Do you ever question yourself? Ask why you can't find someone, why they keep leaving you? Is there something you can't see ,are you that ugly where you will be alone?

i don't question myself on what i decide to do. i just follow myself around b*tching and moaning about everything. usually until i get so sick of hearing my own voice that i get drunk and kick my own *ss.

if the same thing keeps happening, i think you do have to question yourself. most time though, it's picking people that are unhealthy for us in the first place. step outside the box and look at the choices you are making.

Yeah... I thought i was the **** poo poo, think again lol. I shouldnt force anything thats my biggest thing

Sometimes I question myself. I question myself on why I don't get out enough to find a man rather than go to work then go home. Work, home, work, home...in that pattern. And my job's by a military base too. Shucks!

I just don't get it. I have dated many type of guys an most have dropped me. Or I end up in the friend zone. *sigh* I don't understand.

have you tried a long haired, mustache wearing, motorcycle riding chicano from san antonio?

Not from San Antonio...;)

i hear those guys in san antonio are really dreamy

what I question myself about is what needs are going unmet that drive me to continuously follow the same patterns that end up with the same results...

I then either try to resolve the need or just learn to live with the failed behavior...

alcohol, solitude and pc games help a lot.

No I don't and thats because i'm honest with myself and what i'm looking for. Now if the person i'm with is not, thats where things change. Being a long haired changes things up these days for me, but it doesn't stop me. I know i'm attractive, i'm not hot but not a lot of women like long hair so pickings are very few for me. I would say a lot of people don't know what they want or looking for so their not serious, and being on the net it can become one big game. It's just a matter in how I present myself and what i'm interested in. See, what I'm attracted to and what is right for me are two different things. So to sum this up. It's all in your actions and what you see in a person or choose to see in a person will make the out come.

I know exactly why I can't find anybody, and I'm OK with it. And it's basically irrelevant anyway, since there's nothing I can do about it.

ummmm......

maybe once.........

but I found that answer at the bottom of a bottle of 151.......


since then............

the only trouble I have is remembering their damn names!

IL help you, their names were J and D

Every damn day!

But I just whip out the list of 101 reasons for it and plop my finger down with eyes closed and go with that excuse for the day. Who knows what the reason will be tomorrow?!

Seems today it's because I'm anti-social by nature!

hey...


how did you know?????????????????

There is one common denominator in all of my failures......me.

Same applies to everyone.

Aint no one else to blame (though it is easy to pawn it off as their fault)

99 percent of all the answers we seek can be found in one place.....a mirror.

Hope that makes it easier for ya.

Yeah, it's all your fault Krups.

In stereo....that was your fault, too...