Topic: A MUST list
carold's photo
Sun 11/28/10 09:19 AM

"Must" lists are good if you are here to find someone to date. They allow you to eliminate a lot of folks you might otherwise spend a great deal of time emailing with before you find out what they are really like.
Yeah a few are fine just the on going ones get me flowerforyou

So I have to joke about it:wink:

fireflysgirl's photo
Sun 11/28/10 09:21 AM
haha ya'll are so funny! good thing I finished my coffee before entering here-lol!!!

People make up must rules to avoid what has hurt them in the past! I think they fixate on types too much, but it is much harder to love someone for what they are than what they seem to be or could be.

I had all these crazy ideas of what my mate needed to be like when I got started here & then realized I was just looking for my ex so I re-connected and well...here we go again so I don't have to worry about what anyone else "must have"! Good Luck being that something perfect guys flowerforyou

no photo
Sun 11/28/10 09:22 AM

Does it ever get to you when reading a profile and they have a MUST list grumble I say get out of your comfort zone and live a little :wink:


Nope, it doesn't bother me. If I don't fit their list, I move on. Why should people have to settle for what they don't want just to get out of their comfort zone?

carold's photo
Sun 11/28/10 09:29 AM
Hmmm sounds blah to me. As I said when it just goes on and on. I don't like long profiles either and don't read it all but that is just medrinker Hope you get the humor drinker


Oh boy Mr MUST list wrote me back and he does have a sense of humor guess I'll have to check into this:wink:

carold's photo
Sun 11/28/10 09:30 AM

haha ya'll are so funny! good thing I finished my coffee before entering here-lol!!!

People make up must rules to avoid what has hurt them in the past! I think they fixate on types too much, but it is much harder to love someone for what they are than what they seem to be or could be.

I had all these crazy ideas of what my mate needed to be like when I got started here & then realized I was just looking for my ex so I re-connected and well...here we go again so I don't have to worry about what anyone else "must have"! Good Luck being that something perfect guys flowerforyou
I do like funny enough stress out there.flowerforyou

Simonedemidova's photo
Sun 11/28/10 09:30 AM

like as in what kind of must list,i'm sure they must have a pulse would be a recommended must to most


Your so silly Riskit! You know some people prefer they dont have a pulse----just sayin!

bastet126's photo
Sun 11/28/10 09:31 AM
i don't let it bother me, i just add them to the no column, they failed in my 'must have an open mind' list. laugh :tongue:

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 11/28/10 09:32 AM

i don't let it bother me, i just add them to the no column, they failed in my 'must have an open mind' list. laugh :tongue:

laugh

carold's photo
Sun 11/28/10 09:35 AM

i don't let it bother me, i just add them to the no column, they failed in my 'must have an open mind' list. laugh :tongue:
You go sista!laugh laugh laugh rofl rofl rofl

krupa's photo
Sun 11/28/10 09:36 AM
As I think about it....I would bet money that if I put up a must list of the traits of my ex's...I would be hooked up (and forbidden to come back here) within a week.

Must be at least fair looking.

Must gripe ALOT!

Must have experience cheating/fooling around or garauntee that you will dump me for someone who will treat you like meat.

Must expect me to completely break all contact with my friends and Want me to be happy that all of my social contact will be you or your freakshow family.

Must make plans with all of my money and time off but, you cant let me know about it till the last minute.


I really think that this could work!

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 11/28/10 09:36 AM

Morning Kristy! You know I am only speaking the truth doll.

Hate to say it but, you struck out on my "Must" list......"#273: Must happily show boobies on demand"

You had your chance darlin...but noooooooooooooooooo

I guess this forever dooms us to friendship.


:laughing: :laughing: Krupa that showing the boobie on demand seems to knock me out many times guess it goes along with the 68 as well....slaphead :laughing: :laughing: rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl oops


Ohhhhhhhhh well guess we will have to remain friends only....winking

burgundybry's photo
Sun 11/28/10 09:37 AM
Non comformist here..must my azz!!, laugh laugh

carold's photo
Sun 11/28/10 09:41 AM
That is why you are my friend Bry we think alike:wink:

krupa's photo
Sun 11/28/10 09:41 AM
Wait a minute!!!!!

Kristy wont 68?!?!?!?!?! Get the hell away from me woman!



hehehehehehehehehe


no, seriously.....I dont want that to rub off on the other chicks..........

carold's photo
Sun 11/28/10 09:42 AM

As I think about it....I would bet money that if I put up a must list of the traits of my ex's...I would be hooked up (and forbidden to come back here) within a week.

Must be at least fair looking.

Must gripe ALOT!

Must have experience cheating/fooling around or garauntee that you will dump me for someone who will treat you like meat.

Must expect me to completely break all contact with my friends and Want me to be happy that all of my social contact will be you or your freakshow family.

Must make plans with all of my money and time off but, you cant let me know about it till the last minute.


I really think that this could work!
I feel for yah if you had to put up with thisflowerforyou

seamac's photo
Sun 11/28/10 09:42 AM

As I think about it....I would bet money that if I put up a must list of the traits of my ex's...I would be hooked up (and forbidden to come back here) within a week.

Must be at least fair looking.

Must gripe ALOT!

Must have experience cheating/fooling around or garauntee that you will dump me for someone who will treat you like meat.

Must expect me to completely break all contact with my friends and Want me to be happy that all of my social contact will be you or your freakshow family.

Must make plans with all of my money and time off but, you cant let me know about it till the last minute.


I really think that this could work!



And you gave all these partners "Ogod" moments...something very wrong with this picture and I must know what it is!! LOL

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 11/28/10 09:45 AM

Wait a minute!!!!!

Kristy wont 68?!?!?!?!?! Get the hell away from me woman!



hehehehehehehehehe


no, seriously.....I dont want that to rub off on the other chicks..........


Hahahah never said what I won't do just those damn IOU's keep piling up.......slaphead rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl


oops ............think I've said enough off to my corner hehehe

krupa's photo
Sun 11/28/10 09:48 AM


As I think about it....I would bet money that if I put up a must list of the traits of my ex's...I would be hooked up (and forbidden to come back here) within a week.

Must be at least fair looking.

Must gripe ALOT!

Must have experience cheating/fooling around or garauntee that you will dump me for someone who will treat you like meat.

Must expect me to completely break all contact with my friends and Want me to be happy that all of my social contact will be you or your freakshow family.

Must make plans with all of my money and time off but, you cant let me know about it till the last minute.


I really think that this could work!



And you gave all these partners "Ogod" moments...something very wrong with this picture and I must know what it is!! LOL



That's easy: When a man gets a hardon...all logic goes right out the damned window.



Oh yeah! THE important one to add to my list: Must have a bizarre name. (not kidding!) ALL of my serious relationships have been with women with wierd names......Desrah,Nilka,Echo,Elvira, Shawnalee

no photo
Sun 11/28/10 09:50 AM

Does it ever get to you when reading a profile and they have a MUST list grumble I say get out of your comfort zone and live a little :wink:


There are times I wonder about it -- like, when they say "looking for someone 25-27" or something. So, someone could be a total match but be 24 or 28 and they're out of the running.

On the other hand, I have a "must list" of my own, so I can't be too judgmental about other people's.


no photo
Sun 11/28/10 09:52 AM
Ima gonna hafta cast my lot with krupa on some of this. and bastet too, as I also get a little nervous about must lists - read: inflexible, demanding, fussy

but some of the stuff - like camping. spock camping is usually on the men's lists: must love camping & the outdoors? why? when there's a perfectly comfortable bed indoors. with the money spent on all of that equipment, gasoline and site fees, you could afford the Hilton in Palm Beach for a month. So while Mr "I love Camping" in lugging equipment and gassing up the RV, I'll be poolside....see ya dude!

camping to me is on the scale with picnics and croutons as the least necessary items in lifetongue2

1. who wants seasoned stale bread? 2. Why drag everything outside and watch ants crawling in the potato salad while napkins blow around the yard?

I just don't get it - guess I better pack up & head back to planet romulanwaving