

(((Lee)))

Yeah, and you two have known me forever!!!!


You two absolutely kill me!...am roaring with laughter here!

I and I'm sure pmarco agrees, think you're da bomb and well the loss is not yours darlin', but you know that...

what she said....

frankly I find the only ones who can appreciate my "strong" character are usually women...thankfully Im a roaring alcoholic and bisexual...this allows me to put up with mens **** and enjoy the company of women...

geez...I have no hope then!... I don't drink alcohol nor imbibe in mind altering substances...( I figure I already exist in an alternate universe, or so it seems)...

and yes, I agree, I have a plethora of amazing women who call me friend surrounding me...and a handful of equally amazing men who call me friend...(but are slightly fearful of not tip toeing around)..

why?

Because I may call them on their bullsh*te?

I expect EXACTLY the same back, for what I dish out...


yep 'timid' is the new black...

i for one, am afraid to respond in this thread.

We can certainly understand why KC

you just get me




(damn, that is a frightening thought....for you)

I don't know you, but you don't skeer me either.

I am not sure about everyone else, but you are cool with me. Your type of personality is what men don't like. As they used to say in the miltary: If you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen. Besides, it is good to know other people in other places to broaden your horizons and let people know who you are. It is also ok to be you and not allow changes unless you allow them yourself.jmo .

No, you're not scary


It's people living in a fantasy would and when reality is in front of them. That is what scares them.

i'm askeered

I don't know you Jess, but I'd say because you make yourself unapproachable, whether you realize it or not.

That is usually how it goes, seeing you're neither ugly, dumb or deadly contagious.

To make my point, you write initially "I am wildly curious as to why I am single... (I mean other than I choose to be)."

You're saying it is your choice to be single. How then, can you be curious as to why?

You are not opening a door. It is merely the appearance of an open door. Few are fooled. Most stay the distance.

The interesting question is why you do it, but only you can answer that.

Of course my answer is derived from what little I know of you, and I mean no offense, but like you, to say it as I see it.

Just my 2cents and only because you asked.

Best wishes, good luck, have fun.

As a mechanic I usually find the best way to find out why something is not doing what you want it to do is to take it apart piece by piece and examine it.
An engine in it's heart may think that it is a powerful rip roaring V8, but if three of it's cylinders are not firing it's just a chunk of iron that won't get you around the block.

Ok, you either chose to be single or you don't. You can't ask "why am I single" and claim you chose to be.

im just intimidated, i guess

I thought you were married...........

I have no idea how you come across in real life but i dont think you are scary on here. You are not one to **** about, or be ****** about(youre not timid, does that mean you are black?), but i dont see how thats a problem. You may scare off less confident men maybe, or less intelligent ones, but you would probably want an intelliegent confident man anyway. Your main problem on here is because you do live on the worlds arse.