I'm trying to get better at meeting women and would like some tips for how to approach them that will make them at least more open and receptive to me, even if nothing becomes of it.

Also, what are some examples of being approached that turns you OFF, so I make sure not to do that. Thanks.

Act like you deserve them.

i go with a straight on approach. i walk up to a woman i am interested in, grab her by the throat, and say **** or fight. gotta admit i've gotten beaten up a few times, but this one time...

Dont act cocky...and treat them like they are people, because we are people, no sexual objects.
Basically I like the whole, glances from across the room and a shy smile when I finally meet their eye. Just subltle ****, and Im extremely shy, but after that I tend to approach them.
XD
Hope this helps?
P.s. Do Not refer to your penis at all when you first meet. We don't think about it, and don't xpect you to either. We just met for god sakes I do not want to hear about your "baby arm"

well..................


I like it foward and honest..............


hate the blushing...shy....kinda guy......makes me nervous!


tell me what ya want...what your lookin for and how i fit in....




thats it!

dude your forgetting the most important part. it doesnt matter what is really said, its how you say it and the confidence level you say it in. these days men are jaded and ask alot of questions to try to make things more comfortable instead this pushes women further away. follow your instincts lead the woman where you want to go but let her be independant (order her own drinks and food) every girl wants a confident man. try it. just be the man and watch the women attract.

Shshhs just say hi and say something either intelligent or funny and then make sure you can carry on a conversation after you get it started.

Myself I prefer one that has a sense of humor...... But.........can carry on a conversation as well....

LOL My fav way for a guy to come up to me is for him to try a lame pick up line (knowings its lame) and we both laugh about it. I think it breaks the ice wonderfully to start with a laugh.

in that case we need to rearrange the alphabet and put U and I together

Tell em we got a situation

OMG-that is way hawter than "u wanna go muddin' sweetness"! You are a sexy beast ese!

are women but seen as "candy" in a candy store, that one wishes to use the "correct speak" to purchase or attain for self?

is it a good goal to "not" turn off a women?

what is wrong with turning off a women?

if you can turn her off, saying what comes naturally, doing what comes naturally, then this just means this women does not understand you, or values different, so wants different things than you want?

to do this, would leave one but constantly trying to prove it's own value to another human.

not a happy place to exist at all.

the happy place is there be no need to prove self's value at all.

one would actually fail if it tryed to "change" itself, to suite this other it wishes something from anyhow?

should all humans want the same things, and speak the same words?

hell no...

so, to even begin to first change the way one speaks, or the "want", to suite another, will simply put one with someone they are not truly compatible with.

fine, if one knows such is going to occur in advance, and is then ok with this...

but then TWO would have to be ok with this in advance...

lol...

does not a man wish to speak his whole mind, be his total self, and not be considered as less or inadequate for it?

does not a women wish to speak her whole mind, and be her total self, and not be considered as less, or inadequate for it?

of course...

so, if self but first speaks it's whole self, and does what it wants to do, then this would be how one could lead itself to another that "thinks" along the same lines as self, and is happy with the REAL PERSON AND WANTS of the other?

so, this would more gaurantee success of finding what does not see or hear words or actions as less or inadequate?

if self be a player, then find a player women...

if self be a one night stand kinda thing, then find a one night kinda thing women...

and agree in advance what the true motive be.

no harm, no foul, no pretense, no fake.

don't try to change a "long term relationship women", into what self wishes, just because she is beautiful...

indeed, why a more beautiful women has a huge disadvantage, as more men speak the bs to them but to aquire for self agenda.

and a more handsome man the same...

lol...

say what YOU FEEL LIKE SAYING, when you feel like saying it, how you feel like saying it...

it should not be the same speak with each women anyhow, as each women is different, so self should FEEL DIFFERENT when interacting with each one, if it actually SEE'S that person...

of course, seeing women as but an "object", there to provide gratification to self, will not allow this much?

no pick up line, or rehearsed speak, or fake word or action is going to attain what self really wants, as it will but attract a women that uses rehearsed fake speak and action herself, which in the end, neither one or two shall be happy with...

what is the number one goal of humans?

happy?

if ya change your happy, which is the whole yourself, to make another happy, to GET FOR SELF, the short happy self gets via this way shall be short indeed?

lest one thinks it can transcribe a list of desirable traits of self, from another human, and wa lah, make self into that?

lol...

yes, but such be the natural inclination when trying to "procure for self", which be why such will continually and perpetually fail to create happiness for TWO...

speak yourself, for better or worst, and then let the cards fall where they may.

for if it was the true self, would self need to "borrow" lines from another human, or even from a book, as some guide?

lol...

hardly so.

to speak with prestense, or but to aquire hidden motive or self agenda alone, but sabotage oneself.

The hands down best way to approach a woman is from the rear in a ski mask. Best of luck to ya.

Treat them like people? Don't talk about your penis?! What madness is this?!!

"Ladies, how do you prefer to be approached by a man?"


from what i read in another thread, the answer is quite simple...from behind!

Madness! The world is going insane!

With absolute unabashed confidence